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You want a Japanese dining experience that feels intentional enough for a date but keeps the focus on the food.

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Tonkatsu restaurant

Intimate setting with about 18 seats and a semi-open kitchen creates a contemporary Japanese atmosphere. Wooden tables, elegant glassware, and wabi sabi decor evoke a cozy Tokyo alley vibe. The space maintains a quiet, adult-only energy suited for special occasions.

Offers a tonkotsu omakase tasting menu focused on dry age pork tonkatsu and creative appetizers. Add-ons include tuna sashimi, A5 wagyu, and menchi katsu for a unique Japanese food experience.

People are saying

"This Japanese dining experience felt truly unique and amazing."

"This Japanese food is an explosive pleasure, truly amazing."

"The service here makes it a perfect spot for date nights."

Good to know

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Reservations are required as they only seat 18 guests per night.

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No children or babies are allowed in the restaurant.

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The prix fixe menu costs $150 for 10-12 courses before tax and fees.

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Japanese restaurant offers a cozy romantic ambiance with soft, intimate lighting and anime decor that creates a calm, mood-lit atmosphere. Energetic yet relaxing, it features a sushi counter that draws a mix of locals and travelers. The vibe blends izakaya-style chic with authentic Japanese culinary tradition.

Nigiri omakase offers phenomenal quality with a great fish selection including fatty cuts like bluefin breast and buttery snapper. Dishes like flame torched saba and tri-tip katsu stand out, all at a very reasonable price point.

Soft, intimate lighting creates a cozy atmosphere for date nights or quiet evenings. The setting works well for both romantic dinners and catching up with friends.

People are saying

"The omakase nigiri here is amazing and a great value."

"The Japanese Food here, especially the Mentaiko Udon, is rich without being heavy."

"This sushi spot is a hidden gem with a cozy, romantic ambiance."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended for the omakase experience, especially on weekends.

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Expect wait times of over 30 minutes during peak dinner hours.

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The omakase experience typically costs around $160 per person before tax and tip.

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Authentic Japanese restaurant

Space offers authentic Japanese ambiance with curated lighting and pleasant music creating a relaxed vibe. Guests find it cozy and inviting, suitable for quiet conversation or casual dining. Live blue fin tuna cutting adds a unique, engaging element to the experience.

Kaiseki here offers small revelations with each plate, featuring sashimi so pure it tastes like the memory of the ocean. Sushi rice stands out as some of the best, and the sukiyaki with Washu beef is melt-in-the-mouth tender.

Offers a chill vibe ideal for relaxed dates or dinners. Suitable for casual celebrations like birthday lunches.

People are saying

"This lunch spot's authentic Japanese food is phenomenal and worth the price."

"You have to see the live bluefin tuna cutting with Japanese food!"

"The food here is so fresh and delicious, perfect for date spots."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended for special events like live tuna cutting.

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The restaurant is run by a husband-and-wife duo, adding a personal touch.

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The menu changes daily, offering a surprise with each visit.

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Sushi restaurant

Small sushi restaurant with a modern yet cozy interior and stylish, relaxed vibe. Atmosphere feels comfortable and clean, blending trendy and intimate elements. Quiet and peaceful setting suits casual dining.

Sushi features super fresh cuts of tuna, salmon, and amberjack with perfectly seasoned rice. The futomaki called “The Roll” blends sashimi with a unique seasoning for great flavor at an affordable price.

Sushi options like chirashi and The Roll fit well for date nights. The spot works for celebrations with thoughtful touches like a birthday cheesecake.

People are saying

"The Japanese food here is delicious, especially the sushi and miso soup."

"The sushi here is so fresh and delicious."

"The Date Spots here have super fresh, tasty sashimi."

Good to know

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The hand rolls start at $6, offering great quality for the price.

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The restaurant opened in December 2024, making it a newer establishment.

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The rolls used to come with 10 pieces, but now they come with 6.

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Space combines high ceilings and elegant decor with varied seating options including lounge and bar-height seats. Atmosphere stays relaxed and lively with music at a level that allows conversation even when crowded. Well-behaved dogs are welcome, adding to the friendly vibe.

Crunchy textures stand out in the Katsu Loco Moco and Menchi Katsu Burger. Sauces like miso and gorgonzola blend well, especially on the wings and burgers. Gyoza dumplings and cajun waffle fries add variety to the flavors.

Chill ambiance sets a relaxed tone for nights out. The spot suits date nights and friendly get-togethers well.

People are saying

"The food here is rich, flavorful, and delicious."

"I found the Japanese food here to be delicious."

"The drinks here are outstanding and creatively made."

Good to know

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Happy hour runs from 4-6pm with a selection of food and drinks.

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They offer $2 oysters during happy hour, making it a great deal.

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Parking can be difficult, so plan accordingly before your visit.

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Peruvian restaurant

Covered outdoor patio with fireplace table and live Spanish guitar creates a stylish, sophisticated atmosphere. Tables sit close together, making conversations audible and the vibe intimate. Cocktails, especially pisco sours, and authentic Peruvian dishes define the experience.

Sashimi arrives from a smoked container, highlighting its freshness and presentation. The ahi tuna tiraditos and salmon brulee starters offer delicious, fresh flavors that stand out.

People are saying

"The dinner here is incredible, especially the ceviche and Lomo Saltado."

"The Date Spots here have tender octopus and fantastic beef tenderloin."

"The sashimi here is incredibly fresh and delicious."

Good to know

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Happy hour runs from 4 to 6pm with a special menu.

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Pisco tasting events occur occasionally; check the schedule.

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Reservations are recommended, especially on weekends.

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Sushi takeaway

Minimalist Japanese design shapes a calm, upscale takeout spot with wood paneling and artful sushi presentation. The atmosphere feels like a high-end boutique, drawing attention with its striking storefront and carefully crafted sushi boxes. Sushi quality is consistently fresh and expertly prepared, matching the refined setting.

Sushi here is fresh, high-quality, and expertly prepared with a presentation that stands out. Takeout options include beautifully packaged sushi and tuna dons, all tasting incredible and comparable to omakase-level dining.

Quality sushi and maki create a solid dining experience for couples. The spot suits both casual park dates and more intimate outings.

People are saying

"The Japanese food here is mindblowingly good and beautifully presented."

"The takeout sushi here is exceptional, with fresh fish."

"The sushi here is so fresh, it's perfect for Date Spots."

Good to know

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Preordering is highly recommended to avoid disappointment as they sell out quickly.

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The omakase box costs $55 for lunch, while regular boxes are $40 each.

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The restaurant opens at 11:00 AM, and lines start forming around 10:30 AM.

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Brazilian steakhouse with modern luxurious ambiance and cozy, well-lit interior creates a warm, welcoming atmosphere. Live music and a full sushi bar with vegetarian options add to the vibrant energy. Quality meats cooked to perfection and a standout bar contribute to a memorable dining experience.

Buffet includes a full sushi bar with fresh sashimi and vegetarian options. Salad bar offers fresh choices alongside sushi and finger foods.

A spot for special occasions with a Brazilian steakhouse vibe. It suits date nights well and offers consistent quality across visits.

People are saying

"This Brazilian steakhouse is the best I've been to in the Bay Area."

"The meat here is the best I've ever had, perfect for date spots."

"The sushi and sashimi here are so fresh and delicious."

Good to know

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Happy hour is available daily from 3 PM to 7 PM.

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Brunch is served on Sundays, starting January 25, 2026.

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Reservations can be made easily and quickly.

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Sunken tables with traditional Japanese seating create an authentic dining experience. The atmosphere is modern and lively, with private karaoke rooms adding entertainment options. Music videos from early 2000s to Top 40s play, attracting a young crowd ready to enjoy Asian Fusion Modern vibes.

Sushi and sashimi come fresh and well-crafted with custom rolls and a sushi omakase that impresses. The Gyutan curry donburi offers tender stewed beef tongue with a slight heat, served over rice for a reasonable price.

Several smaller dishes come out for sharing, all delicious and well-prepared. The setting suits a date night with a relaxed vibe.

People are saying

"The Japanese food here, especially the sushi, is fresh and delicious."

"I loved their happy hour menu; the sushi and appetizers were a great deal."

"The Date Spots here have delicious fresh fish and rolls."

Good to know

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Happy hour runs from 4-6 PM with discounted appetizers and rolls.

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They offer a late night reverse happy hour for late diners.

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Expect to remove your shoes before being seated.

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Italian restaurant

Open kitchen with art deco ceiling and wood-fired oven creates a stylish, cozy space with a cool 60s vibe. Atmosphere blends Italian-Japanese fusion energy with elegant, tasteful decor. Bar area offers creative cocktails that complement the innovative menu.

Dishes blend Japanese and Italian cuisines with unique combos like okonomiyaki pizza and uni tagliatelle. Crunchy tempura textures appear in maki rolls and crudo, while sushi features bold twists like tuna with Genovese pesto and gamberi with burrata.

Elegant decor creates a tasty and intimate vibe ideal for a first date. A bar area with cocktail tables suits couples and solos looking for a quick drink or bite without reservations.

People are saying

"The food here is a surprisingly well-combined Italian-Japanese fusion."

"I loved the creative Italian-Japanese fusion food here."

"It's a great spot for Date Spots, blending Italian and Japanese cuisine."

Good to know

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DJ music starts at 8pm on event nights.

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Reservations are recommended for the tasting menu experience.

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Parking is ample and available nearby.

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Japanese restaurant

Japanese restaurant offers simple, Japanese-inspired decor with a chill, small-town vibe and fun, personalized details. Atmosphere stays quiet during meals despite occasional chaos when busy. Free noodle refills and homemade noodles add to the authentic experience.

Authentic Tokyo style ramen shines here with rich Tonkotsu broth and tender braised pork belly. The Miso Ramen blends white and red miso for a creamy, well-balanced flavor, and each order includes a free noodle refill.

Tonkotsu broth stands out with its rich flavor. Sharing karaage, takoyaki, and tonkotsu ramen with extra charsiu meat makes for a tasty date meal.

People are saying

"I found the ramen broth to be full of flavor."

"The Japanese food here, especially the ramen, has a seriously good, flavorful broth."

"The tonkotsu ramen here is perfectly balanced and tasty."

Good to know

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There is a 15% discount available until the end of May 2025.

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Each ramen order comes with one free noodle refill.

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I paid approximately $15 for the tonkotsu ramen, which is a good value.

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Restaurant

Restaurant offers individual induction hot pots built into tables, creating a clean and sleek dining setup. Atmosphere feels bright and casual with Japanese-inspired details and a quiet vibe even during busy times. Space is cozy and chic, blending modern design with a subtle Asian influence.

Soft-shell crab tempura and Sukiyaki Nabe with American Wagyu short ribs stand out for their rich flavors and quality ingredients. Udon dishes come perfectly cooked and full of depth, while teriyaki-glazed crusts add a smoky touch.

Large portions and a mix of dishes like the Wagyu Chuck and Nabe set make sharing easy. Casual vibes and thoughtful interior design suit a relaxed date around the third meeting.

People are saying

"The sukiyaki hot pot here is amazing, especially the quality of the meat."

"The nabe here is something I would dream about."

"The food here is comforting, flavorful, and beautifully done."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended due to high demand during dinner hours.

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Each person receives their own pot for cooking at the table.

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Expect generous portion sizes; two people can share one pot plus a side.

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Restaurant

Restaurant blends Mediterranean and Japanese fusion cuisine with creative craft cocktails in a space that balances cozy charm and Michelin-star sophistication. Atmosphere feels stylish and comfortable, inviting for intimate dinners or special occasions. Art from local artists and a beautiful private room add unique touches.

Mediterranean-inspired Japanese cuisine blends Syrian and Japanese flavors uniquely. The hamachi features high-quality fish with a balanced sweet and sour ponzu that highlights clarity and restraint.

Ambience suits intimate dinners and date nights with a cozy, inviting feel. Food quality supports a special occasion or casual romantic meal.

People are saying

"The Date Spots here have outstanding, flavorful dishes like octopus and ravioli."

"The cocktails here were excellent and tasty."

"The Japanese Food here is great, with attentive and friendly staff."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended, especially for dinner service.

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Parking is available right out front, making it convenient.

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Prices are reasonable compared to other restaurants in the area.

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Bistro

Small modern bistro with warm wooden decor and multiple intimate dining areas, including a hidden outdoor patio with heaters. Atmosphere feels cozy and romantic, especially during sunset. Guests enjoy a blend of refined French and California cuisine in a quiet, private setting.

Fresh, high-quality sea bream sashimi stands out with a unique twist on traditional Japanese style. Dishes like haddock croquettes and lobster fricassee come with careful presentation and bold flavors.

A hidden gem with a great ambience sets the tone for a lovely evening perfect for date nights.

People are saying

"The French food here is amazing, with staff who are warm and knowledgeable."

"The food here is unique and flavorful, especially the small plates."

"The sea bream sashimi here is a must-try."

Good to know

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Caché has a seasonal menu that changes regularly.

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Reservations are recommended, especially on weekends.

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Expect higher prices for unique dishes, with some items over $20.

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Small, thoughtfully designed tea house nestled within gorgeous gardens featuring koi ponds and botanical terrain. Atmosphere feels serene and elegant, ideal for quiet reflection or romantic daytime visits. Crowds can disrupt the calm, but the setting remains visually stunning and peaceful.

Udon soup features a deep fish flavor and noodles with a perfect texture. Chicken karaage, mochi ice cream, and jasmine tea are common choices, alongside sweet soy sauce dango and matcha cheesecake.

Setting suits romantic daytime dates and self reflection. Lunch offers a perfect couples outing with miso soup and green tea well received.

People are saying

"The Japanese Tea House is a calm, beautiful spot with a serene garden view."

"You've got to try the Japanese Food, especially the mochi ice cream."

"It's a spectacular setting for romantic daytime dates."

Good to know

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Access to the Tea House requires paying to enter the Japanese Tea Garden.

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I paid an entrance fee of $15 at the Japanese Tea House.

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The menu prices at the Japanese Tea House were reasonable.

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Sushi restaurant

Sushi restaurant offers unique cart service with small plates delivered Dim Sum-style, creating an interactive dining experience. Interior blends cozy, chic design with an elegant yet casual vibe across two floors. Menu includes a large vegan selection alongside fresh, high-quality nigiri and specialty rolls.

Sushi here features innovative pairings like uni on tuna and a sushi cart offering an omakase experience with chef's choice dishes. The nigiri rice stands out as some of the best, and vegan sushi options are also available and well-crafted.

A great spot for dates with an extensive list of vegetarian and vegan rolls. The owner and Chef Tom create a welcoming vibe that suits both intimate evenings and group celebrations.

People are saying

"The vegetarian rolls here are creative and really good."

"The vegetarian and vegan rolls here are creative and amazing."

"I haven't had cheaper nigiri of this caliber anywhere."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended as the restaurant fills up quickly.

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The restaurant operates on a no-tip model, including service fees in menu prices.

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Expect to pay around $40 per person without drinks.

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Japanese restaurant

Small space with limited seating creates a cozy but crowded atmosphere. Loud and disorganized environment contrasts with a great playlist that adds to the vibe. Popular spot mainly for takeout, often busy with long waits and tight quarters.

Bentoboxes come with beautiful presentation and unique flavors. Salmon sashimi with ikura tastes fresh and melts in your mouth, while the Karaage Chicken offers a solid classic option. Mochi matcha and fruit lattes provide sweet, satisfying drinks.

Truffle salmon bento stands out as a rich, savory option for couples. Red bean mochi matcha offers a sweet, unique dessert to share after the meal.

People are saying

"The matcha drinks here are a perfect 10/10, especially the strawberry."

"The salmon here is buttery smooth and not fishy at all."

"The matcha lattes here are worth the price."

Good to know

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Komeya No Bento is mainly a to-go place with limited indoor seating.

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Expect long wait times, especially during peak hours.

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Ordering online is recommended to avoid long lines.

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Japanese restaurant

Interior features floral rose wall and cute decor creating a cozy, inviting atmosphere with pleasant music. The vibe suits dates and outings with friends, filled with laughter and good energy. Generous portions and a friendly, efficient staff add to the welcoming feel.

Katsu stands out with options like slow-cooked tonkatsu that is super tender and crispy. Chicken katsu and cheese tonkatsu come out delicious and tender, while salmon teriyaki is cooked just right.

Cute and fun ambiance suits dates well. The sashimi bowl stands out as a highlight, though portions like the sashimi donburi feel small. Food and service run slow, with waits around 30 minutes for dishes like the cheese pork tonkatsu.

People are saying

"I thought the sake was great, along with the food."

"The Japanese food, especially the katsu, is fantastic and perfectly cooked."

"The food here is fresh, delicious, and authentically prepared."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended to avoid crowds, especially during peak hours.

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Each entree includes miso soup, salad, and small side vegetables.

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Portions are large and suitable for sharing.

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Shabu-shabu restaurant

Small, rustic shabu-shabu restaurant offers an intimate setting with partially screened tables and a cozy, welcoming vibe. Laughter and friendly chatter fill the air without overwhelming noise, even during busy times. Known for outstanding Wagyu beef, personal hot pot options, and excellent value, it blends casual atmosphere with authentic Japanese hot pot experience.

Offers authentic Japanese hot pot with excellent US Wagyu beef options. The all-you-can-eat shabu shabu menu provides a fun and delicious dining experience with attentive service guiding you through the process.

Plastic drink containers add a casual touch to the experience. Shabu shabu offers an interactive meal that invites sharing and conversation. Returning multiple times shows it fits well for relaxed, engaging dates.

People are saying

"The Japanese hot pot here is delicious and authentic."

"The Wagyu here is fantastic and a great steal for-real steal."

"The service here makes it a great spot for a date."

Good to know

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The cost ranges from $30 to $60 for all-you-can-eat options.

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Each table has an electric burner for cooking your own shabu shabu.

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The restaurant does not charge any additional service or health fees.

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Yakitori restaurant

Small, cozy yakitori restaurant with authentic Japanese ambiance and traditional decorations. Atmosphere stays calm and quiet even when full, with a clean, modern interior and kitchen in view. Offers high-quality skewers and a variety of sake and beers, creating a relaxed dining experience.

Charcoal grilling gives the yakitori a nicely smoky flavor with options like thigh, skin, heart, and Wagyu with wasabi. The menu stays focused on grilled chicken skewers served in a casual yet precise atmosphere reminiscent of Tokyo's yakitori spots.

Dinner offers a cozy setting for couples with options like the 3 meat skewers box and a deluxe lunch set that stands out. Bento boxes and seafood sets provide variety for shared meals.

People are saying

"The yakitori, especially the grilled thighs and bonjiri, were delicious."

"The Japanese food, especially the yakitori, was tender and delicious."

"The food here is delicious, especially the meat skewers."

Good to know

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Reservations are not accepted; a walk-in waiting list is available with 35-55 minute wait times.

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A 5.2% 'SF Mandate' charge is added to the bill without prior notice.

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The skewers are priced at $5 each, which is reasonable for the quality.

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Hotel offers quiet rooms with breathtaking views and a rooftop indoor pool. The atmosphere is cozy and welcoming, with clean, elegant common areas and thoughtful details. Amenities include a 24-hour gym, sauna, and a lounge with snacks and drinks.

Sushi stands out with exceptional vegetarian options and fresh quality. The Japanese Bento breakfast offers a tasty start alongside a buffet mixing American and Japanese dishes.

Rooms welcome couples and small pets, creating a cozy setting for honeymooners. Weekend stays offer a relaxed vibe ideal for a romantic getaway.

People are saying

"This Hotel Nikko is in a really desirable, central location."

"The staff here are so caring and charismatic, making it a great spot."

"The Japanese Food here is excellent and the staff were great."

Good to know

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Guests have access to a breakfast buffet and happy hour with room reservations.

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Happy hour features wine and charcuterie from 5-7 pm.

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Open mic night at Feinstein's offers a unique entertainment option.

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Modern interior with emerald green and gold accents creates a cozy yet stylish atmosphere. Downstairs feels relaxed and intimate, while the rooftop offers a scenic city view and lively energy. The space suits both quiet dinners and social gatherings, blending great music with a welcoming vibe.

High quality ingredients shine in the sushi and seafood dishes. Unique combinations like octopus with Kabocha squash tempura and a special uni roll stand out. Nigiri melts in your mouth, and rolls like the lima roll with shrimp tempura and yellowtail tuna deliver consistent flavor.

Sushi stands out as a top choice for date nights here. The setting suits both romantic dinners and outings with friends, making it a versatile spot for social evenings.

People are saying

"The Japanese food here is unique and delicious, especially the uni roll."

"I thought the dinner spots were insanely delicious."

"The Wagyu Sando here is mouthwatering and worth the visit."

Good to know

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Happy hour menu is available daily from 4-6pm with discounted drinks.

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Reservations are recommended for weekends to avoid long wait times.

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Expect a 20% service charge added to all dining bills.

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