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Jewelry store

Small shop features beautifully curated jewelry and a friendly shop dog that adds to a warm, low-key vibe. The atmosphere feels inviting and relaxed, with options for permanent and customizable pieces.

Couples create custom bracelets with flexible metal mixing. Matching permanent jewelry offers a unique and sweet experience for dates.

A queer woman-owned business runs this place, offering beautiful and dainty pieces for jewelry collections. Supporting this female queer owned spot feels meaningful and authentic.

People are saying

"I got permanent jewelry here and it was a great experience."

"Annie made me feel comfortable and explained everything clearly."

"Getting matching permanent bracelets here makes for a perfect date spot."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended for groups, especially for events like bachelorette parties.

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The permanent jewelry process includes customization options for chain length and engraving.

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Pink Pearl offers a warranty on their jewelry for peace of mind.

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Spacious venue with retro decor and eclectic furniture creates a welcoming, warm atmosphere. Live music and a versatile layout support events from group meetings to parties, while play areas and a marketplace add unique community touches.

A lovely venue that suits couples well. It hosts wedding receptions and works as a solid spot for special date occasions.

Spacious and welcoming, the space feels safe for LGBTQ+ folks and supports queer people openly. It hosts many lesbian-centered events and community gatherings like queer book clubs and local music sessions.

People are saying

"This bar is a welcoming space for community events and local artists."

"It's a welcoming, safe space for the LGBTQ+ community."

"This venue is a great spot for wedding receptions and other celebrations."

Good to know

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There is plenty of parking available right at the venue.

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The venue has an accessible layout, including wheelchair accessibility and gender-neutral bathrooms.

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They have a calendar with events like comedy night and live music.

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Small sports bar with tons of TVs showing women's sports creates a communal, lively atmosphere. Space includes a welcoming basement with pool table and a back patio for hanging out. Crowd is inclusive and passionate, making it a safe spot for fans to connect.

Frequent visits show this spot works well for couples hanging out together. It offers a casual vibe where pairs can relax and enjoy time with friends or just each other.

A queer-owned space creates a welcoming vibe here. It stands out as a definitive lesbian spot with a focus on women's sports.

People are saying

"They had the women's sports I wanted to watch on every TV."

"I loved the great beer selection, especially the non-alcoholic options."

"The atmosphere here is great for Date Spots."

Good to know

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The bar only serves cans and drafts, with no wine or liquor outside of RTDs.

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Guests are free to bring in takeout from adjacent restaurants.

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The 99ers Sports Bar focuses primarily on women's sports.

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Bright, colorful salon with a fun rainbow aesthetic creates a welcoming queer space that feels safe and inclusive. The atmosphere stays calm and friendly, with a chill vibe and kind staff. It serves as a community hub offering hair, nails, makeup, and tattoo services.

Couples enjoy perfect haircuts and couples manicures here. Staff stays accommodating to both partners during pedicures and other services.

A queer safe haven offering hair, nails, and tattoos in a welcoming space. It provides inclusive alt/queer cuts and a positive LGBTQ+ spa experience.

People are saying

"I felt so comfortable and at ease discussing my goals."

"It's a safe, inclusive queer space that feels really welcoming."

"This place is so cute and welcoming for a date spot."

Good to know

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Sinners Salon is a community hub offering hair, nails, and tattoo services.

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Parking is easy right out front of the salon.

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They offer a 'pay what you can' pricing model on specific days.

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Book store

Bookstore combines romance-themed decor with a cozy atmosphere and inclusive vibe. Features include secret 18+ room and diverse sections like LGBT+ BIPOC and historical romance. Spaces invite browsing and relaxing with unique, well-arranged selections.

Plenty of comfortable seating lets partners relax while browsing. Unique blind date book packages add a fun twist to the experience. The overall aesthetic creates a cozy, inviting vibe for couples.

A safe space for women and LGBTQ+ folks with a decent selection of books featuring BIPOC and LGBTQ+ voices. The LGBTQ section includes graphic novels and other options to explore.

People are saying

"I found this bookstore to be my new favorite place."

"It's a sweet spot for a date, especially if your wife loves romance literature."

"I found lots of LGBTQ+ options to buy here."

Good to know

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Parking is limited to 30 minutes, and street parking is often full.

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The bookstore features a secret spicy room accessible only to those over 18.

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There is a small parking lot out front that offers the first 30 minutes free.

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Gay bar

Small bar with bartenders who sing and perform karaoke, creating a lively and welcoming atmosphere. Decor blends flashy yet classy elements with thoughtful details throughout the space. Regular drag shows and inclusive vibe make it a notable queer hangout with excellent entertainment.

Quiet, stormy afternoons create a cozy atmosphere. Bartenders perform live songs with a great voice, adding a unique touch to the experience.

A lively spot with music, dancing, and gay bingo creates a fun atmosphere for the LGBTQ+ community. Excellent performers and service make it stand out from typical gay bars.

People are saying

"Angela's singing and kindness made the bar experience unforgettable."

"It's the best queer hangout I've found."

"The bartenders here sing, making it a fun spot for Date Spots."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended due to the small size of ICONS.

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Expect a $5 entry fee for events at ICONS.

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Karaoke night is popular and features bartenders joining in.

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Museum space showcases unique art and kitschy decorations in a small, accessible setting. Atmosphere feels safe, inclusive, and sex-positive, welcoming diverse communities including LGBTQ+. Offers educational classes and serves as a community hub for exploring sexuality and body positivity.

An awesome space welcomes queer couples and newbies alike. Classes offer an educational experience that works well for fun or learning together on a date.

An awesome space welcomes queer couples and supports LGBTQ+ community gatherings. It offers insights into queer history and relationship dynamics.

People are saying

"I learned so much about sex and human differences here."

"I learned so much about queer history and relationship dynamics."

"It's a fun date spot where you'll learn new facts about sex."

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Classes at the Sexploratorium cost between $30 and $50, making them affordable.

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The Sexploratorium offers a variety of educational classes on sex and body positivity.

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The space is LGBTQ+ friendly and promotes inclusivity and safety.

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Cocktail bar

Eclectic rooms with vintage furniture and themed spaces create a cozy, romantic vibe. Dim lighting and lively music set a nostalgic yet sophisticated atmosphere. A large patio and welcoming energy make it a unique neighborhood spot with a mix of dive bar charm and refined touches.

Cozy and romantic vibes create a perfect setting for a date night. The spot shifts easily from intimate dinners to lively dance parties, offering a versatile date experience.

Cozy and safe vibes fill the space, alive with queer joy. Owned by queer and female hands, it feels like a true home for gender-queer people of color.

People are saying

"The cocktails here are incredibly unique and balanced."

"It's a cozy, sacred LGBTQ space where you can feel the care."

"The cocktails here are great and there are tons of non-alcoholic options."

Good to know

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Fort Greene hosts weekly parties and events that are community-centered.

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DJ nights at Fort Greene are frequent and popular for dancing.

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Happy hour specials are available, making it a great time to visit.

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Gay bar

Gay bar with large outdoor patio and fetish-friendly vibe hosts a diverse crowd focused on leather and alternative scenes. Atmosphere shifts from lively outdoor socializing to cozy indoor spaces when it rains. Music and games add to the community-focused energy.

Events like the Lady Bunny show create a lively atmosphere for couples. Underwear nights offer chances to meet cool people and feel at ease in a relaxed setting.

A men's gay dive bar with a full liquor selection caters mostly to a fetish, leather, and alternative gay crowd. It offers respectful and welcoming vibes for gay men and women who want to avoid harassment.

People are saying

"This gay bar is a staple for the leather and fetish crowd."

"It's a fun, welcoming LGBTQ spot with amazing staff."

"It's a welcoming place for a first-time Pride experience."

Good to know

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The best time to visit is Sunday from 4 pm to 8 pm for the beer bust.

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Underwear nights on Thursdays are popular for themed parties.

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Karaoke happens every Sunday night, attracting a lively crowd.

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