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You gravitate toward spaces that define their own cool through authentic, inclusive energy. If a place doesn't naturally reflect the community, it isn't worth your time.

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Massive space combines coffee shop, art studio, gallery, and bike shop with a bike punk vibe and community hub energy. Atmosphere buzzes with lively conversations and diverse, respectful patrons engaging in events and workshops. Displays of pride flags and local art add to the welcoming, inclusive feel.

Warm, inclusive vibes create a super queer space that welcomes everyone. The owner fosters a safe, community-oriented environment with all-inclusive pricing to keep things simple and open.

Super thoughtfully sourced coffee sets a cool tone here. The spot feels relaxing with pride flags and local art adding to the vibe.

People are saying

"I found the coffee here to be genuinely fantastic."

"It's so cool how they really care about the community and everyone there."

"It's a queer community space where everyone feels welcome."

Good to know

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The cafe hosts a variety of community events, including board game nights and local markets.

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Customers can pay what they wish for a small coffee, promoting accessibility.

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Tips are included in the prices, ensuring fair wages for baristas.

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Bar with 80s roller rink decor and 90s nostalgia creates a chill, queer atmosphere filled with arcade games and vibrant music. Community feels welcoming and inclusive, hosting drag shows and DJs on weekends. Menu features tasty cocktails and incredible tacos with fresh ingredients.

Strong queer friendly vibes create a welcoming and inclusive atmosphere. Space supports performers from the LGBTQ community and offers a chill, fun environment for dancing, eating, and sipping cocktails.

Cool community events happen regularly, including ones like Artists and Beer. The spot features a retro bar aesthetic with fun decor and serves good drinks.

People are saying

"This bar is a safe space with a fun, queer vibe."

"It's a great, safe bar for queer individuals."

"The retro atmosphere and decor here are really cool."

Good to know

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The bar hosts many events, including regular drag shows and community gatherings.

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Taco Tuesday special offers 3 tacos for $11.

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Food is available until midnight, with prices ranging from $10 to $20.

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Bright, cozy space combines extensive book selection with laptop-friendly coffee and varied seating options. Atmosphere feels welcoming and tranquil, fostering community and creative work, especially for queer patrons. Limited cafe seating keeps the vibe intimate and peaceful.

Staff show deep passion for queer literature and keep up with new releases. The space feels safe and welcoming for queer people, serving as a sacred third space to write, decompress, and co-work.

Vibe feels fresh and inviting with a super cool atmosphere. The space blends books and coffee in a way that stands out.

People are saying

"The book selection here is fantastic and thoughtfully curated."

"I loved the incredible selection of queer literature here."

"It's a super cool place with immaculate vibes."

Good to know

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Hive Mind offers special orders for books not in stock.

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The bookstore hosts community events regularly; check their schedule for details.

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Credit cards and mobile payments are accepted for purchases.

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Queer bar

Sleek, industrial design blends with approachable charm in a chic, elevated vibe space. Excellent DJs energize the atmosphere, which is lively and often dangerously loud. The crowd is cool and diverse, drawn to carefully curated cocktails and a welcoming setting.

A luxe gay bar with a welcoming vibe, it stands out as a notable spot for the queer community. It fills a long-awaited gap for a new queer bar in the area.

Space offers a cool atmosphere with a diverse crowd and great cocktails.

People are saying

"I thought it was a fantastic, classy, and super cool gay bar."

"The cocktails at this bar are so well-curated and creative."

"The cocktails here are amazing and the space is really cool."

Good to know

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You need to bring your ID to get in.

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The entrance may be difficult to find or access.

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There is often no line or crowd at Oberon.

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Bar offers a lively atmosphere with drag shows and an eclectic mix of craft beers from a self-service fridge. Decor features Krampus-themed items and beautiful details, creating an inclusive and fun vibe. Board games and cozy seating areas provide spots to relax or socialize.

Atmosphere feels beautiful and inclusive with a cute queer Brooklyn style. Drag night happens on Wednesdays, making it a gay friendly spot.

Eclectic mix of dive bar vibes and great drinks sets a cool tone. Staff bring a laid-back energy and the Krampus-themed decor adds a unique twist.

People are saying

"The bar staff here is spectacular and incredibly welcoming."

"I found the vibe cool, with an eclectic mix of dive and great drinks."

"It's a cute, gay-friendly dive with a great vibe."

Good to know

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Happy hour offers $5 drinks, the best deal in the city.

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Brunch features bottomless mimosas for $25.

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The drag show happens every Wednesday night.

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Concert hall

Concert hall combines intense loud music with intimate seating and a large outdoor patio for cooling off or socializing. The space supports diverse music genres including punk, metal, and experimental, creating a vibrant, artsy atmosphere. It offers a DIY punk vibe with ample room inside and out, attracting a crowd that enjoys energetic shows and varied sounds.

Offers a comfortable space for trans and queer people with an all inclusive vibe. Features incredible DJs that appeal to queer young adults.

Intimate venue hosts cool indie bands and DIY shows with a nice outdoor space. Staff and crowd create a relaxed vibe with room to cool off and chat.

People are saying

"The outdoor space here is surprisingly large and has seating."

"The LGBTQ DJs here are amazing, I had an incredible time."

"It's a cool venue with a nice outdoor space."

Good to know

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The event lasts from 11 PM to 4 AM.

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Techno yoga happens on Mondays at the venue.

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The bar accepts cards for payment.

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Lesbian bar with inclusive atmosphere and worker-owned cooperative model creates a welcoming sanctuary. Space features eclectic vintage decor and intentional handmade details that invite quiet moments or lively gatherings. Music stays vibrant, complementing the cozy, safe vibe for diverse crowds.

A queer-run, BIPOC-centered space offers a warm, inclusive atmosphere with fab programming and lovely cocktails. It feels like a home for queer joy and community, especially for lesbians and Arab-owned queer spaces.

Cool decor sets the vibe, with shelves full of unique books like vampire stories. People there are cool and interesting, making it a great spot to hang out with a Carmilla drink in hand.

People are saying

"I loved the coffee program here; it was just perfect."

"It's a queer utopia with amazing, inclusive vibes."

"The staff here are so friendly and helpful."

Good to know

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They frequently organize events and are a casual, welcoming place to visit.

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Drink and food prices are affordable.

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The dual function as a cafe during the day and a bar at night offers a versatile experience.

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Gay bar

Drag brunch venue offers professional drag performances with a community-focused vibe and Latin American-inspired decor. The space feels authentic and welcoming, featuring unique seating and lively entertainment. Signature cocktails and bottomless mimosas complement the energetic atmosphere.

A queer-owned, community-focused spot with a vibrant atmosphere welcomes gay Latinos and allies alike. The space offers authentic drag brunches and a fun, inclusive vibe for queer people.

A cool, relaxed vibe fills the space with a fun and engaging ambiance. The use of a smoke machine during shows adds a unique touch to the experience.

People are saying

"The food here is great and delicious."

"I found the drag brunch to be amazing and so fun."

"The LGBTQ drag brunch here is super fun and creative."

Good to know

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Reservations can be made a day prior with a credit card; $10 cancellation fee applies.

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Kween offers a Drag Brunch on Sundays at 1pm and 3pm.

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Expect a lively atmosphere during the drag brunch.

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Arcade bar with free indie games and custom cabinets creates a unique, energetic vibe. Space includes two big rooms and a backyard patio, hosting diverse crowds like couples, LGBTQIA+ individuals, and gamers. Music ranges from jazz to electronic, supporting a lively, creative atmosphere.

A very queer friendly spot with a growing queer and drag scene. It feels like a gay bar with indie games, all-inclusive dance parties, and a chill vibe.

Indie arcade games stand out with their unique and cool designs. The bar offers free gameplay and serves unique hot dogs, creating a fun and nerdy vibe.

People are saying

"I played classic arcade games like Pac-Man and Galaga with my crew."

"The arcade games here are super cool and all free."

"I found the crowd here to be super queer and tech literate."

Good to know

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You need to show ID at the door and be 21 years or older to enter.

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The arcade is FREE to play, making it a unique attraction.

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Beers are priced between $4-6, which is reasonable compared to other bars.

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Cabaret club

Neo-noir inspired venue blends Lynchian jazz noir with live aerial performances for a magical, atmospheric experience. The space channels an old-school Shanghai vibe with a dark, sexy twist and hosts creative Asian herbal cocktails alongside unique live music shows.

A neo-noir inspired venue owned by queer Asian femmes creates a vibey queer AAPI space that feels special and welcoming for queer women.

Super cool performances include an aerialist act that stands out. The venue offers a very cool atmosphere and a unique night experience with a cool selection of drinks.

People are saying

"I loved the Lynchian jazz noir; it felt romantic and heartfelt."

"The atmosphere here is really cool and special."

"It's a vibey queer AAPI space owned by queer Asian femmes."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended for popular events to ensure seating.

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There is a two-item minimum per person during performances.

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Expect long wait times for the restroom, especially during busy events.

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Gay bar

Small bar with neon art and a jukebox creates a friendly, old school gay vibe. Music plays loudly, making conversation challenging when crowded. Crowd stays chill and mixed, with plenty of seating inside and outside.

A chill and friendly old school gay vibe defines this queer venue. The great staff create a welcoming atmosphere that stands out among other gay bars.

A cool crowd creates a relaxed vibe here. The bar feels like a good upgrade from typical spots.

People are saying

"I thought this was the best bar in NYC."

"It's a welcoming LGBTQ spot with a fun, mixed crowd."

"I found the atmosphere here to be really cool."

Good to know

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Happy Hour runs from Monday to Friday with beer and wine for $6.

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The bar gets crowded late at night and on weekends.

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They stay open very late.

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Cocktail bar

Cocktail bar spreads across four floors with a rooftop offering a lively escape. Atmosphere stays friendly and vibrant, boosted by a live DJ and themed decor. Martini options stand out, especially with a customizable menu and free fries accompanying drinks.

An upscale queer-friendly cocktail bar with a martini lounge upstairs offers more than the usual vodka cran drinks. The main bar features an awesome collage of queer icon portraits, including Dumbledore at the top, creating a nice ambiance for an NYC gay bar.

Dark, intimate spaces create a cool vibe throughout. The rooftop adds a gay-friendly atmosphere and the staff, like Danny and Molly, bring a laid-back energy.

People are saying

"Kevin at the bar is so sweet and funny, he nailed my drink suggestion."

"It's a fun, friendly LGBTQ spot with a really nice crowd."

"It's a cool place with a really nice vibe."

Good to know

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Strict reservations are needed and there is a 90-minute seating limit for dining.

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Customers should arrive early to enjoy the full experience of the drag bingo brunch.

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The restaurant has a 90-minute bottomless dinner available.

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Thai restaurant

Interior features vibrant decor and a stunning light-up dragon that create a cute aesthetic. Atmosphere combines upbeat music with lively energy, though noise levels can be high. Seating includes both indoor and isolated outdoor options, accommodating families and groups.

Staff are very gay friendly and welcoming. Gender inclusive bathrooms add to the inclusive vibe. The atmosphere feels gay and fabulous throughout.

Insane decorations create a very cool atmosphere with a super cool dragon running along the restaurant. The Volcano chicken arrives with a flaming sauce that looks pretty cool, and the staff, including server Emma, are super cool and courteous.

People are saying

"The food here is delicious, flavorful, and fresh."

"I found the lychee Thai iced tea to be amazing."

"I found the staff to be really LGBTQ friendly."

Good to know

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Happy hour runs daily from 12 PM to 7 PM, but closed from 3:45 PM to 5 PM.

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Reservations are highly recommended as the restaurant fills up quickly.

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The happy hour offers discounted drinks and snacks, making it a great deal.

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Small, old-fashioned bar with vintage decor and dim lighting creates a cozy, casual atmosphere. Music features 70s and 90s hits alongside videos on screens, adding to the lively vibe. Diverse crowd of all ages gathers here, making it a welcoming spot with an old school gay bar feel.

An old school gay bar with a friendly vibe that serves as a meeting place for queer people of all types. The bartenders, especially Gary, add to the welcoming atmosphere.

Vintage vibes set the tone with dim, cool lights. The crowd blends old dudes, bears pregaming, and downtown cool kids all chilling together.

People are saying

"The bartender here is so friendly and makes you feel welcome."

"This historic LGBTQ bar has an old-school vibe with a diverse crowd."

"It's a cool place with a mix of old and young people."

Good to know

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Happy hour runs from 4-7pm with discounted drinks.

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The bar has a friendly and welcoming atmosphere for all.

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No food is available, but guests can bring their own.

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Bar combines cozy nooks with an upstairs live music venue featuring drag performances and a second bar. Atmosphere channels an 80s East Village vibe with a club kid energy and a crowd that feels both vibrant and welcoming. Outdoor seating adds space for socializing on good weather days.

Very queer friendly and openly queer bar with a strong LGBTQ presence.

Cool drinks and interesting snacks like lunchables and dunkaroos stand out here. The bar features cool architecture and decor that give it a unique vibe.

People are saying

"It's a cozy bar with cute little side rooms and nooks."

"The decor and architecture here are really cool."

"It's a really queer vibe here, very club kid."

Good to know

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Karaoke night happens every Thursday at 10pm with a two-drink minimum.

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Happy hour runs from 4-7pm on weekdays with discounted drinks.

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Monthly Sylvester and The Sick Sad World Review events take place on the last Friday of each month.

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Spacious cocktail bar with a huge backyard patio featuring heaters and partial cover creates a welcoming setting. Retro, sexy vibe blends with live jazz music and a dog-friendly, LGBTQ+ inclusive atmosphere. Creative cocktails and cozy seating make it a standout spot for socializing.

Offers a very inclusive bar environment that welcomes queer people. Functions as a safe space with a strong lesbian bar vibe.

Inventive drinks and cool decor set a fun vibe here. Bartenders add to the cool atmosphere and enhance the experience.

People are saying

"I loved their great signature cocktails."

"I loved the groovy, chill vibe and cool atmosphere here."

"The bartender Des was awesome and made me feel welcome."

Good to know

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Come before 7 if you are coming on Sunday.

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Live jazz is available on Sundays.

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The establishment allows dogs.

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Gay bar

Gay bar with modern decor and multiple areas including an upstairs piano karaoke and a lively outdoor patio. Atmosphere feels inclusive and welcoming to all backgrounds, with top-tier drag performances and music that keeps energy flowing. Crowd varies in age and experience, creating a festive yet relaxed vibe.

An inclusive and lively atmosphere welcomes all ages and walks of life. Drag performers of all genders highlight that this is a queer bar, not just a gay bar, with standout cocktails setting it apart from typical gay bars.

Chill bar with cool vibes and super cool bartenders. Everyone there feels super cool.

People are saying

"This bar has such a fun and inclusive atmosphere."

"It's a really cute queer bar, a key spot in the cityโ€™s LGBTQ+ scene."

"The vibe here is pretty cool."

Good to know

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Customers are charged a $10 cover per person on Saturday nights after 10:30 PM.

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Entry requires proof of vaccination, as per the venue's policy.

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Good Judy's hosts trivia nights on some Thursday evenings.

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Cute bar with retro-cool atmosphere and a small dance space in the back alongside seated tables. The vibe stays chill and welcoming, drawing a diverse crowd who enjoy live music and drag shows. Sound quality is strong, supported by a skilled sound engineer, enhancing the entertainment experience.

An intimate, ally inclusive bar with a welcoming and inclusive vibe. Hosts fun events and shows, attracting a crowd of 20s and 30s attractive gays and offering local drinks like Gay Beer.

Cozy space with a retro-cool atmosphere sets the vibe. Staff are mostly cool and courteous, and the crowd feels welcoming. Cool drag shows add lively entertainment.

People are saying

"It's a cool queer space with a welcoming, diverse crowd."

"The music and vibe here make for a great dance spot."

"It's a cool queer space with fun parties and great vibes."

Good to know

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The entrance fee is $20, which some consider too high for the experience.

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Drinks are priced high, typically around $6-8 for a can of beer.

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Expect limited restroom facilities, with only two toilets available.

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Eclectic space with spacious backyard and cozy couches creates a homey vibe. Atmosphere feels queer friendly and relaxed, welcoming diverse, genuine individuals. Offers kava cocktails and quiet or social activities, including live music and board games.

Cozy and queer friendly atmosphere supports hanging out or working. More cishet bros show up now compared to when femmes and queers were more common.

Super cool vibes create a unique, psychedelic living room feel. The spot offers kava and cocktails tailored for the sober community.

People are saying

"The vibe here is so chill, warm, and welcoming."

"The vibe here is so cool and welcoming."

"The atmosphere here is so cozy and LGBTQ friendly."

Good to know

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Misfit hosts poetry events after live music on weekends.

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New customers receive discounts on their first order.

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You can bring food from outside to enjoy with your drinks.

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Cocktail bar

Cocktail bar with mid-century modern style and a speakeasy-like entrance offers a warm, upscale vibe that blends cozy intimacy with spacious design. DJ sets and dancers create lively energy, while the crowd includes many who appreciate a chic atmosphere and craft cocktails.

A fierce spot with an upscale, chic atmosphere caters to gay patrons who enjoy well made cocktails in glass cups. It offers a fresh take on typical gay bars and serves great martinis in a welcoming environment.

The space feels very cool with nice decoration and a super cool vibe. Even when packed, the atmosphere stays calm and collected.

People are saying

"The bar's upscale, modern vibe is perfect for premium cocktails."

"I found the classiest LGBTQ bar, it felt like a private club."

"The bartender Jacob is super friendly and quick with the drinks."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended for large groups to ensure seating.

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Happy hour offers discounted drinks from 5-7pm on weekdays.

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Expect a cover charge of $10 on weekends after 8pm.

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