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A lounge that provides a first-date setting where you can actually hear each other talk, instead of shouting over the music.

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Speakeasy-style bar with vintage decor and cozy velvet couches creates an intimate vibe perfect for a first date. Fairly priced drinks like espresso martinis support a relaxed lounge atmosphere. Music blends R&B and bopping beats for a warm, inviting night out.

Fairly priced drinks support a relaxed lounge vibe. Music ties the atmosphere together, creating a distinct and cohesive experience.

An intimate spot with a cohesive atmosphere blending R&B vibes from Drake and Tinashe. The ambiance suits a cute first date or a relaxed night out, making it ideal for couples starting out.

People are saying

"The oysters here are super fresh and delicious."

"The Night Lounge has thoughtfully crafted cocktails that never disappoint."

"It's a cozy spot with a nice vibe, perfect for a first date."

Good to know

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Happy hour runs until 7pm with half off select oysters and drinks.

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Oysters are $1.50 during happy hour, making it a great deal.

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Reservations are recommended for large groups to avoid long wait times.

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Restaurant

Cocktail bar blends 1920s elegance with Irish charm in a stylish, clean setting. Atmosphere stays lively and welcoming with well-balanced music and lighting. Drinks like Irish Coffee and espresso martinis complement a menu featuring standout burgers and fries.

People are saying

"The food here is really great and delicious."

"It's a great spot for a pre-theater dinner."

"I found the cocktails here to be creatively delicious."

Good to know

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Happy hour runs from 4-7pm on weekdays with discounted drinks.

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Reservations are recommended during busy happy hour periods.

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Free drinks are offered with a Broadway ticket.

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Viking-themed axe throwing offers a unique setting with spacious lanes and engaging hosts. Downstairs lounge features cool bar vibes and comfy couches for relaxed drinks. Perfect for a first date, blending fun and a club-like atmosphere.

Offers a unique setting that works well for a first date. The atmosphere suits both starting and ending a relationship.

People are saying

"The instructors here make axe throwing so fun and memorable!"

"I had an amazing time on my date night here."

"The staff here is so cool and friendly, like, super friendly."

Good to know

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20% gratuity is automatically added to your tab.

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The private cage for 2 only includes 45 minutes of time.

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Get there early or park in a lot to ensure a spot.

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American restaurant

Outdoor courtyard with string lights and private cabins creates a lush, calming atmosphere. Cocktails stand out with creative, well-crafted options. Space suits both intimate dining and group gatherings.

People are saying

"The cocktails here were amazing and perfectly balanced."

"The ravioli here is beyond delicious, a silken goodness."

"The brunch food here is so good, especially the pancakes."

Good to know

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Happy hour runs from 4-7pm on weekdays with half-price appetizers.

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Reservations are recommended, especially for weekend brunch.

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Live music happens every Friday night starting at 9pm.

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Spacious cocktail bar with a huge backyard patio featuring heaters and partial cover creates a welcoming setting. Retro, sexy vibe blends with live jazz music and a dog-friendly, LGBTQ+ inclusive atmosphere. Creative cocktails and cozy seating make it a standout spot for socializing.

A quiet, intimate lounge area offers tables for relaxed conversations. The space feels friendly and fun for connecting with new people.

People are saying

"I loved their great signature cocktails."

"The patio is really cute and a nice outdoor space."

"The live jazz on Sundays creates great vibes."

Good to know

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Come before 7 if you are coming on Sunday.

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Live jazz is available on Sundays.

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The establishment allows dogs.

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French restaurant

French restaurant offers casual chic dining with an elegant, warm interior and a beautiful patio featuring direct sunlight and a protective roof. Atmosphere feels like a Parisian brasserie, inviting and lively with attentive staff. Outdoor seating becomes crowded on nice days, creating a bustling vibe.

People are saying

"I thought the food was delicious and very good."

"Tim makes the best cocktails and it's an experience."

"It's a warm, cozy, and romantic spot perfect for date night."

Good to know

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There is a 50% off selected wines from January 1st to February 12th.

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Happy hour is only at the bar from 2 PM to 7 PM.

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Wine bottles are 50% off till the end of February.

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Cocktail bar

Cocktail bar with a tiki vibe and speakeasy style offers a cozy, classy atmosphere featuring quirky decorations and an L-shaped bar. Music plays a great soundtrack that complements the lively yet intimate setting. Seating balances privacy and group gatherings, creating a warm and interesting space.

Small size creates an intimate setting with a chill cocktail vibe. Drinks are tasty cocktails served in a relaxed atmosphere.

People are saying

"I thought the food and cocktails here were great."

"I loved the creative cocktails and the trendy vibe here."

"The Crรจme Brรปlรฉe here is amazing."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended to secure seating, especially during peak hours.

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The venue offers a happy hour with discounted cocktails from 5-7pm on weekdays.

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Expect the cocktail bar to get crowded early, particularly on Wednesdays.

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Cocktail bar

Small space with a secret speakeasy entrance and moody neon-lit vibe creates an intimate, elegant atmosphere. Lively music from a DJ keeps energy high, while a covered backyard offers a cozy, chic outdoor option. The bar draws a crowd looking for a sexy, tailored ambiance with unique cocktails and a rich vibe.

A beautiful cocktail lounge with a vibe leaning more toward a bar lounge than a dinner spot. The setting invites a relaxed time focused on drinks rather than meals.

People are saying

"Annie was so attentive and knowledgeable about the cocktails."

"It's so intimate and cozy, I felt like I was stepping into another world."

"The Night Lounge is cute, cozy, and intimate."

Good to know

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The venue is a bar lounge, not a traditional restaurant.

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Reservations are recommended for special events or busy nights.

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Outdoor seating will be available soon for warmer months.

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French restaurant

French restaurant blends chic cabin decor with heated outdoor seating and live music for a lively yet intimate vibe. The space feels cozy and charming, with creative cocktails served in unique vessels. It attracts a crowd looking for a fun night out with a mix of classic and modern touches.

Energy stays great despite the lounge being small and cramped. Space feels intimate with barely a dance floor.

Offers a great atmosphere that suits a first date well. The setting feels just right for getting to know someone.

People are saying

"The food here is delicious and fresh."

"The cocktails here are beautifully balanced and fun."

"It's a perfect spot for a romantic date night."

Good to know

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The burlesque show runs from 8-10:30 pm, featuring a live band afterward.

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Happy hour offers the best deals on drinks and appetizers.

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Reservations are recommended for weekend brunch due to high demand.

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Small speakeasy with live jazz piano and retro decor reflecting its garment factory roots creates a cozy, intimate atmosphere. Upstairs dining offers a lively vibe with eclectic design and dim lighting. Staff and performers engage actively, enhancing the dynamic entertainment experience.

Two connected bars offer a piano lounge downstairs with a great atmosphere. The vibe stays lively even on a Monday night.

People are saying

"I thought the food here was phenomenal."

"The live music at this bar is amazing, especially the singers."

"The Night Lounge drinks were fantastic and strong."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended for the piano bar, especially on busy nights.

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Happy hour offers half-price appetizers on weekdays from 4-7pm.

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Wine is half price on Mondays.

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