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Small speakeasy with a library setting and intimate, chic ambiance creates a calm, cozy atmosphere. Drinks feature signature cocktails crafted by a skilled mixologist, enhancing the upscale, trendy vibe ideal for date nights or relaxed evenings.

A trendy, upscale cocktail bar with a unique library setting featuring old classic books. The atmosphere is chill and the staff is polite, making it a favored spot for early arrivals.

Small and quaint space creates an intimate, chic ambiance. The vibe stays trendy, upscale, and chill, fitting for a romantic date night or relaxed evening together.

People are saying

"The mixologists here are the absolute stars of the show."

"The cocktails here are amazing and crafted to perfection."

"The cocktails here are crafted to perfection and unforgettable."

Good to know

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Reservations at Deans should be made early for a cocktail.

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Dress code is smart casual; no shorts or flip-flops.

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Happy hour specials are available from 5-7pm on weekdays.

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Outdoor space offers large patio, shaded seating, and poolside oasis with overhead heating. Atmosphere stays calm and inviting, ideal for long conversations or relaxation. Frequented for craft cocktails and lively DJ sets, blending serene setting with vibrant energy.

Outdoor setting creates an amazing ambience with a lively vibe. Drinks have exceptional quality, and the bartenders bring great energy to the bar experience.

Quiet, intimate atmosphere suits romantic dates well. Staff like Jessica and Lexi provide attentive service that enhances special occasions.

People are saying

"The bartender Drew was super friendly and provided great service."

"The outdoor space here is beautiful and relaxing."

"The drinks and tapas here are always on point."

Good to know

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The 555 Sunday deal offers $5 drinks, $5 bites, and $5 entry to the pool.

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Happy hour runs from 4-7pm on weekdays with half-price appetizers.

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Guests can purchase a resort pass to use the pool without staying at the hotel.

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Open-air rooftop bar offers stunning city views and an upscale atmosphere with lively, well-curated music. Guests enjoy creative cocktails and fabulous tapas while relaxing under the stars or watching sunsets. The space features no indoor seating and often requires reservations on busy nights.

Offers stunning skyline views and a gorgeous rooftop atmosphere. Serves good drinks with excellent service in a downtown setting.

A rooftop setting creates a relaxed vibe ideal for couples. Bartenders craft personalized drinks that add a special touch to date nights. The spot suits both intimate evenings and casual celebrations.

People are saying

"The view from the rooftop is amazing."

"The bar's atmosphere and vibe are incredible."

"Our server was truly wonderful and made us feel comfortable."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended, especially on Fridays and Saturdays.

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Expect a 40-minute wait if you don't have a reservation.

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Children under 21 are not allowed due to bar regulations.

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Jazz club

Jazz club with New Orleans style and colorful murals creates a cozy, classy atmosphere. Live performances feature top-notch musicians and experimental cocktails complement the vibe. Outdoor patio overlooks the river walk, adding a relaxed touch.

Jazz music sets the tone with a great ambiance and craft cocktail creations behind the bar. This spot avoids the usual sports bar vibe, offering a classy date atmosphere without high prices.

A classy atmosphere suits romantic dates without high costs. Arriving early helps avoid crowds, making it ideal for quiet, intimate evenings.

People are saying

"The jazz musicians here are incredibly talented."

"I enjoyed the amazing, flavorful cocktails here."

"This cozy bar has delicious cocktails and great jazz music."

Good to know

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Jazz performances occur every Friday and Saturday night starting at 8 pm.

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Reservations are recommended, costing $16 per person.

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Seating is limited, so arrive early to secure a table.

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Robot bartenders craft cocktails with precise, fluid motion, creating a tech-forward experience in a sleek, industrial space. Upbeat music and a comfortable, vibrant atmosphere invite socializing without the club scene intensity. Outdoor swings and a stylish patio add unique seating options to this modern lounge.

A chic downtown spot blends innovation with genuine hospitality, creating an unmatched vibe. The bar offers a welcoming atmosphere where guests can enjoy a drink and unwind after a workout.

Offers a cozy atmosphere that suits couples well. Hosts often create a warm, welcoming vibe for special occasions like birthdays.

People are saying

"The staff here are so friendly and make you feel so welcome."

"Watching the robot bartender make drinks is a pretty unique experience."

"The drinks here are strong and delicious."

Good to know

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Loteria and pop-up Botox events are hosted regularly.

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The lounge offers a unique blend of cold brew and cocktails.

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Ordering drinks is easy with a user-friendly kiosk.

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Small cocktail bar inside a beautiful antique building with modern decor and intimate two-person tables. Atmosphere feels chill and friendly, with live music that suits late night and pre-concert vibes. Drinks and food focus on fresh, high quality ingredients with standout cocktails and sandwiches.

Craft cocktails stand out with creative mixes and fresh ingredients. The bar features a beautiful interior and a dedicated bar manager who consistently raises the bar.

Cocktails like the Paloma, cucumber martini, and Bloody Mary stand out here. Fresh oysters add a nice touch for sharing during a date.

People are saying

"Colton's cocktail expertise and stories made for a great time."

"The craft cocktails here are amazing and dangerously good."

"The Date Spots here have amazing food, like the steak salad."

Good to know

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Happy Hour offers good cocktails and small plates with freshly made food.

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Great deals are available during Happy Hour.

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Late night food service is offered on weekends.

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Bar under a bridge along the riverwalk offers river views and water misting fans that keep the area cool. Atmosphere blends chic and fun vibes with lively energy, especially at the riverfront bar where people watch and boats pass by.

A cool bar under a bridge offers great drinks and a unique setting on the riverwalk. Friendly bartenders like Ben and Sam provide kind service and share local insights.

Craft cocktails like the siesta spritz offer a unique sit-and-sip experience. Friendly bartenders provide attentive service, making it a comfortable spot for couples.

People are saying

"The bar staff here are amazing and make you feel so welcome."

"The walking tacos are a solid value at $5."

"The bartenders here are so attentive and make it an amazing time."

Good to know

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Happy hour runs from 11 AM to 5 PM with $5 beers and tacos.

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The happy hour walking tacos cost $5.

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Grab a seat at the bar when Ben is working for great service.

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Food and drink

Rooftop bar with beautiful riverwalk views and a wading pool creates a relaxed outdoor lounge atmosphere. Music from a live DJ keeps energy lively and encourages dancing. The vibe is cool and inviting, perfect for special occasions or casual evenings.

Rooftop setting offers beautiful views and a relaxed vibe. Bartenders like Connell, Hunter, and Jazz provide excellent service consistently.

Helpful staff assist with special moments like proposals and remember names even when busy. Drinks like the La Mula cocktail and Cabernet Sauvignon add to the experience.

People are saying

"The bar staff here are amazing and so nice."

"I loved the outdoor seating with a nice view of the Riverwalk."

"The staff here makes it a great spot for a proposal."

Good to know

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Happy hour events can be hosted for groups of up to 20 people.

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The front area is available for private happy hour rentals.

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DJ performances occur regularly, featuring a mix of old and new hits.

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Outdoor seating creates a large, welcoming space with a quaint, backyard vibe. Energetic DJs and live music set a vibrant, lively atmosphere that invites mingling and dancing. Specialty cocktails and rotating food trucks add to the fun, community-focused experience.

Women-owned bar serves fantastic cocktails with a focus on community. DJs, karaoke, and outside seating create a fun and welcoming vibe.

Offers a relaxed spot for drinks after dinner or a movie. Fits well for date night, girls' night, or casual catch-ups.

People are saying

"This bar's staff are so sweet and welcoming to everyone."

"I thought their cocktails were amazing and made from scratch."

"The bar's chill vibes make it a perfect spot for date night."

Good to know

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Karaoke nights happen every Sunday, known for their lively atmosphere.

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Happy hour runs until 9 PM with great drink specials.

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The bar is pet-friendly, allowing guests to bring their furry friends.

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Small cozy bar with velvet seats and dark chic decor offers a quiet, friendly atmosphere ideal for winding down. Live jazz and other music on weekends create a comfortable, inviting vibe. Wine club membership provides access to private tastings and personal wine lockers.

A quiet and chill spot with a phenomenal bartender behind the bar. Welcoming vibe suits a romantic evening, hanging out with friends, or meeting new people.

A large selection of sweet and semi-sweet wines suits different tastes. Live music and karaoke add a lively touch for a date night or after work.

People are saying

"Albert's expert pours and great conversation made everyone feel like a regular at the bar."

"The wine here is served by Albert, who's incredibly friendly and fun."

"The staff here are so sweet and caring, making it perfect for Date Spots."

Good to know

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Karaoke happens every Thursday night, starting at 10pm.

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Ladies enjoy all-day happy hour specials on Thursdays.

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Live music is featured on weekends, enhancing the atmosphere.

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Small, hidden bar recreates true speakeasy vibe with a secret entrance and password access. Intimate, cozy interior feels like a private living room with slow blues music setting a relaxed mood. Space supports quiet conversations and private gatherings without feeling cramped.

Small, private bar with specialty cocktails and great appetizers. Service stands out as attentive, humorous, and informative, with skilled mixologists behind the bar.

Plenty of private spaces create an intimate vibe for dates. The timing of service feels smooth, enhancing the relaxed atmosphere. The overall ambiance suits a cozy night out with a partner.

People are saying

"It's an intimate place with great specialty cocktails."

"This bar's atmosphere feels like a cozy, private living room."

"It's a perfect spot for a date night with a cozy, intimate vibe."

Good to know

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Reservations are necessary to visit the speakeasy and can be made online.

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A unique password is required for entry, provided upon reservation confirmation.

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The speakeasy is open only on Thursday, Friday, and Saturday evenings.

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Bar space features disco ball shark, production-level lighting, and a secret speakeasy lounge behind a fake vending machine. Atmosphere shifts from super chill and eclectic upfront to a lively club vibe in the back. Music plays continuously with a DJ, and art pieces create multiple photo opportunities throughout.

Secret speakeasy adds a fun twist with a hidden bar lounge. Drinks stand out as different and exceptional. The vibe includes pink lighting and a mural, plus a snack menu.

Bright, colorful drinks like the merry mai tai offer refreshing options. Affordable specials include a $2 beer and $5 old fashioned, making it easy to enjoy a casual date night.

People are saying

"The bartenders here are so personable and skilled at their craft during Happy Hour."

"It's a magical place with tons of photo ops for date spots."

"The drinks here are really good and varied."

Good to know

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Happy hour runs from 3 to 8 PM with a variety of drink specials.

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Pink Shark has a secret bar located past the bathrooms.

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Food is available at certain times, including snacks and small plates.

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Small, cozy bar with dim lighting and multiple seating options including outdoor seating. Atmosphere feels relaxed and inviting, suitable for both casual hangouts and romantic evenings. Regulars create an authentic, neighborhood vibe with expertly crafted cocktails and consistent music.

Small and cozy with outdoor seating, this bar blends a divey vibe with top-notch cocktails. It offers a clean, comfortable spot with great service and a friendly neighborhood feel.

Romantic ambience suits couples looking for a cozy spot. Drinks like the Aviation cocktail can be customized easily, making it great for finishing a date night or pregaming.

People are saying

"The cocktails are crafted with wizardry and presented beautifully."

"The cocktails are expertly crafted and perfectly balanced."

"The bar's drinks are thoughtfully crafted and impressive."

Good to know

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The parking lot can be full at times, but there is lots of parking available.

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Bar Mon Ami offers a charity cocktail event every month.

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Water is available for self-service.

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Wood-paneled bar with historic decor and period memorabilia creates a cozy, lively atmosphere filled with stories of past dignitaries. Loud but comfortable energy draws a mix of patrons who appreciate its old European pub feel and rich character. Live acoustic music adds to the engaging vibe.

History fills the room with bullet holes from Teddy Roosevelt and a moose bust on the wall. Wood paneling creates a cozy, old European pub feel that reminds some of a proper English pub.

Cozy atmosphere with British pub vibes sets a relaxed tone for date nights. Drinks like Bloody Marys and Margaritas on the rocks come well made and add to the experience.

People are saying

"This bar is a slice of American history where Teddy Roosevelt recruited Rough Riders."

"You have to try the pineapple upside down martini; it's amazing."

"It's a cool place with a dark, moody, old-time vibe."

Good to know

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The bar offers drink specials that are cheaper than the regular menu prices.

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Expect higher prices for drinks, especially for imported beers.

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The bar is located just steps from the Alamo, making it a convenient stop.

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Seafood restaurant

Seafood restaurant with an upscale, modern decor and a spacious, well-arranged layout including a patio with river views and outdoor misters and fans. Atmosphere is cozy yet lively, suitable for casual dining or date nights, with a mix of seating options and TVs for sports. The vibe is friendly and energetic, sometimes getting loud when busy.

Bar seating offers engaging service with bartenders who are punctual and interactive. The atmosphere mixes booths, tables, and a nice outdoor patio with misters and fans for comfort.

Cozy yet lively atmosphere creates a great setting for a date night. The vibe balances intimacy with energy, making it a solid choice for couples.

People are saying

"The seafood here is so fresh and delicious."

"The servers here make you feel so welcome and taken care of."

"The oyster nachos at the bar are incredible."

Good to know

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Happy hour runs from 4-7pm with $5 margaritas.

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Expect food preparation times of 20-30 minutes during busy evenings.

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The restaurant is pet-friendly, allowing dogs on the patio.

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Adult entertainment club

Adult entertainment club offers an upscale setup with an impressive stage and well-maintained venue. Energy stays lively and fun, featuring skilled dancers and a vibrant light show. Music and entertainment keep the atmosphere engaging throughout.

A packed bar buzzes with energy while staff like Esme handle it with grace and a smile. The team from the door to the bar keeps the vibe lively and welcoming.

Energetic performances by skilled dancers create a lively atmosphere. Attentive servers like Hannah and bubbly hosts like Ashley make couples feel comfortable and engaged.

People are saying

"The dancers here are gorgeous and perform artistic acrobatics."

"The bar staff here are so friendly and make you feel welcome."

"The Date Spots here have gorgeous, sweet performers and attentive staff."

Good to know

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$2 Tuesdays offer domestic beers at a great price.

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Thursdays feature $5 drinks, making it a popular night.

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Main events like fights and sports are shown regularly.

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Restaurant combines open kitchen and separate bar area with indoor and outdoor seating. Atmosphere stays intimate and elegant with amazing background music enhancing the chill vibe. Spacious bar upstairs includes a cigar lounge, making it suitable for both dining and socializing.

A stunning back room bar offers a cool vibe with excellent cocktails. Staff, especially Carlos, are very kind and attentive, making the bar area welcoming and well-finished.

Warm and intimate atmosphere suits a relaxed evening out. Quality cocktails add to the perfect date night vibe.

People are saying

"The pizza here is delicious with top-notch ingredients."

"The bar is really cool with a great selection of drinks."

"It's the perfect cozy vibe for a date night."

Good to know

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Reservations may be needed for large parties on weekends.

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Street parking is available, but be mindful of signs.

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Ride-sharing services are recommended for responsible wine enjoyment.

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Small bar with dark gothic vibe and dim lighting creates a chill atmosphere ideal for quiet conversations. Walls display unique art pieces that add to the immersive experience. Music stays on point without leaning into gothic or metal genres, supporting a relaxed, down-to-earth energy.

Cozy gothic vibe sets this bar apart from typical spots. It offers great service and a safe atmosphere without being crazy loud.

Great for one-on-one conversations during a first date with a relaxed vibe. Offers a spot to enjoy cocktails after dinner and jam out to music everyone knows.

People are saying

"This bar has a really cool, gothic vibe."

"It's a cool, dark spot with a chill vibe."

"It's a cool little spot with a dark, quiet atmosphere, perfect for date spots."

Good to know

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Emo night happens every Thursday, featuring a rotating theme each week.

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Expect a warm environment as the air conditioning is currently out.

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Cocktails are priced at $15, which is standard for the area.

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Mariscos y mas La Jaibita Mexican Seafood image 1

Mexican seafood restaurant with clean modern decor and papel picado decorations creates a friendly family atmosphere. A full bar with excellent cocktails and a jukebox adds lively music and social energy. The space feels welcoming and well spaced, making it comfortable for dining and drinks.

Full bar offers a wide range of drinks made right at the bar. Tito crafts excellent cocktails both on and off the menu. Happy hour features reduced prices on drinks and appetizers.

Sharing a molcajete with house salsa offers a generous and flavorful experience for two. Steak quesadillas come loaded, adding variety to the meal.

People are saying

"I found the seafood here to be super good and fresh."

"The bartender Edgar was so kind and took great care of us."

"The molcajete here is divine and more than enough for two."

Good to know

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Happy hour pricing is from 3pm to 6pm Tuesday through Friday.

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Happy hour includes reduced prices on drinks and appetizers.

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A full bar is available during happy hour.

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Restaurant

Small, historic building creates an intimate setting with stylish decor and quaint patio. Atmosphere feels lively and warm, with a cool neighborhood vibe and diverse crowd. Cocktails stand out as handcrafted and unique, complementing the overall refined experience.

A cool vibe and outstanding cocktails make the bar stand out. Johnny runs the bar with great care, creating a welcoming atmosphere and excellent service.

Offers a cozy atmosphere ideal for date nights with options like Pork Belly with French toast and syrup and duck dishes. Serves as a spot to relax, splurge, and enjoy a night out with a partner.

People are saying

"The Loretta burger was impressive, seasoned, and juicy."

"The bartenders here make you feel welcomed and take great care of you."

"The buffalo burger and mac n cheese make for great date spots."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended to avoid long wait times.

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Happy hour runs from 4-6 PM on weekdays with discounted drinks.

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A late-night food menu is available for late diners.

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Early 1900s building hosts a vintage atmosphere with stunning chandeliers and leather chairs. Live music fills the space, while a quiet speakeasy area offers a calm retreat. The venue balances lively energy with cozy spots for relaxation and socializing.

A whiskey bar set in a 1919 building offers an open bar option and a cash bar. Bartenders like Sophia and Jon provide samples and detailed explanations of their whiskey selections.

Offers a relaxed vibe ideal for a pre-night out or anniversary celebration. Couples can enjoy Cinnamon whiskey and play cornhole while watching the game, with budget-friendly options available.

People are saying

"The whiskey here was phenomenal and some of the best I've ever tasted."

"The bar's vintage feel and gorgeous aesthetics make it a cool spot."

"The atmosphere here is great for date spots."

Good to know

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Happy hour offers drinks for only $4, making it a great deal.

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The venue is suitable for weddings and private events.

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The distillery has a dog-friendly patio, but not inside.

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Cocktail bar offers live music with a chill atmosphere and ambient lighting. Seating includes couches and comfy chairs alongside high top tables and a well-stocked bar. The vibe is relaxed yet upscale, drawing a crowd that enjoys well-crafted drinks and good tunes.

Upscale bar with a sophisticated yet neighborhood feel offers creative drinks and unique bar bites. The atmosphere feels classy and welcoming, paired with good service and tasty food.

Great for date nights with a vibe that supports conversation even with live music playing. Offers refreshing drinks, including standout zero-proof options and a notable painkiller cocktail.

People are saying

"The bar's craft cocktails were excellent and reasonably priced."

"The live music creates such a great, relaxing atmosphere."

"The drinks here are strong and refreshing, perfect for Date Spots."

Good to know

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Happy hour runs from 4-7pm on weekdays with budget-friendly drink specials.

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Live jazz performances occur every Friday and Saturday night starting at 9pm.

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The bar offers a late-night cocktail experience until 2am on weekends.

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Restaurant offers stunning interior design with wall art and TikTok-worthy presentation. Atmosphere feels warm and welcoming with good music that sometimes reaches club-like volume. Tables sit close but remain comfortable, creating an intimate dining experience.

Sitting at the bar offers a welcoming atmosphere with attentive service. Bartenders serve Japanese Old Fashioned cocktails and draft beers, making it a solid spot to enjoy drinks while waiting or dining.

A cozy spot with a great atmosphere for couples. The ramen dishes stand out, and the staff offers drink pairings even for those who don't drink often.

People are saying

"I found the food here to be great and delicious."

"The service at these Date Spots is amazing and attentive."

"The bartenders here are so attentive and friendly."

Good to know

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They have calorie counts posted on the menu items.

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Happy hour runs from 3 to 5 PM with drinks and tasty bites.

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The spice level options range from 0 to 6.

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Jazz club

Speakeasy-style jazz club with a cozy intimate setting and spacious seating that avoids crowding. Live jazz bands deliver phenomenal music while guests enjoy craft cocktails and carefully prepared food. The venue feels like a hidden gem with a basement stage and a tiny dance floor.

Live jazz music sets the tone with energetic performances. The bar offers good drinks and attentive service from a cooperative team behind the counter.

Ideal for a date night, this spot offers a setting that suits special occasions like birthdays. Couples find it a wonderful place to celebrate and enjoy a memorable dining experience.

People are saying

"The jazz musicians are talented and clearly passionate."

"It's a great spot for date night with a phenomenal band."

"The music and drinks at this bar were fantastic."

Good to know

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Reservations are required to secure a seat for popular events.

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Tickets must be purchased in advance to attend performances.

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Expect sold-out shows, especially on weekends and special event nights.

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Cozy dive bar with a vintage atmosphere and classic arcade games like pinball and skee-ball. Music stays rocking and lively, creating a unique San Antonio vibe. Separate spaces include a game room and a patio with seating, offering varied experiences in one spot.

An eclectic bar with antique furniture and a unique vibe that feels like a cool hideaway. Friendly bartenders serve a diverse menu in a well air-conditioned space with a great atmosphere and first-class games.

Great bartenders craft drinks like an orange old fashion and handle situations smoothly, even offering free drinks when needed. The spot has a cool atmosphere that works well for couples and groups on date nights.

People are saying

"The bar staff here is so attentive and friendly."

"The atmosphere here is so cool, with a great retro vibe."

"The staff here are amazing and super friendly for Date Spots."

Good to know

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Karaoke happens every Sunday night, attracting a chill crowd.

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Half-price pizzas are available on Mondays.

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The bar gets quite packed on Saturday nights.

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Mexican restaurant

Open kitchen design offers intimate viewing of chefs at work without kitchen smells. Atmosphere feels cozy and quiet, with engaged attentive staff enhancing the experience. Bar area features artfully crafted cocktails that complement the culinary focus.

Bar area features a unique Corn Esquites Tart served as hors d'oeuvres. Bar staff provide attentive and engaging service.

Celebrations here reach new heights with every visit, offering memorable meals that stand out for couples. The atmosphere supports special occasions with consistently impressive dining experiences.

People are saying

"The food here is a unique, creative journey through authentic Mexican flavors."

"The bar staff's amazing hospitality made the entire evening unforgettable."

"The stories behind each dish and cocktail at these Date Spots are incredible."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended due to high demand for special events.

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The menu changes frequently, so check online before visiting.

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Mixtli does not allow substitutions on their set menu.

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