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Date spot bars

Made for those who look for a drink and a setting that facilitates a genuine connection with their partner.

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Jazz club

Jazz club with New Orleans style and colorful murals creates a cozy, classy atmosphere. Live performances feature top-notch musicians and experimental cocktails complement the vibe. Outdoor patio overlooks the river walk, adding a relaxed touch.

Jazz music sets the tone with a great ambiance and craft cocktail creations behind the bar. This spot avoids the usual sports bar vibe, offering a classy date atmosphere without high prices.

A classy atmosphere suits romantic dates without high costs. Arriving early helps avoid crowds, making it ideal for quiet, intimate evenings.

People are saying

"The jazz musicians here are incredibly talented."

"I enjoyed the amazing, flavorful cocktails here."

"This cozy bar has delicious cocktails and great jazz music."

Good to know

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Jazz performances occur every Friday and Saturday night starting at 8 pm.

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Reservations are recommended, costing $16 per person.

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Seating is limited, so arrive early to secure a table.

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Bar under a bridge along the riverwalk offers river views and water misting fans that keep the area cool. Atmosphere blends chic and fun vibes with lively energy, especially at the riverfront bar where people watch and boats pass by.

A cool bar under a bridge offers great drinks and a unique setting on the riverwalk. Friendly bartenders like Ben and Sam provide kind service and share local insights.

Craft cocktails like the siesta spritz offer a unique sit-and-sip experience. Friendly bartenders provide attentive service, making it a comfortable spot for couples.

People are saying

"The bar staff here are amazing and make you feel so welcome."

"The walking tacos are a solid value at $5."

"The bartenders here are so attentive and make it an amazing time."

Good to know

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Happy hour runs from 11 AM to 5 PM with $5 beers and tacos.

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The happy hour walking tacos cost $5.

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Grab a seat at the bar when Ben is working for great service.

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Food and drink

Rooftop bar with beautiful riverwalk views and a wading pool creates a relaxed outdoor lounge atmosphere. Music from a live DJ keeps energy lively and encourages dancing. The vibe is cool and inviting, perfect for special occasions or casual evenings.

Rooftop setting offers beautiful views and a relaxed vibe. Bartenders like Connell, Hunter, and Jazz provide excellent service consistently.

Helpful staff assist with special moments like proposals and remember names even when busy. Drinks like the La Mula cocktail and Cabernet Sauvignon add to the experience.

People are saying

"The bar staff here are amazing and so nice."

"I loved the outdoor seating with a nice view of the Riverwalk."

"The staff here makes it a great spot for a proposal."

Good to know

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Happy hour events can be hosted for groups of up to 20 people.

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The front area is available for private happy hour rentals.

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DJ performances occur regularly, featuring a mix of old and new hits.

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Bar space features disco ball shark, production-level lighting, and a secret speakeasy lounge behind a fake vending machine. Atmosphere shifts from super chill and eclectic upfront to a lively club vibe in the back. Music plays continuously with a DJ, and art pieces create multiple photo opportunities throughout.

Secret speakeasy adds a fun twist with a hidden bar lounge. Drinks stand out as different and exceptional. The vibe includes pink lighting and a mural, plus a snack menu.

Bright, colorful drinks like the merry mai tai offer refreshing options. Affordable specials include a $2 beer and $5 old fashioned, making it easy to enjoy a casual date night.

People are saying

"The bartenders here are so personable and skilled at their craft during Happy Hour."

"It's a magical place with tons of photo ops for date spots."

"The drinks here are really good and varied."

Good to know

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Happy hour runs from 3 to 8 PM with a variety of drink specials.

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Pink Shark has a secret bar located past the bathrooms.

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Food is available at certain times, including snacks and small plates.

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Wood-paneled bar with historic decor and period memorabilia creates a cozy, lively atmosphere filled with stories of past dignitaries. Loud but comfortable energy draws a mix of patrons who appreciate its old European pub feel and rich character. Live acoustic music adds to the engaging vibe.

History fills the room with bullet holes from Teddy Roosevelt and a moose bust on the wall. Wood paneling creates a cozy, old European pub feel that reminds some of a proper English pub.

Cozy atmosphere with British pub vibes sets a relaxed tone for date nights. Drinks like Bloody Marys and Margaritas on the rocks come well made and add to the experience.

People are saying

"This bar is a slice of American history where Teddy Roosevelt recruited Rough Riders."

"You have to try the pineapple upside down martini; it's amazing."

"It's a cool place with a dark, moody, old-time vibe."

Good to know

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The bar offers drink specials that are cheaper than the regular menu prices.

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Expect higher prices for drinks, especially for imported beers.

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The bar is located just steps from the Alamo, making it a convenient stop.

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Early 1900s building hosts a vintage atmosphere with stunning chandeliers and leather chairs. Live music fills the space, while a quiet speakeasy area offers a calm retreat. The venue balances lively energy with cozy spots for relaxation and socializing.

A whiskey bar set in a 1919 building offers an open bar option and a cash bar. Bartenders like Sophia and Jon provide samples and detailed explanations of their whiskey selections.

Offers a relaxed vibe ideal for a pre-night out or anniversary celebration. Couples can enjoy Cinnamon whiskey and play cornhole while watching the game, with budget-friendly options available.

People are saying

"The whiskey here was phenomenal and some of the best I've ever tasted."

"The bar's vintage feel and gorgeous aesthetics make it a cool spot."

"The atmosphere here is great for date spots."

Good to know

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Happy hour offers drinks for only $4, making it a great deal.

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The venue is suitable for weddings and private events.

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The distillery has a dog-friendly patio, but not inside.

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Cocktail bar offers live music with a chill atmosphere and ambient lighting. Seating includes couches and comfy chairs alongside high top tables and a well-stocked bar. The vibe is relaxed yet upscale, drawing a crowd that enjoys well-crafted drinks and good tunes.

Upscale bar with a sophisticated yet neighborhood feel offers creative drinks and unique bar bites. The atmosphere feels classy and welcoming, paired with good service and tasty food.

Great for date nights with a vibe that supports conversation even with live music playing. Offers refreshing drinks, including standout zero-proof options and a notable painkiller cocktail.

People are saying

"The bar's craft cocktails were excellent and reasonably priced."

"The live music creates such a great, relaxing atmosphere."

"The drinks here are strong and refreshing, perfect for Date Spots."

Good to know

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Happy hour runs from 4-7pm on weekdays with budget-friendly drink specials.

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Live jazz performances occur every Friday and Saturday night starting at 9pm.

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The bar offers a late-night cocktail experience until 2am on weekends.

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Tourist attraction

Exhibits combine interactive art, optical illusions, and immersive sound to create a visually and sensually stimulating environment. Visitors move through distinct rooms featuring ball pits, trampolines, and unique installations that invite playful exploration. A bar with specialty cocktails allows drinks to accompany the experience, blending social and artistic elements.

A bar attached to the space lets people bring drinks into the exhibits. It offers a spot for parents to relax while waiting for their kids.

Offers a fun and lively atmosphere that works well for couples and families alike. The setting suits special occasions like anniversaries and creates memorable date nights.

People are saying

"It's a fun and interactive experience for all ages."

"It's a great spot for date night with interactive exhibits."

"Maria at the bar was the best guide during my visit."

Good to know

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The entry fee is about $25 per person, with parking available downtown.

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You need to sign a waiver before enjoying the activities.

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Tickets should be bought in advance to avoid waiting, especially on busy weekends.

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Historic building with deep Texas roots creates a warm, rustic atmosphere filled with Texas heritage and elegant design. Quiet space offers world-class whiskey and small-batch spirits alongside educational tours that highlight local history and craftsmanship.

Upstairs offers a beautiful bar with inventive cocktails and elevated comfort food. Drinks like the smoked old fashioned stand out.

Whiskey flights and beers offer stellar options for tasting together. The atmosphere encourages spontaneous visits and shared enjoyment.

People are saying

"This whiskey is bold, balanced, and unapologetically Texan."

"The bartender Michael was fantastic."

"Jason's gift of gab made our Date Spots experience enjoyable."

Good to know

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The upstairs bar is closed on Monday and Tuesday.

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Tours provide insights into whiskey production and the distillery's history.

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Whiskey flights are reasonably priced at $15.

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Big open-air conditioned brewery with pool tables, arcade games, and a huge dog-friendly outdoor patio creates a lively, chill atmosphere. Stylish wood-beamed design adds an old world feel without pretension. Crowd enjoys cold, excellent beer alongside casual games and live music.

Waiting in line pays off for the badass selection of cocktails and a fully stocked liquor bar alongside their brewery picks. The bar offers great beers and cocktails but some prefer other spots more.

Offers a relaxed spot for couples with different tastes, including those who enjoy craft IPAs and those who prefer non-beer options. Supports both intimate dates and group gatherings with a chill vibe.

People are saying

"I found the beer here to be amazing and delicious."

"This bar is totally dog-friendly, I saw so many pups inside."

"It's got tons of fun games for date spots, like skee ball and pool."

Good to know

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Happy hour runs from 3 to 6 PM with great deals on drinks.

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Karaoke takes place every Tuesday night, starting at 8 PM.

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The brewery allows food from the adjacent market but has a strict no outside drink policy.

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Restaurant offers great views of the Riverwalk with a loud, hectic, and fun atmosphere energized by an outstanding DJ. Guests enjoy top-notch margaritas and some of the best guacamole, queso, and tacos around.

Energetic and friendly bartenders create a lively atmosphere. Staff show genuine passion for their work and focus on making customers happy.

Margaritas, especially the piรฑa margarita, stand out for couples looking to unwind. The Original Beef Enchiladas and original enchilada offer solid meal options for a relaxed date by the river.

People are saying

"The food here is amazing and came out fast and hot."

"You have to meet Jessica at the bar; she's the best."

"The service at these date spots is attentive and makes the occasion magical."

Good to know

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Rita's on the River offers a 10% discount for military personnel.

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Expect high prices, with tacos costing around $18 for four.

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The kitchen may run out of popular menu items like pork and quesadillas.

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Winery offers flower-based wines with low sugar content in a cozy yet elegant tasting room. Atmosphere shifts from laid back during the day to vibrant with live music on weekends. Beautifully maintained space blends historic charm with a relaxed, inviting vibe.

Offers a floral wine bar with a pleasant atmosphere for chatting and tasting. Features live music and food pairings alongside knowledgeable staff.

Celebrations and quiet evenings happen in the tasting room designed for couples. Returning visitors find it fitting for anniversaries and date nights.

People are saying

"The staff's wine knowledge and friendly service made it a great experience."

"The flower-based wines here are a unique and amazing experience."

"I highly recommend this floral wine bar for a great experience."

Good to know

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They offer free wine tastings every day.

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The tasting experience lasts about half an hour.

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Live music occurs from 8 to 10 PM on select nights.

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Brunch restaurant

Cafe blends elegant, trendy decor with a dog-friendly environment that welcomes pets inside and offers treats. Atmosphere shifts from quiet and productive during work hours to lively with a full bar serving craft cocktails. Design details and comfortable seating create a charming, intimate vibe.

An old Hollywood glamour vibe shapes the cocktail bar experience here, blending a full bar with a tempting dessert case. The spot is also dog-friendly, mixing coffee shop charm with bar appeal.

A spot with a casual vibe great for coffee dates or meeting blind dates. Offers unique drinks like the Puppermint Mocha and a relaxed atmosphere for working or hanging out.

People are saying

"The coffee shop's atmosphere is cozy, with thoughtful details and a beautiful design."

"The playlist here is great for date spots."

"This bar is so dog friendly, you can even bring your pup."

Good to know

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Kiki's Coffee & Spirits allows dogs inside, not just on the patio.

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They only serve breakfast on weekends.

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There is no dedicated parking lot, but free street parking is usually available nearby.

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Tiki bar offers tropical escapism vibe with fantastic decor and a riverside patio that provides great views. Atmosphere stays relaxing and quiet, with cool music enhancing the mood. Drinks include some of the best tiki cocktails and a notable rum selection, complemented by unique food like furikake fries and Spam Musubi.

Offers an authentic tiki bar experience with a wide rum selection and homemade mixers. The bar has a cute vibe and appeals strongly to fans of tiki style.

Tiki bar offers a fun vibe with creative cocktails like the Martinique Fashioned and Pirate Treasure. Couples enjoy the lively atmosphere and return for the engaging experience.

People are saying

"This tiki bar's immersive atmosphere transports you far away."

"The drinks here are amazing and super strong."

"The tiki vibe here is a fun, immersive escape for date spots."

Good to know

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Happy Hour runs from 4pm to 6pm, Monday through Friday.

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Expect a busy bar during Happy Hour; standing room only is common.

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The bar has both indoor and outdoor seating options available.

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Longest wooden bar in Texas stretches over 100 feet, setting a historic and classy tone. Romantic, old-timey atmosphere blends with classic rock music and a lively speakeasy downstairs. Multiple floors offer varied experiences, including an outdoor patio overlooking the river.

A historic bar with the longest wooden bar in Texas offers great drinks and good food. A speakeasy downstairs adds a cool vibe for enjoying drinks and ambiance.

People are saying

"The food and drinks here are fantastic."

"Daniel's awesome, he really made our experience better."

"The bartenders here make experimental drinks that are nailed."

Good to know

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Happy hour runs from 4-5pm with drink specials available.

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Lunch food specials and happy hour drink specials are offered Monday through Friday.

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Food includes $2 deviled eggs during happy hour.

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Cocktail bar with an underground speakeasy vibe features moody, dark lighting and modern music from a live DJ. The atmosphere shifts from relaxing early evening to nightclub energy later at night. Decor includes classic car entrance and art-inspired cocktails named after famous paintings.

Craft cocktails and special liqueurs stand out with a nice selection. The bartender is friendly and offers great suggestions. The bar's concept and design create a memorable atmosphere.

An elevator provides easy access for couples with mobility needs. The bar offers a cocktail-focused menu and a relaxed atmosphere suited for dates or hanging out with friends.

People are saying

"The cocktails are perfectly crafted, balanced, and carefully presented."

"The bar staff makes you feel so welcome and taken care of."

"Darren made our Date Spots a blast."

Good to know

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Expect to pay a $10 cover fee to enter the bar.

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Bottle service requires a minimum purchase of four bottles at $450 each.

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The venue enforces a dress code, but it seems inconsistently applied.

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Miniature golf courses feature three separate 9-hole themed layouts with creative, over-the-top designs and unique holes that stand out from typical putt-putt. The atmosphere is fun and energetic, with loud music and a lively vibe that shifts to a bar scene at night. Magic performances add entertainment, engaging both kids and adults during visits.

Skylier and Frances provide amazing service behind the bar. Drinks are allowed on the course, adding to the relaxed vibe.

Playing 9 holes of mini golf pairs well with dinner for a fun date night. Magic tricks and chances to win free shots add interactive entertainment to the evening.

People are saying

"The mini golf courses were really fun to play."

"These Date Spots are challenging but super fun."

"Frances at the bar makes every visit enjoyable with amazing drinks."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended for busy nights, especially for karaoke rooms.

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Kids are allowed until 9pm, after which the venue becomes 21+ only.

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Expect a wait time of up to two hours for walk-ins during peak hours.

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Bar with balcony patio overlooking riverwalk offers a cool atmosphere with live DJs upstairs creating great vibes. The space combines air conditioning and awesome decor for a comfortable, trendy spot to enjoy music and drinks.

Cool bar with air conditioning and a balcony patio overlooking the river walk. Bartenders provide excellent service and the atmosphere has great vibes and music.

Offers a lively setting for date nights with options for riverfront views and drinks. Hosts speed dating events that add a fun twist to the evening.

People are saying

"The Mexican food here, especially the tacos, is excellent."

"The Riverwalk views from up here are awesome."

"It's a great spot for drinks and chilling with a relaxed, cozy vibe."

Good to know

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Karaoke nights happen every Thursday starting at 10pm with a two-drink minimum.

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Taco Tuesday features $2 tacos and drink specials all night.

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Happy hour runs from 4-7pm on weekdays with discounted drinks.

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Retro club with 80s and 90s decor, including full-size arcade games and themed murals, creates a nostalgic atmosphere. Energetic vibe fueled by throwback music and a lively dance floor. Two bars and multiple rooms offer photo-worthy setups and a fun, crowded space.

Two dance floors and multiple bars offer plenty of space to move or chill. Bright neon lights create a flashy 80s vibe with free games and friendly service that keeps the night lively.

Couples enjoy booth reservations and personalized celebrations here. Drinks like Love Potion Number Nine add a fun touch to date nights.

People are saying

"This nightclub's music is amazing for dancing all night."

"I loved the retro music blasting 90s hip hop and pop."

"The music and vibes here make it a great spot for dancing."

Good to know

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Happy hour runs all day on Sundays with discounted drinks.

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Karaoke takes place on Mondays, providing a fun night for guests.

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Expect a cover fee after 9pm for entry on weekends.

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Large revitalized warehouse with spacious indoor and outdoor areas features hanging greenery, paper lanterns, and disco balls. Energetic atmosphere thrives with live music, DJs, and big screens showing sports and games. Outdoor patio offers food trucks, lawn games, and ample seating, creating a community-centered vibe.

Large size and personal hospitality stand out at this bar. Staff offer bar service, catering, and games, creating a lively sports bar atmosphere.

People are saying

"The bartenders here are so friendly and accommodating."

"The food trucks here have amazing mini tacos and tortas."

"The staff here is friendly and the food is good for Date Spots."

Good to know

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Open mic night is every Wednesday at 9:00 PM.

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Game day specials are available for Texans fans.

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Live music and a DJ are featured from Thursday to Saturday nights.

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Retro 80s and 90s theme fills the space with vintage decor and old school TVs playing music videos. Loud, nostalgic music creates an energetic vibe that keeps people moving. A small thrift shop inside and unique pizza toppings add to the distinctive atmosphere.

A welcoming vibe comes from the friendly staff behind the bar who engage well in conversation. The bar offers a cool atmosphere that fits well in the area and invites guests to relax and enjoy.

Couples enjoy the Mojobox Space drink, noted for its delicious taste. The spot offers a cozy vibe that appeals to pairs looking for a relaxed outing.

People are saying

"I thought the pizza was delicious and perfectly cooked."

"The bar staff, Tina and Olivia, were amazing and friendly."

"The pizza here is pretty solid, a real standout."

Good to know

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Happy hour offers discounted prices on drinks and appetizers.

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Parking costs $15 due to limited street parking availability.

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The restaurant is small, so groups larger than four may have difficulty seating.

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