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Bars for dates

A bar is only worth your time if the setting makes it easy to actually talk to your date.

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Sleek space with pink and blue lighting and a patio deck overlooking the ocean creates a stylish, welcoming vibe. Atmosphere blends laid-back energy with a female-friendly, girls night out feel, suitable for dates and casual gatherings. Live music and customizable events add to the dynamic, inclusive environment.

An easy-going cocktail bar with clean, inviting ambiance and exceptional service. It handles large events smoothly, offering custom menus and open bars for celebrations like weddings and parties.

A spot with a girls night out vibe that also works well for date night or small groups. The atmosphere suits both casual dinners and more intimate outings.

People are saying

"The Bar Ella team handled every detail for my event, making it magical."

"The atmosphere here is great for Date Spots, with just the right lighting."

"The crab cakes were delicious with a generous portion for the price."

Good to know

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Happy hour runs until 6:00 PM with great prices on drinks and appetizers.

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The 'Tinis and Weenies' special on Wednesdays features $8 martinis and $4 hot dogs.

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Reservations are recommended for private events and large gatherings.

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Cocktail bar

Nautical-themed speakeasy with a hidden entrance offers a unique, upscale lounge atmosphere. Loud club music creates a high-energy vibe that challenges conversation. Interactive elements and jaw-dropping decor set it apart from typical cocktail bars.

An intimate, classy speakeasy gin bar with a full bar and well made cocktails. The vibe suits a quiet, upscale night out without loud crowds or open doors.

Quiet atmosphere supports light conversation and a cute date night vibe. Menu features smoked salmon poppers and a sticky toffee date cake dessert.

People are saying

"The bar staff here is so friendly and attentive."

"I loved the unique and fun cocktail choices here."

"The food and drinks here are amazing, especially the tacos."

Good to know

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Reservations are required with a $10 deposit per person.

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Parking is available, but ACE parking enforces payment strictly.

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Happy hour runs from 5:00 to 6:00 PM, offering half-off cocktails.

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Event venue

Venue combines colonial style architecture with mosaic art and a two-floor layout featuring spacious dance floors. Atmosphere is lively and friendly, filled with people dressed up and dancing salsa and bachata to DJ music and classes. Crowd stays for long nights of dancing in a no-judgment zone with a small bar and occasional buffet.

A full bar serves drinks in a 21+ venue with a single bar and no servers.

Salsa dancing creates a fun date night atmosphere with plenty of space to dance. The bar offers drinks but is notably sparse in selection. People can find company easily, even without a partner.

People are saying

"I found the salsa lessons easy to follow and the crowd welcoming."

"I was ignored at the bar while waiting for tap water."

"The intro salsa lesson for Date Spots was fantastic and fun."

Good to know

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Water is only available for purchase in bottled form at the venue.

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Expect to pay $15 for entry, or $17 if using a credit card.

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The venue is 21+ with a full bar, so no minors allowed.

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Rooftop garden offers ocean views and an open, airy space with natural light and greenery. Atmosphere varies from loud and crowded downstairs to a more relaxed vibe upstairs near the fire. Music features a loud, curated playlist that energizes the space.

Rooftop events host over 50 people with an open bar and small bites. The bar offers an upscale vibe with fresh, above-average food compared to typical spots in the area.

Rooftop seating offers a fun spot for dates. Drinks like the watermelon cocktail and food such as the fantastic burger and chicken tacos add to the experience.

People are saying

"The bar staff here is so friendly and attentive."

"The rooftop views and water features here are super cool."

"The rooftop Date Spots here have gorgeous ocean views."

Good to know

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Expect a wait time of 45-50 minutes for a table on weekends.

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The rooftop area is not accessible for children under 21.

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Private events can be hosted on the rooftop for over 50 guests.

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Huge dance floor hosts energetic line and partner dancing with a mix of HipHop and country music. Multiple drink bars and an outdoor patio create a spacious, lively setting. Sound is clear but often loud, while the crowd is packed yet only some dance, keeping the vibe chill yet electric.

Multiple bars spread out allow quick orders and keep the energy flowing. The spot features a DJ, a lively dance floor, and a welcoming bar staff that adds to the fun vibe.

Partner dancing and line dances create a lively atmosphere for couples. Sharing tables and watching games together add to the social vibe.

People are saying

"I loved the fast-paced line dancing nights here."

"It's the best bar to watch the 49ers games."

"This is the best place for date spots; I got married here!"

Good to know

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Line dancing starts at 8PM and goes until 10:30PM on Tuesdays.

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Admission is free for events at the venue.

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Parking is available right across the street from the venue.

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Mexican restaurant

Beachfront setting offers magnificent ocean views and a laid-back vibe with outdoor heaters and dog-friendly patio. Music spans from 80's to early 2000's, creating a relaxed atmosphere. The spot draws people who enjoy sitting by the sea while sipping margaritas and enjoying casual Mexican fare.

A laid-back beach bar with both outdoor and indoor seating right on the water. It offers a fun vibe with lots of music and friendly service and usually no wait to get in.

Breakfast here offers a relaxed vibe that suits hanging out with friends or a first date. The food serves as a solid backdrop for easy conversation.

People are saying

"The outdoor patio is awesome, right on the beach."

"It's a great spot for Date Spots with awesome ocean views."

"You have to try the nachos at the bar; they're cheesy, crunchy, and loaded."

Good to know

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Happy hour runs from 4-7 PM on weekdays with 2 for 1 drink specials.

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Enjoy buy one get one free cocktails until 7 PM during happy hour.

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Expect a service fee of 3.9% on your bill.

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