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Bars for dates in Union Square, SF

Made for those who prefer a social, drink-focused environment when getting to know someone new.

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Cocktail bar

Space blends Edwardian heritage with contemporary elegance, creating a cozy, intimate atmosphere that feels both laid-back and inviting. Regular jazz performances add a timeless, warm energy, while the crowd ranges from casual to upscale, making it suitable for various occasions.

Inventive and well-executed cocktails create a standout bar program. The atmosphere feels neighborhoody and local despite being inside a hotel, offering a relaxed escape from the city bustle.

Good for intimate dates or small groups. Works well for a catch up with friends or a quiet evening together.

People are saying

"The cocktails here are unique and perfectly balanced."

"The cocktails here are unique, well-balanced, and delicious."

"It's a nice spot for a date or catching up with friends."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended for dinner service, especially on weekends.

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The bar offers a small but diverse menu with reasonable prices for San Francisco.

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Happy hour features discounted appetizers and drinks from 4-6pm on weekdays.

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Small, cozy restaurant inside a beautifully restored vintage hotel with 1920s architecture and a mezzanine lounge. Quiet and relaxing atmosphere with live piano and singer enhancing the elegant vibe. Known for exceptional cocktails and a refined dining experience.

House-made mixers and bitters create unique cocktails at the bar. The Post Room offers a quiet, relaxing lounge atmosphere, while the rooftop Starlight Room serves drinks with a view.

Warm, cozy atmosphere sets the tone for intimate moments. High tea and night caps create relaxed, special occasion vibes perfect for date nights.

People are saying

"The drinks at this bar were the best I ever had."

"You can catch live music, from jazz to contemporary tunes, on Saturday nights."

"The drinks here are absolutely amazing."

Good to know

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Live music performances occur every Saturday night, featuring local musicians.

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Fridays and Saturdays feature live piano performances.

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Expect an extra $8.50 service charge added to your bill.

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Rooftop bar offers stunning city views and a romantic atmosphere especially at night. A DJ spins music that shapes the vibe, sometimes loud for a lounge but often fitting the mood. Cocktails and small plates complement the setting, creating a fun and inviting energy.

Rooftop bar offers 360-degree city views and a great atmosphere. Drinks come from a solid, well-regarded bar with opportunities to sample cocktails before ordering.

Ideal for a Saturday night date or a Friday happy hour, the venue offers a cozy spot for couples. The team checks in regularly, creating a welcoming vibe for date nights or hanging out with friends.

People are saying

"I enjoyed the beautiful city views from here."

"The bar has incredible city views."

"The date spots here have spectacular rooftop views."

Good to know

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Reservations are required to dine at Starlite, especially for city view tables.

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Only bar seating was available during my visit due to high demand.

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No outside food is allowed at Starlite, even with reservations.

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Basement setting features dark wood walls, candle-lit tables, and luxurious gold tableware creating an elegant Korean steakhouse atmosphere. Smokeless grills built into tables allow for interactive dining without smoke or stuffiness. Stylish decor and a private dining room add to the upscale, intimate vibe.

Downstairs feels like a basement with a beautiful bar and dining room. Phil at the bar adds to the wonderful experience.

Dinner here offers a helpful server who explains the menu and suggests dishes. The setting suits special occasions like birthdays and anniversaries, creating an unforgettable night.

People are saying

"The Korean BBQ food here is exceptional, especially the Wagyu."

"The servers here make you feel so special on your date."

"The bar's horchata drink tasted sour and might have spoiled."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended, especially on weekends, to avoid long wait times.

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Parking is available in front of the restaurant until 6pm in the commercial zone.

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The restaurant is located one floor below street level, so be prepared for stairs.

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American restaurant

Elegant steakhouse space combines modern sophistication with warm, inviting decor and breathtaking booths. Atmosphere is loud and crowded, with music often too loud for easy conversation. Menu features perfectly cooked steaks and standout dishes like truffle macaroni and caviar.

Exquisite mood lighting and a striking clock set a unique atmosphere. Brandon at the bar provides attentive service, making it a notable spot for drinks.

Perfect setting for date night with options for intimate seating or the bar. Staff create a personal touch with birthday cards and friendly check-ins.

People are saying

"The steak here is perfectly cooked and bursting with flavor."

"I found the cocktails here to be awesome."

"The steak here is perfect and incredibly flavorful."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended due to high demand, especially on weekends.

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Expect wait times of 30-60 minutes during peak dinner hours.

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The restaurant has a dress code; business casual attire is required.

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Two-level karaoke bar offers an open stage area upstairs and themed private rooms downstairs with bottle service. Atmosphere blends chill and fun vibes with lively, fun-loving crowds and electric lighting. Song selection is extensive, supported by a talented DJ and strong acoustics.

Electric vibe suits small groups and dates with private rooms that fit around a dozen people comfortably. The song selection stands out, and bottle service adds to the fun atmosphere for parties and singing sessions.

Electric lounge vibe suits small groups and dates. Private rooms offer intimate karaoke sessions for couples on busy nights.

People are saying

"This karaoke spot has the funnest atmosphere I've experienced."

"This karaoke bar is seriously fun."

"It's a blast for date spots, especially with karaoke and drinks."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended, especially on weekends, to secure a private room.

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Private room deals are available on Mondays and Tuesdays for larger groups.

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Expect to pay around $15 per person for a private room for several hours.

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