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Date spots in San Mateo

An evening out that prioritizes conversation over the noise of a crowded room.

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Massage spa

Massage spa offers a calming atmosphere with luxurious foot baths and personalized pressure settings via iPad. Couples enjoy intimate deep tissue massages perfect for anniversaries or Friday dates. Space feels welcoming and peaceful, ideal for relaxation and connection.

Couples enjoy deep tissue and Swedish massages that start with a foot soak and scrub. The setting suits relaxed, intimate moments for anniversaries or Friday dates.

People are saying

"The spa massages here are amazing and leave you feeling so good."

"This is a great spot for a couples massage date."

"I found the deep tissue massage to be fantastic and thorough."

Good to know

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Spa Siam Orchid offers a complimentary foot scrub with every massage.

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Prices for massages are reasonable compared to other local spas.

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Reservations are recommended, especially on weekends.

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Two large ballrooms offer excellent sound systems and a warm atmosphere for all skill levels. Couples enjoy private lessons with instructors who tailor routines like the Viennese waltz. Flexible scheduling supports comfortable, inspiring dance practice.

Private dance lessons focus on couples, with instructors helping craft custom routines like the Viennese waltz. Instructors demonstrate moves, supporting partners with different dance backgrounds.

People are saying

"The dance instructors here are patient, fun, and great at breaking down moves."

"I learned a beautiful wedding dance routine here."

"The instructors make learning dance moves fun and understandable."

Good to know

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Transparent pricing with a published fee schedule applies to everyone.

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Scheduling classes is flexible; you can come in whenever you want.

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Monthly dance parties offer opportunities to learn new moves and perform.

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Pizza restaurant

Cozy spot offers freshly made pizza with rich flavors and a warm atmosphere. Simple decor and traditional hospitality create a perfect setting for couples. Both indoor and outdoor seating invite relaxed, intimate visits.

Late night visits offer a chance to enjoy freshly made pizza with rich flavors. The spot creates a cozy vibe that encourages repeat visits for couples.

People are saying

"I've never had pizza this delicious before."

"I loved the amazing Halal pizza here."

"The food here is amazing and very flavorful for a date spot."

Good to know

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The restaurant offers only HALAL food with no pork.

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The restaurant remains open late for dinner.

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It is just a few steps from downtown, making it easily accessible.

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Restaurant

Small restaurant with Greek charm offers a cozy, intimate vibe perfect for date nights and celebrations. High ceilings and natural light create a vibrant atmosphere. Close tables and outdoor seating make it welcoming for friends and families.

Ambience suits a date night well with a cozy, intimate feel. It works great for celebrations and spending quality time with a partner or friends.

People are saying

"The Greek Food, especially the grilled octopus and lamb chops, was amazing."

"The calamari here is prepared to perfection."

"The food here is absolutely delicious for Date Spots."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended, especially for dinner service.

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Expect a minimum 18% gratuity for parties of 6 or more.

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Parking is plentiful in the surrounding neighborhood.

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Barbecue restaurant

Cozy spot with upside-down umbrellas and subtle Japanese decor sets a quiet ambiance perfect for dates. Heated trays keep skewers warm, letting couples enjoy dishes like bacon with pineapple and chicken skewers at a relaxed pace.

Ambiance stays quiet and cozy, making it easy to talk. The spot feels cute and works well for couples or small groups. Dishes like bacon with pineapple and chicken skewers come up as favorites.

People are saying

"I found the food here to be delicious and tasty."

"It's a great late night spot that's open really late."

"The food here is amazing, especially the skewers."

Good to know

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Happy hour runs from 9:30 to 11:30pm, offering buy-one-get-one-free beer.

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An 18% tip is automatically added to all bills.

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Parking is available, but it may require a short walk.

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Cozy cafe offers lake views and soft jazz for a peaceful vibe. Perfect for dates with a cute atmosphere and tasty plates like spam rice and BLTA. Seating is comfy indoors and outdoors, ideal for work or relaxing with refreshing drinks.

Super cute atmosphere fits well for a date while staying chill enough to work. Food includes a spam rice plate, BLTA, turkey pesto, and refreshing drinks with mayo and Bobas.

People are saying

"I found the Bulgogi here to be my new go-to."

"I loved the delicious bubble tea and great milk tea."

"This place has a cute, cozy atmosphere perfect for date spots."

Good to know

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There is ample free parking available near the cafe.

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The cafe is dog-friendly, making it a great spot for pet owners.

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Expect a relaxed atmosphere suitable for light work and socializing.

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Barbecue restaurant

Japanese-style barbecue offers an intimate izakaya vibe with tabletop grills and live anime music. Couples enjoy a relaxed setting with happy hour and shareable dishes. Open kitchen adds authentic charcoal grilling to a cozy, lively space.

Offers a relaxed setting with happy hour options and a menu suited for sharing. Dinner here fits well for couples looking to enjoy a casual yet engaging evening.

People are saying

"The food here is delicious and flavorful."

"The yakitori here is great, and the service is so attentive."

"It's an awesome restaurant for a date night."

Good to know

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Happy hour runs every day after 9pm with half-off chicken skewers and buy one get one free beers.

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After 10 PM, all chicken dishes are half off, making it a great deal.

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The restaurant stays open until 12 am, perfect for late-night dining.

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Japanese restaurant

Spacious Japanese spot with teppanyaki grills offers lively cooking shows and attentive service from staff like Tall Jacob. Shared laughs create a fun, light vibe perfect for dates. Some areas can be smoky and noisy, adding to the unique social experience.

Attentive service from staff like Tall Jacob and Ryan keeps the mood easy and relaxed. Shared laughs with Joshua add a fun, light vibe to the evening.

People are saying

"The food here is delicious and prepared perfectly."

"The bar staff, especially Parker, were so attentive and made us feel welcomed."

"The chefs here make your date night special with fun cooking."

Good to know

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Happy hour runs weekdays from 3:00 PM to 6:00 PM with sushi rolls and drinks.

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Reservations are accepted, but walk-ins may face long wait times.

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The restaurant has a 90-minute time limit for meals during busy hours.

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Spa features modern design and a serene atmosphere perfect for couples. Enjoy customized scalp treatments and facials that detox and exfoliate dry skin. Space feels clean and quiet, ideal for deep relaxation and radiant skin.

Couples can enjoy customized scalp treatments and facials together in a relaxing setting. Services include thorough detoxing and exfoliating for dry skin and leave skin looking radiant and refreshed.

People are saying

"This relaxing spot made me feel so refreshed and stress-free."

"The massage here is so relaxing, I felt refreshed."

"This is the perfect spot for a relaxing date, I felt so cared for."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended for treatments to ensure availability.

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The spa offers a variety of scalp and facial treatments tailored to individual needs.

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Parking is available nearby, making it easy to access the spa.

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Modern Korean BBQ offers authentic flavors with a warm, lively vibe perfect for dates. Sleek design and art deco elements create a gorgeous setting. Creative soju cocktails add to the cozy, energetic atmosphere.

Warm, modern vibe with full of energy sets a lively tone for dates. The building offers a gorgeous, beautiful setting ideal for spending a couple of hours together.

People are saying

"The staff cooked the Korean Bbq right in front of us!"

"The service here is phenomenal, with constant refills."

"The meat quality at these Date Spots is premium and expertly prepared."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended on weekends to secure a table.

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The restaurant requires ordering a set menu to get galbi.

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Parking is available in a nearby garage with ample space.

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Space combines chic and homey design with cool coffee bar in an old pick-up truck and sea green tile bar, creating a warm and inviting lounge vibe. Seating arrangements suit solo diners, families, or groups, with beautiful plants adding calm and comfort. Noise levels stay low, fostering friendly, relaxed conversations.

People are saying

"The food here is delicious and beautifully plated."

"The Black cod with Miso for lunch was brilliantly seasoned and delicious."

"The Date Spots here have tender duck with crispy skin."

Good to know

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The restaurant is cashless and uses QR code ordering.

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The bar is not yet open due to pending permits.

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Portion sizes are generous and prices are reasonable.

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Asian fusion restaurant

Small Asian fusion spot blends modern wooden decor with a calming vibe that suits both dates and family meals. Intimate space offers table and counter seating for a cozy, relaxed experience. Ambiance feels like a mix of Tokyo and Southeast Asia, perfect for young couples.

Simple and elegant ambiance fits well for a first date. The spot works for young couples and feels comfortable for both dates and family outings.

People are saying

"The soy milk pho at this Lunch Spot is uniquely flavorful and creamy."

"The modern Japanese-Thai fusion dishes are a carefully calibrated composition."

"You have to try the soy milk pho; it's unique and flavorful."

Good to know

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You order at the front and pay first at Rin-Tei.

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A parking garage is close by, making it easy to get to Rin-Tei.

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Metered street parking is available right in front of the restaurant.

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Massage therapist

Semi-private rooms with high ceilings offer an open yet intimate feel. Couples enjoy deep tissue massages and relaxing couples sessions that often feel too short. Soft music and a clean, calm space create a relaxing atmosphere focused on quality treatments.

Couples can enjoy 60-minute sessions that often feel too short. The spot offers deep tissue massages and specializes in couples massages that many find relaxing together.

People are saying

"The spa staff are healers who identify and relieve your tension."

"The massage therapists here are skilled healers who work out tension."

"You'll experience the best massage ever here."

Good to know

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The spa offers a variety of massage styles, including Swedish and sports massage.

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Cash payments reduce transaction fees compared to credit card payments.

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A 4% - 5% transaction fee applies for credit card payments.

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Jewelry store

Huge inventory and spectacular display impress visitors. Exceptional service and personal engagement make it a great date spot. Free resizing and warranty offer fair prices and peace of mind.

Exceptional service creates a memorable experience that inspires gift-giving. Associates engage personally, even showcasing customers' rings to others, adding a unique touch to the visit.

People are saying

"The staff at this Ring Store are so helpful and patient."

"The staff at this Jewelry Store were so patient and helpful."

"Tony made us feel comfortable and passionate about jewelry."

Good to know

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There was plenty of parking available.

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The store has a wide selection of jewelry for both men and women.

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They resize rings for free if the new size isn't right.

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