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Date spots

You need a setting that does the heavy lifting for you, creating an atmosphere where conversation can actually happen.

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Complex of cozy bungalows offers heated floors and fireplaces for a luxurious touch. Spacious rooms with full kitchens create a home-like feel. Perfect for couples seeking a quiet, intimate setting to celebrate special moments.

Offers a quiet, intimate setting ideal for couples. Stays often mark special occasions like anniversaries or Valentine's weekend.

People are saying

"The beds were so comfortable, and the whole place felt beautifully appointed."

"The bathrooms were huge with large showers and heated floors."

"It's steps from the town square, perfect for Date Spots."

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The property is located within a short walk to shops and restaurants.

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Sonoma Bungalows is only a 5-minute walk from the shuttle pickup and race finish line.

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The bungalows are within walking distance to Sonoma Square and wine tasting rooms.

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Cozy courtyard setting offers a family-friendly vibe with pet visitors and a curated playlist. Couples enjoy wine tastings with a Hungarian oak chess board adding charm. Outdoor spaces with blankets and chairs create a refreshing, relaxed spot for dates.

A chess board made from Hungarian oak crafted by the server's husband adds a unique touch to the experience. The tasting room offers a relaxed setting where couples enjoy wine tastings together.

People are saying

"The wine staff here is so knowledgeable and friendly."

"The wines here are unique and fantastic."

"The wine tastings here are so friendly and knowledgeable."

Good to know

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Reservations may be recommended due to the new location.

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The tasting fee is $30 per person, which is a good deal for the quality.

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The tasting room is conveniently located on Sonoma Square.

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Restaurant

Dining feels like walking through a historic home with an open kitchen and handmade steak knives. Wine pairing menu shines for date spots and special occasions. Small, intimate setting with 11 tables offers a quiet, inviting atmosphere and custom antique dishes.

Dinner features a wine pairing menu that complements the meal well. The setting suits special occasions like anniversaries.

People are saying

"The food here is artfully presented and incredibly flavorful."

"The Local Spot's food showcased creative, local ingredients and surprising flavors."

"The food here is incredible, a true highlight of any Date Spot."

Good to know

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Reservations are highly recommended due to limited seating.

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The restaurant offers a tasting menu that changes seasonally.

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Expect a dress code of smart casual; no shorts or flip-flops.

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Restaurant

Small space blends modern decor with a warm vibe. Sichuan Wontons and Prawns offer bursting flavor perfect for sharing. Kind staff and cozy music create a sophisticated energy ideal for date nights.

Sichuan Wontons and Prawns offer bursting flavor and a perfect balance that stands out. The pork wontons and bundt cake provide solid options for a shared meal and dessert.

People are saying

"The food and wine here are excellent."

"The food here is eclectic, with flavors from around the world."

"The Date Spots here offer unique and well-executed dishes bursting with flavor."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended due to the restaurant's small size.

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The food typically arrives within 15 minutes of ordering.

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The daily social hour offers special prices on tapas and drinks.

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Lush trees and a water fountain create a quiet, peaceful outdoor space perfect for dates. Staff show understanding and celebrate birthdays with balloons and cupcakes. Indoor areas with a fireplace offer a cozy, inviting vibe.

Staff handle accidents with understanding and no extra charges. They celebrate special occasions with balloons and cupcakes for birthdays.

People are saying

"The breakfast here was delicious and made fresh daily."

"You get a complimentary glass of wine each afternoon."

"The staff here are so friendly and helpful for your date spots."

Good to know

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Complimentary wine and snacks are offered every evening at 5 PM.

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Happy hour includes a complimentary glass of local wine and light bites.

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Daily wine tastings kick off the evening for guests.

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Bright, welcoming tap room offers a wide variety of local ciders and unique meads like ginger agave. Friendly staff create a relaxed vibe and help guests find drinks that suit their taste. Perfect for date spots with creative drinks and inviting energy.

Cider options stand out with a variety including a ginger agave mead from Napa. Friendly staff guide guests to ciders that match their taste, making it easy to explore beyond wine.

People are saying

"The staff's knowledge about cider really impressed me."

"You'll find unique ciders with creative flavor combinations."

"You'll love the variety of ciders, meads, and slushies here."

Good to know

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Pomme offers a wide variety of ciders from local and international producers.

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They have 18 taps featuring a diverse selection of ciders.

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Food options include meat slices and snacks available for pairing.

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Winery blends a fun party vibe with a dog-friendly patio perfect for dates or groups. Guests enjoy deep wine tastings paired with snacks from an on-site food truck. Outdoor seating with Adirondack chairs offers a relaxed, casual atmosphere.

Back patio offers a cozy setting for intimate dates or group gatherings. Wine tasting includes deep comparisons of varieties, creating a focused and engaging experience.

People are saying

"The wine and staff here are phenomenal and made me feel like family."

"The atmosphere here is so casual and fun."

"These date spots offer amazing wine and a laid-back atmosphere."

Good to know

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The winery is very accessible, with a flat parking lot and no steps at the entrance.

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Tastings include sharing the winery's history and background behind the wines.

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The wine tasting experience is excellent and informative.

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Movie theater

Historic movie theater offers vintage decor and intimate seating for a cozy, romantic vibe. Candlelight events add soft glow and music, perfect for date nights. Talented musicians and excellent sound create an immersive experience with bands like Coldplay.

Candlelight events create a romantic atmosphere with soft candlelight and music. Performances feature bands like Coldplay and Imagine Dragons, making it a popular choice for a special date night.

People are saying

"It's a charming, historic venue for movies and live performing arts."

"It's a magical, romantic evening with the candlelight and music."

"The candlelight and music made for a phenomenal date night."

Good to know

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Free street parking is available nearby.

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There is a restroom across the street in the park.

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Snacks and beverages are sold at the venue.

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Small, intimate tasting room offers a quiet setting with comfortable chairs and tasteful decor. The atmosphere encourages good conversation and a relaxed pace. Wine selections focus on Pinot Noir and other fine varieties, creating a refined tasting experience.

People are saying

"The wine staff here are so knowledgeable and friendly."

"The hosts here are so warm and knowledgeable, making it a great spot for a date."

Good to know

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Tastings are available by appointment only, so plan ahead.

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The winery is conveniently located in the heart of Sonoma Square.

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Expect to learn about local soils and the winemaking process during your visit.

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Older building with charming character offers cozy, modern rooms with small balconies. Perfect for couples seeking a relaxing getaway in a sophisticated atmosphere. Location near shops and restaurants adds convenience despite some street noise.

Rooms offer a cozy atmosphere ideal for couples. The setting suits a relaxing getaway with a partner.

People are saying

"The beds here are the most comfortable I've ever experienced."

"The hotel staff greeted me warmly and offered great local recommendations."

"This place is perfect for a couples trip."

Good to know

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Parking is available for free in the back of the hotel on a first-come-first-serve basis.

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During the Tuesday Night Market event, parking may be limited, requiring a walk of three blocks.

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The hotel has no elevator, which may be a consideration for guests with mobility issues.

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Rustic interior with blue tables sets a casual, lively vibe perfect for dates. Enjoy a 7-item tasting menu featuring unique dishes like crispy pug ears. Friendly staff and a small patio create a welcoming atmosphere for intimate, relaxed dinners.

A romantic date features a 7-item tasting dinner menu with unique dishes like crispy pug ears and porcelain sausage. Friendly staff add to the relaxed vibe, making it great for casual dinners or special occasions.

People are saying

"The wine list here is perfectly balanced with the tapas."

"The shrimp empadas were perfectly seasoned and had a clean fry."

"The Date Spots offer a delicious variety of tapas, something for everyone."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended, especially during busy lunch hours.

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Parking is available directly in front with plenty of free street options.

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Prices are reasonable compared to similar dining experiences.

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Cozy wine bar shines with top-notch champagne and unique decor featuring bottlecaps and quotes. Bar seating pairs champagne and truffles for a relaxed, good vibes date spot. Atmosphere stays comfortable and uncrowded, ideal for unwinding or casual drinks.

Sitting at the bar offers a chance to enjoy champagne and truffles together. Drinks include a Moscow mule with added bubbles. The spot has a relaxed, good vibes atmosphere.

People are saying

"Dave poured bubbles and told thoughtful stories."

"The bartenders Dave and Nikki were knowledgeable and friendly."

"The customer service here is excellent for Date Spots."

Good to know

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SIGH does not take reservations and operates on a first come, first served basis.

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They offered three flight formats: premium at $115, international at $35, and California at $25.

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Street parking is available around the bar, making it easy to access.

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Cozy rooms with fireplaces set a warm tone for couples. Enjoy freshly cooked breakfast and a complimentary wine and cheese hour. Free bikes and a hot tub offer fun and relaxation near downtown.

Freshly cooked breakfast every morning creates a cozy start for couples. Reception staff stays kind and attentive to pairs, enhancing the welcoming vibe.

People are saying

"I loved the breakfast; it was delicious and tastefully presented."

"I loved the complimentary wine and cheese every afternoon."

"The staff here makes you feel so special, especially for Date Spots."

Good to know

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Daily wine and appetizers are not to be missed.

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Free wine and cheese sampling is available every night.

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Wine hour runs from 5 to 6 PM with local winery offerings.

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Small bistro shines with an intimate atmosphere and energetic open kitchen. Hosts celebrate special moments, making it perfect for date spots. Guests enjoy dishes like New Zealand snapper while dressed nicely in a quiet, respectful vibe.

Celebrations get special attention with hosts acknowledging occasions like birthdays. Dishes include New Zealand snapper, bolognese, and fresh salads, offering a variety of flavors for couples.

People are saying

"The dinner here is excellent and cooked perfectly."

"It's a great spot for birthday celebrations with special desserts."

"I found the ambiance here to be really cozy."

Good to know

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Reservations are essential to secure a table at this popular restaurant.

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The menu changes based on fresh ingredients, offering seasonal dishes.

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Expect higher prices, with main dishes averaging around $30.

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Rolling vineyards and Winter Wine Cave create a perfect date spot with a relaxed vibe. Spacious grounds offer shaded seating for outdoor relaxation. Occasional tours add a personal touch to the authentic, laid-back atmosphere.

Couples enjoy the Winter Wine Cave tour together, making it a memorable stop for special occasions like birthdays and honeymoons. The setting offers a relaxed vibe perfect for shared experiences.

People are saying

"I found the wine here to be delicious and exceptional."

"I loved learning about the family's history during the wine cave tour."

"The grounds offer stunning views, perfect for Date Spots."

Good to know

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The winery charges a $50 tasting fee per person.

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Reservations are recommended for private tours and tastings.

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Food options are limited to cheese, crackers, and salami.

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Barbecue inside a cheese shop serves smoked brisket and ribs on simple wood tables. Outdoor patio is dog-friendly and lively. Sharing a brisket sandwich makes a great date spot with views of the historic market.

Sharing a brisket sandwich stands out as a solid choice for couples. Turkey and brisket both offer satisfying options that complement a relaxed, enjoyable meal together.

People are saying

"The smoked brisket sandwich here is phenomenal American food."

"I thought the pulled pork sandwich was the best I've had."

"The brisket sandwich here is so delicious, it's the best I've ever tasted."

Good to know

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The restaurant closes at 4 pm, despite what is written on Google.

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The outdoor dog-friendly patio tables can get crowded during peak lunch times on weekends.

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They use Red Oak wood for smoking, which burns slowly and produces a mild smoky flavor.

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Cozy French ambiance and award-winning sparkling rosรฉ create a warm, intimate setting. Couples enjoy Victoria's warm hospitality and quiet alley seating. Live singing and a wishing well add charm to memorable celebrations.

Victoria's warm hospitality creates a cozy vibe that makes couples feel instantly connected. Sharing tastings and conversations here turns simple visits into memorable celebrations.

People are saying

"Victoria explained the wine in a way that was easy to understand."

"Victoria's service made our date spot feel special and educational."

"The wine tasting here is charming and the wines are delicious."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended for wine tastings, especially on weekends.

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The tasting room is open from 11am to 5pm daily.

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Credit cards are accepted, but cash is preferred for smaller purchases.

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Private outdoor pools with varied temperatures create a romantic setting for couples. Skilled therapists like Eileen and Alexis offer deep tissue massages perfect for special occasions. Spacious, cozy rooms with fireplaces add to the peaceful atmosphere ideal for unwinding.

Couples enjoy deep tissue and hot stone massages here. Skilled therapists like Eileen and Alexis provide exceptional massage experiences perfect for special occasions.

People are saying

"The spa massages here are amazing and so relaxing."

"The outdoor seating here is amazing, with magical hands."

"The massages here are amazing and leave you feeling so relaxed."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended for treatments, especially on weekends.

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Expect to pay a 20% gratuity automatically added to your bill.

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The spa offers a variety of treatments, including massages and body scrubs.

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Cozy tasting room and peaceful patio with a huge redwood tree create a warm, inviting spot. Wine and chocolate pairings add a thoughtful touch for dates. Friendly, educational vibe makes sharing and learning about wine easy and personal.

Tastings offer options to share or sip lightly, making it easy to explore wines together. Conversations often deepen with wine knowledge gained during visits, adding a thoughtful touch to the experience.

People are saying

"The wine educators here are knowledgeable and friendly."

"Our private host Jessie was fantastic and took a lot of time with us."

"Jessie was fantastic and took a lot of time with us."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended for tastings, especially on weekends.

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Walk-ins are accepted, but expect longer wait times during peak hours.

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The tasting experience includes detailed insights from knowledgeable wine educators.

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Northern Italian restaurant

Backyard patio with a fountain and live plants offers a cozy, airy vibe. Gnocchi with extraordinary flavors shines as a perfect date dish. Warmth from family photos and attentive staff creates an authentic Northern Italian experience.

Gnocchi and sauce stand out with extraordinary flavors that elevate the meal. Attentive care from Robert, his wife, and the staff adds a welcoming touch to the experience.

People are saying

"I had the best gnocchi I've ever had."

"The outdoor seating feels like a beautiful, gorgeous garden."

"The pasta here is the best pasta I've tried outside of Italy."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended, especially for larger groups.

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Expect a wait of about an hour for outdoor seating during peak times.

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A split plate fee applies if you share entrees.

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Restaurant

Small spot with open kitchen and rustic charm offers Eggs Benedict and corned beef hash for date meals. Cozy courtyard invites quiet talks. Nearby Sonoma bicycle trail adds outdoor fun to the experience.

Eggs Benedict and corned beef hash offer solid choices for a meal. Nearby, the Sonoma bicycle trail provides a nice spot for a casual ride together.

People are saying

"I thought the breakfast here was great and tasty."

"The food at this cafe with outdoor seating is delicious."

"The crepe special here is better than I expected."

Good to know

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Parking is located behind the building, but it can be limited.

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The cafe serves breakfast and lunch with a diverse menu.

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Prices are reasonable, making it a good value for meals.

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