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Updated May 2026
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Adult entertainment store

Adult entertainment store offers a sex-positive, queer-friendly environment with a community-focused and inclusive atmosphere. The space feels welcoming and respectful, encouraging visitors to explore without rush. High-quality, body-safe products and educational resources support a safe and open shopping experience.

An assortment of quality items suits a great date night. Couples often pick up a bag full of goodies to enjoy together.

A sex-positive, kink-friendly space that centers on queer and feminist values. It offers a safe, inclusive environment for queer, trans, and disabled people, run by an LGBTQ+ team.

People are saying

"It's a sex-positive space that welcomes all bodies and genders."

"It's a queer-friendly space that feels like an adult dream."

"The staff here makes it a great spot for Date Spots."

Good to know

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Smitten Kitten hosts community events like story time and yoga regularly.

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They offer classes on safe sex and relationship topics throughout the year.

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Expect a welcoming atmosphere for all sexual orientations and identities.

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Body piercing shop

Bright, clean studio with pink decor and comfy sofas creates a welcoming, inclusive atmosphere that emphasizes bodily consent and supports LGBTQ+ community. Staff work together with open energy, making the space feel safe and kind. Walk-in only policy and local art displays add to the creative, friendly vibe.

Couples can get piercings together with quick, friendly service and help choosing jewelry. The spot has a cool vibe that makes it easy to plan return visits.

Staff show queer friendly attitudes and support for LGBTQ+ and trans friends. The shop feels like a queer haven with a welcoming atmosphere and is queer owned.

People are saying

"The staff made me feel so comfortable and at ease."

"The staff at this jewelry store are so kind and helpful."

"The staff here is so nice and professional for Date Spots."

Good to know

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Hail Mary Piercing only accepts walk-in customers.

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They need two forms of ID for minors.

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They only take cash or Venmo.

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Cozy independent bookstore upstairs pairs with a coffee shop downstairs featuring local art and a garden patio out back. Atmosphere stays quiet and welcoming, inviting for reading, chatting, or relaxing. Space supports community events like book clubs and story time, creating a safe, inclusive vibe.

Frequent visits with partners involve playing cards and browsing books. Drinks and quiet moments create a casual, intimate vibe despite occasional tight seating.

A safe space welcomes queer and trans people with a super inclusive vibe. Shelves hold progressive and LGBTQ+ books that are hard to find elsewhere, and staff greet everyone warmly.

People are saying

"I found the coffee here to be delicious and fantastic."

"It's such a cozy little spot to meet up with friends."

"It's a cozy spot for weekend dates playing cards."

Good to know

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The bookstore is located on the second floor with no elevator access.

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They host weekly Saturday Story Hour for children, which is popular.

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Community events and book clubs are regularly organized.

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Coffee shop blends vintage decor with unique seating and an attached antique store. Atmosphere feels fun and funky, with music and games creating a lively yet cozy vibe. Space invites quiet work or social play, offering free wifi and puzzles for hanging out.

Coffee here stands out with rich flavor that impresses easily. Seating feels comfortable and welcoming, making it a solid spot for a relaxed coffee date.

Super LGBTQ+ and POC friendly vibes fill the space, especially in the LGBTQ owned cafe inside the antique mall. The spot feels like a relief for those on a journey of sobriety or anyone overwhelmed in other queer-affirming settings.

People are saying

"This cafe is fun and full of unique vintage items to look at."

"This place has immaculate queer vibes and is LGBTQ+ friendly."

"It's a cozy and interesting spot for a coffee date."

Good to know

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Drag bingo happens every Thursday night at 7pm with a $5 entry fee.

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The shop hosts flea markets on Saturdays, featuring local vendors and handmade goods.

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Expect a lively environment, especially during weekend events and gatherings.

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Boutique offers a safe and inclusive atmosphere with a clean, relaxing vibe that welcomes the LGBTQ+ community. Staff provide knowledgeable, judgment-free service alongside a wide variety of products, including plus sizes and educational resources.

Frequent visits with partners create a relaxed vibe for couples. Friendly staff like Jessica add to the experience while browsing intimate items together.

Atmosphere feels LGBTQ+ friendly and welcoming in some areas, but there are signs of discomfort with the gay crowd in others.

People are saying

"The staff here are so helpful and knowledgeable for your date nights."

"The trivia and bingo night was so fun, I looked forward to doing it again."

"It's a safe and welcoming space for the LGBTQ+ community."

Good to know

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The boutique offers a wide variety of products, including options for plus sizes.

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They regularly update their selections, ensuring new items are available.

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Trivia and bingo night events are hosted regularly with great prizes.

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Combined bookstore and coffee shop offers a cozy vibe with shelves of books, local gifts, and a small patio. Energy feels warm and inclusive, often filled with loud, empowered women. Amenities include fast WiFi, power outlets, and a thoughtful selection of LGBTQ+ literature.

Quiet afternoons suit coffee and beer dates with a partner. Weekends get very loud and crowded, making conversation tough and seating limited.

An absolutely astounding collection of LGBTQ novels and authors fills the shelves. The space feels very queer friendly and supports local and queer artists.

People are saying

"I loved their smooth and delicious coffee."

"It's so LGBTQ+ friendly and welcoming here."

"It's a cute spot with a great vibe, perfect for a brew date."

Good to know

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Trivia nights happen on the patio every Thursday at 7pm.

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They host various themed events throughout the year.

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Oat milk is available at no extra charge.

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Gay bar

Multiple distinct areas offer spaces for dancing, talking, and playing games, each with its own mood and music style. High-energy atmosphere thrives with fun drag shows, good DJs mixing in key, and a large dance floor. Variety of bars and a cool smoking area add to the lively, welcoming vibe.

A bar without labels welcomes couples of all kinds, creating a relaxed and inclusive vibe. Regulars celebrate milestones here, making it a spot for meaningful moments and shared memories.

An LGBTQ-friendly bar that feels like a regular spot without labels. Known for drag, dancing, and mingling, it serves as a welcoming space for the gay community.

People are saying

"This is a nice gay bar with a lively atmosphere."

"The nightclub's atmosphere and multiple zones are unmatched."

"It's a welcoming place for date spots where you always felt welcome."

Good to know

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The $5 cover charge is required for entry during events.

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Happy hour offers $5 Absolut drinks and cheap food on Wednesdays.

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Drag shows and burlesque performances are hosted regularly.

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Gay bar

Dive bar with unapologetically queer and ultra diverse crowd where leather mixes with lace and costumes are common. Two heated patios offer outdoor seating alongside games like pool and darts. Atmosphere shifts from low key during the week to crowded and lively on popular nights.

A very quiet bar with about 10 people creates a low-key atmosphere. Staff show no respect to couples, which affects the vibe for dates.

A dive bar with an ultra diverse crowd creates a welcoming space for all queers, not just gay cis men. The vibe is unapologetically queer and perfectly scrappy, making it a classic hangout for the LGBTQ community.

People are saying

"It's a great queer dive bar, unapologetically scrappy and perfectly queer."

"The patio here is great and has heaters."

"I love playing pool during my Date Spots here."

Good to know

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The bar is cash only, so bring cash to pay.

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Karaoke happens on certain nights; check the schedule.

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There is a one-drink minimum requirement for entry.

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