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Date spot bars

A dimly lit corner with a drink in hand is the only setting that feels right for a conversation.

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Small, cozy cocktail bar with dim lighting and intimate atmosphere fosters relaxed conversation. Skilled bartenders serve excellent cocktails, including unique whiskey drinks. Walls decorated with bird-themed art add stylish yet unpretentious charm.

Late-night hours attract a jazzy crowd. Expert bartenders deliver great mixed cocktails with pristine efficiency and attention to detail.

Intimate and relaxed vibe suits both romantic dates and catching up with friends. Cozy setting works well for first dates or small group gatherings.

People are saying

"It's a cozy spot, perfect for a date night."

"It's a cozy, classic bar perfect for relaxed drinks."

"The drinks here are top-notch and creative."

Good to know

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Happy hour specials are available, making drinks more affordable.

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Friday nights feature a lively atmosphere with 90’s music.

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The bar gets busy, so expect to wait for a table.

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Bar features dim lighting, lively noise levels, and Irish influences with live Irish music sessions. Seating includes outdoor options and cozy booths under hanging greenery. Atmosphere blends college bar energy with a welcoming neighborhood vibe.

Classic Irish pub vibes fill the space with thoughtful drinks and awesome staff. Private areas and no rental fees make it easy to host parties with great service and food.

Wait staff behavior can disrupt a first date here. Trivia and football nights create a lively atmosphere but may not suit quiet conversations.

People are saying

"I loved how tasty the food was and how cute everything was, from the plates to the bar."

"The cocktails here are creative and delicious, perfect for a date spot."

"It's a great spot for a romantic date night."

Good to know

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Reservations can be made easily by direct messaging their Instagram or through Resy.

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The bottomless brunch offers great value at $39 for two entrees and bottomless drinks.

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Happy hour runs with great prices on drinks and food.

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Spacious cocktail bar with live jazz music and a speakeasy vibe featuring two bars, including a whiskey library. Atmosphere is intimate and classy, with jazz sometimes loud and acoustics uneven. Regulars enjoy late-night jazz and creative cocktails in a setting that blends elegance with relaxed energy.

An intimate jazz bar with excellent sound and a well curated lineup of new musicians each night. The bar staff craft special cocktails and offer a library of exotic whiskeys, including rare Japanese selections.

Perfect for date night with a cozy atmosphere. Easy to reserve a bar seat even for a solo visit.

People are saying

"The live jazz music at this bar was excellent."

"The live jazz and craft cocktails make it a perfect spot for date night."

"The jazz bar has a cozy vibe with great music and cocktails."

Good to know

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Expect a $10 cover charge and a $25 minimum spend per person.

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Live jazz performances occur from 8pm to 11:30pm, with a break between sets.

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Reservations are recommended, especially for popular performances.

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French restaurant offers an elegant Parisian-inspired decor with a beautiful high ceiling entrance and a long bar that draws people for cocktails. The atmosphere is lively and crowded, with pounding music that fills the space and creates a high noise level. Tables sit close together, adding to the energetic and bustling vibe.

A beautiful bar sits to the left of a high ceiling entrance with old wood and a charcuterie area. Attentive service creates a welcoming vibe perfect for a date or enjoying beef tartare with champagne.

A beautiful bar sets a romantic tone for date nights. The spot works well for first dates and celebrations with a vibe that feels very romantic.

People are saying

"The bartenders here are awesome conversationalists and make delicious cocktails."

"The food here is outstanding, especially the steak frites."

"I love sitting at the bar for cocktails and snacks."

Good to know

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Happy hour runs from 4-7pm on weekdays with half-price cocktails.

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On Sundays, enjoy $10 glasses of wine during happy hour.

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Monday happy hour features a selection of discounted drinks.

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Small space with open kitchen and 28 seats creates an intimate setting. Lively traditional music and Georgian décor set a vibrant, authentic atmosphere. Both indoor and outdoor seating accommodate different preferences, making it welcoming and comfortable.

A full wine bar offers excellent wines and a yummy white sangria. Seating at the bar provides a perfect view of the open kitchen.

Offers a unique experience with authentic Georgian wine dating back over eighty centuries. Great for date night or small groups who enjoy exploring international cuisines.

People are saying

"The Georgian food here is incredible, perfect for a date."

"Soso at the bar gave great recommendations and service."

"It's a great spot for trying authentic international food on dates."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended, especially on weekends.

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Expect a wait time of 20-30 minutes during peak dinner hours.

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Credit cards and mobile payments are accepted, but cash is preferred for tips.

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Classic Irish pub blends with Manhattan cocktail bar style, featuring wooden booths and a round bar. Atmosphere is lively and cozy with loud music that energizes the space. Popular for quality Scotch and whiskey, it suits celebrations and casual stops alike.

Offers excellent drinks and good bar food with a great space for hosting events. The bar has a lively yet comfortable vibe where conversations flow easily and happy hour specials run from 4 to 7 PM.

Offers a casual vibe suitable for dates and meetups. Works well for after-work drinks or a nightcap with friends or colleagues.

People are saying

"The bar has a cozy vibe with great drinks and food."

"The bar staff were so helpful with planning and on the day."

"The bartenders here are so friendly and fun to chat with."

Good to know

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The pub has a happy hour that runs from 4-7pm on weekdays.

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Customers should book their party at least two weeks in advance.

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The green room bar accommodates up to 100 people for private events.

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Italian restaurant offers beautiful, open interior with authentic French bistro tiles and soft lighting creating a pleasant atmosphere. Tables are often close, making it noisy during busy times, but outdoor seating provides a quieter option. A cozy private dining room is available at the back for more intimate gatherings.

Hari at the bar delivers amazing service and offers great recommendations. Rebecca also provides solid support behind the bar, creating a welcoming spot to sit and enjoy drinks.

Great vibes create a relaxed atmosphere for dates. Sharing a few dishes works well since the menu offers variety and encourages connection.

People are saying

"The house-made pastas here are magic for Date Spots."

"The bartender Ervi made perfectly balanced cocktails with genuine hospitality."

"I enjoyed the relaxed vibe sitting at the bar."

Good to know

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On weekends, some cocktails are bottomless for a fixed price.

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The bar has a happy hour with great drinks and food.

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Making reservations is recommended due to the crowd.

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French bistro with cozy, authentic Euro feel and classic decor creates a warm, inviting atmosphere. Outdoor seating offers a pleasant alternative to the often cramped indoor space. Drinks like espresso martinis stand out amid a setting free of gimmicks and consistent in quality.

Carlos’s warm personality and attentiveness create a welcoming bar atmosphere. The bar team takes great care of guests, making it a solid spot to unwind with a drink or enjoy a late night snack.

French food draws attention with its authentic flavors. The atmosphere suits couples looking for a cozy spot to enjoy a meal together.

People are saying

"The service here makes it a great spot for a date."

"The bar staff here is so friendly and attentive."

"I love hanging out at the bar for drinks and brunch."

Good to know

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On weekends, the last seating is at 1:00 AM.

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They do all day breakfast.

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You will definitely need a reservation for brunch.

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Spacious multi-level layout offers airy atmosphere with tasteful decor and comfortably spaced tables. Noise levels rise during busy hours, requiring louder conversation, while upstairs seating provides limited privacy. The setting balances laid-back vibes with a quietly sublime dining experience.

Cocktails at the bar come with perfect service and detailed explanations from the barman about ingredients like the citrus salad. Ordering the burger at the bar taps into a New York City secret experience.

Phenomenal food creates a memorable dining experience. The atmosphere suits both intimate dates and business dinners well.

People are saying

"The burger at the bar looked really good."

"The pasta and pork chop were terrific for our Date Spots."

"I love hanging out at the cozy upstairs bar."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended due to high demand, especially on weekends.

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The restaurant offers a special menu during New York Restaurant Week.

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Burgers are only available before 5 p.m. and not on the dinner menu.

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Oldest bar in New York with 19th-century woodwork and vintage decor creates a historic pub atmosphere. The space feels inviting and lively, often bustling with a fun crowd and occasional live bagpipers. Outdoor seating and a connected bar add variety to the experience.

A bar with a fun and friendly atmosphere that stays busy, especially on holidays and special occasions. It offers great pub food and excellent service, with a history spanning over 150 years.

A back room offers a quieter spot ideal for a meal or date night. The setting suits dates, anniversaries, or family dinners with a cozy vibe.

People are saying

"You have to see this bar's amazing Christmas decorations and holiday vibe."

"The bar has a lively, old school vibe."

"It's the oldest bar with classic charm and good food."

Good to know

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Make a reservation if you can, as it seemed busy during the visit.

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Happy Hour is back at the bar.

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Steak nights at Pete's Tavern are a bargain and delicious.

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Classic diner design blends with cozy, comforting atmosphere and calm, happy energy. Music ranges from Frank Sinatra classics to a jukebox with personal selections, enhancing the nostalgic vibe. Seating includes comfy chairs with outlets, supporting relaxed meetings or work sessions.

A full bar offers a wide range of drinks with amazing cocktails. Seating at the bar suits late night snacks and casual dining.

Offers a cute atmosphere ideal for dates with options like salmon, broccoli, and mashed potatoes. Breakfast dates work well here with a menu that satisfies without fuss.

People are saying

"The food here is amazing, especially the sweet potato fries."

"The drinks here are amazing, especially the cucumber margaritas."

"I love the 1950s vibe and full bar here."

Good to know

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Brunch is available any day.

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Happy hour offers $4 beers and $7 cocktails at the bar.

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Breakfast is served all day.

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Grand dining room combines majestic scale with an intimate feel through roomy wood booths and white tablecloth elegance. Atmosphere balances elevated style with occasional loudness, creating a lively yet refined energy. Cocktails and wine selections stand out for their quality and uniqueness.

An upscale bar with a beautiful design offers a lounge area and sushi bar seating. The Spyglass cocktail stands out, crafted skillfully by the bartender.

Classy and elegant setting suits a date night well. Drinks like the Pacific Rim cocktail and ginger drink add a nice touch to the experience.

People are saying

"The shrimp scampi at these Date Spots is insanely good."

"The food and drinks here were amazing."

"The bar area is lively but can feel crowded."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended, especially for special events like the Japanese Hokkaido Scallop Festival.

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Expect high prices, with over $250 per person for special menus on holidays.

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Many guests reported food safety issues, including food poisoning.

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Italian restaurant offers a classy interior with warm candlelight creating an elegant atmosphere. Drinks include sweet, coffee-flavored cocktails alongside a well-curated wine selection. The space includes a downstairs area for group events, blending intimacy with functionality.

Bar seating offers cocktail recommendations and dessert suggestions from knowledgeable staff. The spot combines food and drinks well, making it a solid choice for relaxed conversation.

The spot offers a romantic ambience that suits date nights well. Its near perfect atmosphere creates a cozy setting for couples or casual outings.

People are saying

"The food here is incredible, especially the focaccia and yellowtail crudo."

"The food here is amazing; you'll love it for a date spot."

"I love sitting at the bar for a relaxed vibe."

Good to know

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Happy hour is from 5-6 pm.

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The restaurant offers a restaurant week special menu with a 3-course meal.

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Reservations are not necessary on weekdays as the restaurant isn't usually full.

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Bi-level space channels 1970's Bombay mansion style with brass, gold, wood, and antique mirrors. Atmosphere blends modern Indian decor with Bollywood classics playing, creating a lively yet elegant vibe. Outdoor seating offers abundant heat lamps but features less comfortable furniture and table gaps.

Blends western style bar with Indian mocktails and cocktails. Feels like an upscale lounge in Mumbai with seating available even on busy Friday nights.

Fabulous ambience sets a great tone for a date night with nice music that stays at a comfortable volume. Ideal for small groups or couples who enjoy Indian food and want a relaxed vibe.

People are saying

"The char-grilled prawns at this Date Spot are smoky and bursting with flavor."

"The char-grilled prawns at this Bar were smoky and bursting with flavor."

"The bar felt lively but closed too early."

Good to know

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Reservations are required for dinner service at GupShup.

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Brunch is only available if everyone at the table orders it.

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The restaurant automatically adds a 20% gratuity for parties of 2 or more.

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Interior design features white decor, stunning murals, and lemon trees that evoke a Greek island atmosphere. Outdoor seating includes a heated patio and sidewalk café area, offering a calm and soothing environment. Greek music plays softly, enhancing the authentic Mediterranean vibe.

Bar service features attentive bartenders like John and a friendly staff including Mohammed, Srna, Bernadette, and Yanni. The bar atmosphere supports personalized attention from the team.

Staff move couples to more intimate tables when they spot a date. The setting suits dates, business lunches, and gatherings with friends or family.

People are saying

"The authentic Greek Date Spots here have amazing octopus and eggplant dishes."

"The food here is amazing, especially the meatballs."

"It's a cozy spot perfect for dates."

Good to know

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The last seating is at 10 PM.

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The lunch menu is priced at $31 each and includes dessert.

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Eleni's can accommodate special requests for celebrations.

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