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Chill date spots

A setting that is laid-back enough to be comfortable but intimate enough to feel like a real date.

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Coffee shop

Interior features all black dรฉcor with a gothic, spooky theme centered around graves and death. Atmosphere stays quiet and chill, creating a relaxing, unique vibe that fits a goth and grunge crowd. Seating includes varied options like couches and high tops, with music playing and pet-friendly policies.

Dark and relaxing atmosphere sets the tone with chill music playing softly. People read books and enjoy quiet company, creating a truly unwind-friendly vibe.

A cozy spot with a vibe that fits couples' aesthetic well. Drinks like the Forest Dweller with Pandan flavor add a unique touch to dates or hangouts.

People are saying

"The Xeno Latte is complex, balanced, and delicious."

"It's got this dark, cozy, and moody vibe I loved."

"The coffee here is delicious and aesthetically pleasing."

Good to know

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Gravves Coffee closes at 2pm.

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Parking is available at the side of the building.

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The menu features unique drinks not found elsewhere.

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Restaurant

Small space with modern decor and inviting patio offers a warm, quiet atmosphere ideal for relaxed conversations. Artisanal pizza and refreshing cocktails complement the cozy, clean setting.

The spot feels really chill and relaxing with a casual vibe. It has an inviting patio and a quaint, casual indoor space that keeps things low-key.

Seafood linguine features a rich, flavorful sauce that stands out. The namesake pizza offers a unique dough unlike typical crusts, adding a special touch to date night meals.

People are saying

"The food here is amazing, especially the seafood linguine."

"The baked eggs at brunch were extremely flavorful with amazing aioli."

"The food here is so delicious and comforting."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended to avoid long wait times, especially on weekends.

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Parking is very limited, so consider alternative transportation options.

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The brunch menu is only available until 3 PM on Saturdays.

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Restaurant

Restaurant combines wood-fired ovens and an open kitchen with casual, cozy atmosphere. Space feels hip and aesthetically pleasing but seating is tight, especially at the bar. Offers family-friendly amenities like kids' games and cups, alongside a lively bar with quality cocktails and wine.

Casual atmosphere blends with industrial farmhouse decor to create a quiet, relaxed vibe. The setting feels inviting and suits a laid-back meal.

Upscale yet approachable vibe suits both date nights and family dinners. Freshly pulled mozzarella and exceptional pizza stand out as highlights.

People are saying

"The pizza and pasta here are amazing Italian food."

"You have to try the Caesar salad and pizza here."

"The pizza's thin crust had a perfect char and was flavorful."

Good to know

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Happy hour offers 25% off on wine glasses, cocktails, and beers from 3-6 pm.

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Reservations are recommended for the pizza making class due to limited spots.

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The pizza making class includes complimentary wine with your meal.

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Restaurant

Open-door venue with colorful dรฉcor and small round tables creates an airy, lively space. Atmosphere stays energetic and upbeat, fueled by drag shows and local dancers performing with skill. Music and cocktails add to the festive vibe, making it a spot for parties and social gatherings.

Evenings have a chill vibe with clean, nice surroundings. Weekdays offer a relaxed atmosphere paired with great food for starting or ending the night.

Drag shows create a lively and fun atmosphere for couples. The owner adds a personal touch by introducing himself and celebrating special occasions with treats like Pride Cheesecake.

People are saying

"I found the food here to be amazingly tasty."

"The staff here makes your Date Spots experience so special and attentive."

"It's a really chill spot to start or end your night."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended for the drag brunch to secure a spot.

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Expect long wait times, especially during weekend brunch hours.

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The drag brunch occurs on Saturdays and Sundays with a cover charge.

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Restaurant

Small restaurant with island aesthetic and outdoor patio creates a welcoming, friendly atmosphere that feels like a Hawaiian vacation. Live Hawaiian music and good tunes add to the pleasant vibe. Seating includes indoor tables and picnic tables with fans and umbrellas for comfort.

Super chill vibes create a relaxed and unhurried atmosphere. The space encourages customers to sit back and chill comfortably.

Hawaiian Fried Chicken and Garlic Shrimp come cooked just right with a nice taste. The food matches authentic Hawaiian flavors, and the Ube Milkshake offers a unique sweet treat.

People are saying

"These burgers are onolicious and broke my mouth with flavor."

"The food at these Date Spots is delicious, especially the garlic shrimp."

"The vibe here is super chill and relaxed."

Good to know

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Poke is served only on Saturdays.

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Parking is available in a small, cramped lot with poor paving.

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They provide a military discount.

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Brunch restaurant

Small space with vintage 40's and 50's design and French bistro influence creates a cozy, nostalgic vibe. Jazz music plays softly, encouraging easy conversation and a relaxed pace. Guests often come in pairs or small groups, enjoying visible kitchen prep and carefully crafted cocktails.

Casual dining and counter service create an easygoing vibe. The spot sits in a casual historical area downtown, with a nearby place under the same management offering more casual cuisine.

Eggs Benedict features crispy meat and layered flavors. The burger offers complex flavors that linger. Floating Island dessert combines meringue, creme sauce, and blueberry compote for a sweet finish.

People are saying

"I experienced the best brunch in San Antonio."

"The doughnuts here are unbelievable."

"These pancakes are the best I've ever had, truly elevated."

Good to know

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Parking is limited, so plan to arrive early or expect to walk.

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The restaurant operates on a first-come, first-served basis; no reservations are accepted.

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The minimum tip percentage on their payment machine starts at 20%.

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Elegant lounge occupies a beautifully repurposed building with speakeasy-style back rooms and a rooftop garden bar offering panoramic views. Atmosphere stays seductive and refined, featuring jazzy live music and a quiet, intimate vibe ideal for small groups or date nights. Multiple floors connect to a secret basement dance floor and a rooftop, allowing guests to experience varied moods within one space.

Classy atmosphere creates a relaxing vibe. Amelia Social Lounge offers a perfect spot to unwind.

A rooftop lounge offers a New York City date-night vibe with a welcoming manager who takes photos. It suits intimate dates or small groups, creating a relaxed and social atmosphere.

People are saying

"The cocktails here are creative and beautifully dressed."

"The staff here are super attentive and friendly for Date Spots."

"The decor and seating areas here are so lovely and inviting."

Good to know

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Happy hour offers $5 espresso martinis and cosmos on Thursdays.

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Parking is free at Amelia Social Lounge.

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There is no cover charge for live jazz performances.

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Chicken wings restaurant

Small space with mostly outdoor seating along the street creates a hip, welcoming vibe. Great music plays consistently, enhancing a groovy, party atmosphere. Frequented for craft beer taps and top-rated chicken wings, it draws a lively crowd looking to chill and enjoy flavorful food and drinks.

Super chill vibe with nice wait staff makes it easy to relax. The music adds to the laid-back atmosphere during dinner.

Wings, the bologna sandwich, and the OG chicken sandwich all stand out as delicious choices. The Big Red Vacay drink adds a unique touch to the meal, making it a solid spot for date night.

People are saying

"I found the crispy chicken sandwich to be the best I've ever tasted."

"The chicken sandwich here is amazing and perfectly seasoned."

"The chicken sandwich here is fire and amazing."

Good to know

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Cullum's Attagirl is a good stop for happy hour and after work wind down.

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I found Cullum's Attagirl was not wheelchair accessible.

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There was plenty of street parking nearby.

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American restaurant

Historic building with a 500-year-old tree growing through the roof creates a unique setting. Atmosphere blends old school diner vibe with open kitchen and oldies music, offering a cozy and lively experience. Patio seating welcomes dogs and features umbrellas and fans, adding to the casual charm.

Friendly, casual, and authentic vibes create a relaxed atmosphere. It balances casual dining with a touch of special occasion feel, making it easy to unwind during lunch or dinner.

Steak dinners feature perfectly cooked prime rib and peppercorn filet with a nice char and hot pink center. The spot offers a cozy atmosphere ideal for date nights and special occasions.

People are saying

"I found the chicken fried steak to be the best I ever had."

"The food here is excellent, especially the steaks and mashed potatoes."

"It's a casual, homey place to unwind."

Good to know

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Happy hour runs from 3-6pm on Tuesdays with $1.00 off specials.

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During happy hour, appetizers are half price.

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The Spurs watch parties offer a bus service to and from the games.

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Sports bar offers many TVs and a laid-back vibe with super chill atmosphere. Space includes indoor and outdoor seating with a well-stocked bar focusing mainly on beer. It suits casual game watching and social gatherings with great energy throughout.

Atmosphere stays super chill with a casual vibe perfect for watching games or grabbing drinks. Easy to walk to, it keeps things laid-back and relaxed.

Elevated sports bar vibe sets a casual yet lively tone. Staff interaction includes friendly greetings and clear communication about open seating.

People are saying

"The bar staff here is super friendly and attentive."

"The food here was really good and affordable."

"The wait for service at these Date Spots is just too long."

Good to know

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Parking near Tribute Sports Bar is limited, but available on Ashby Place street spots.

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Happy hour for drinks runs all day, offering great deals.

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Expect longer wait times for food and drinks during busy hours.

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