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Cocktail date spots

Made for those who believe a well-crafted drink is the only way to set the tone for a meaningful evening out.

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Sushi restaurant

Small space with Japanese minimalist zen-like decor featuring bonsai trees and bamboo accents creates an airy, elegant atmosphere. Loud environment with sound bouncing around makes it feel more like a club-adjacent scene than a quiet dining spot. Unique ceramic dishes and colorful tableware add a tasteful, intentional design touch.

Sake cocktails offer a wide variety that pairs well with sushi. Drinks like the Ane-San and the Aimee-Tini with olive caviar bring unique flavors, while the strawberry matcha cocktail adds a surprising twist.

Perfect for date night with a vibe that impresses partners. Drinks like the matcha strawberry sake and martini stand out and go down smoothly.

People are saying

"The nigiri here is amazingly fresh with perfect garnishes."

"The Japanese food here is delicious and surprisingly affordable."

"The cocktails here are top-notch and perfectly balanced."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended, especially during peak dining hours.

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The Omakase Bar costs $108 per person, excluding drinks.

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A la carte options are available for add-ons after the main dishes.

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Cocktail bar

Underground speakeasy with dark lighting and red walls creates an intimate, stylish atmosphere. Jazz music plays softly, supporting a quiet vibe ideal for conversation. Comfortable booths and themed servers add to the authentic prohibition feel.

Craftsmen cocktails stand out with top-shelf ingredients and unique, memorable flavors. The intimate speakeasy vibe pairs well with a great selection of consistently amazing drinks.

Dark lighting and red walls create an intimate vibe downstairs. A huge whiskey selection adds a special touch for date nights or classy outings.

People are saying

"The cocktails are creative, well-balanced, and thoughtfully put together."

"It's a cozy spot with a really nice atmosphere."

"The cocktails here are creative, well-balanced, and eclectic."

Good to know

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The bar tends to fill up around 7-8 PM, especially on weekends.

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Parking is conveniently available right across the street.

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They offer daily drink specials and around 300 cocktail options.

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Speakeasy-style bar splits into a laid-back vinyl lounge and an intimate, reservation-only cocktail club with a 1920s Gatsby vibe. Atmosphere blends throwback decor, vinyl DJ sets, and creative cocktails featuring unique ingredients. Space suits both casual gatherings and exclusive date nights with a chill, exclusive ambiance.

Expertly handcrafted cocktails showcase creative mixology with unique flavors like a Caprese-inspired drink. A great assortment of cocktails on tap and happy hour specials offer variety and value.

Elegant, intimate vibes create a great setting for romantic dates and small gatherings. A private lounge spins vinyl records, adding a unique touch to the experience.

People are saying

"The cocktails here are excellent and beautifully presented."

"The Speakeasy's creative drinks are so tasty and photogenic."

"The cocktails here are beautifully crafted and visually stunning."

Good to know

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Reservations are essential for the intimate space at Alter Ego Cocktail Club.

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Happy hour runs daily from 5pm to 7pm with $5 cocktails and skewers.

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Without a reservation, entry may be denied due to capacity limits.

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Californian restaurant

Two-story space with lush greenery and a liquor carousel creates a luxurious, dramatic setting. Loud music and lively energy fill the room, especially during busy hours. Outdoor patio welcomes dogs, and unique features like an elevator bar add visual interest.

Craft cocktails show creative flair and high quality. The bar offers a fun selection that impresses even picky drinkers.

Breathtaking views from the second floor bar create a memorable setting for date nights. Exceptional hospitality and thoughtful accommodations, like swapping appetizers for allergies, enhance the experience.

People are saying

"The food here is creative and unique, with perfectly cooked dishes."

"The service here makes for an amazing date night."

"The cocktails were expertly crafted and looked like they stepped out of a photoshoot."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended, especially for larger groups.

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A $5 cake fee applies for each person if you bring your own cake.

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Brunch costs around $50 per person, including food and drinks.

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Large space filled with classic arcade games and a dedicated pinball room creates a lively, nostalgic vibe. Neon lights and old-school game sounds blend with a modern industrial design to keep energy high. Crowds are comfortable, and the atmosphere stays fun and relaxed despite noise levels.

Unique cocktails feature uncommon blends and holiday-inspired drinks served in festive mugs. The bar offers an impressive cocktail and beer list alongside a wide range of American food.

Offers a casual vibe with arcade games and a selection of brews. Suitable for date nights and relaxed celebrations.

People are saying

"The arcades here have an awesome collection of retro games and pinball."

"This place has a really cool vibe and atmosphere for hanging out."

"It's a festive spot with holiday decorations that make you feel the spirit."

Good to know

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Thursdays offer free games at MINIBOSS from open until close.

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Expect a busy crowd on weekends; arrive early for better seating.

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Arcade games cost between 25ยข and 75ยข per play.

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Restaurant

Restaurant combines modern tropical decor with a quiet, elegant atmosphere ideal for sharing moments. Speakeasy at the back offers a cozy balcony, live music, and a wide selection of cocktails. Outdoor patio provides a comfortable, inviting space with amenities like blankets.

A speakeasy at the back offers a nice ambiance with good cocktails and music. Cocktails pair perfectly with the meal and complement the overall experience.

Beautiful atmosphere suits birthdays, anniversaries, and date nights. Spanish cuisine pairs well with attentive service even on busy nights.

People are saying

"The food here is unforgettable and delicious."

"The paella here is amazing, better than other places."

"I thought the cocktails here were great and delicious."

Good to know

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Reservations are not required but recommended on busy Friday evenings.

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Expect a large party gratuity for groups of five or more.

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The restaurant accommodates dietary needs, offering vegan and vegetarian options.

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Narrow, all-wood bar with Johnny Cash theme and honky tonk vibe creates a relaxed, friendly atmosphere. Music centers on Johnny Cash, with a jukebox dedicated to his songs. Back room offers a pool table, and drinks include freshly pressed juices for cocktails like the Whiskey Apple.

Whiskey Apple stands out as a refreshing cocktail. Jay crafts inventive drinks and welcomes trying new mixes.

Cocktails here are consistently solid and add to the quaint vibe. The spot feels relaxed and suits a chill date night well.

People are saying

"The bar was cash only, so I had to pay with cash."

"The cocktails here are amazing and never disappoint."

"Jay is an amazing mixologist who introduces me to new cocktails."

Good to know

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The bar is cash only, so bring cash for your visit.

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Parking is available nearby in a structure or on the street.

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Security should oversee situations involving intoxicated patrons.

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Modern Indian restaurant

Modern Indian restaurant combines live DJ performances and fire dancers to create an energetic atmosphere with upbeat music. Interior features modern dรฉcor and ambient lighting, while outdoor seating offers a relaxed environment. Tables are placed closely, contributing to a lively but less intimate setting.

Unique cocktail menu features drinks like the Pluto and Polynesian Breeze. Bartenders craft in-house cocktails such as the 'Cordelia' with care and skill.

Mellower lighting creates a romantic atmosphere ideal for date nights. The manager often adds a special touch with complimentary champagne and birthday desserts to celebrate occasions.

People are saying

"The food here is fabulous, creative, and flavorful."

"You have to try the desserts; they're creamy and decadent."

"The food here is outstanding, making it a perfect spot for date nights."

Good to know

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FITOOR has a belly dance performance on Saturday and Sunday evenings.

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On weekends, they have a DJ and belly dancers.

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A belly dancer performs on Fridays and Saturdays with a live DJ.

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Miniature golf course

Indoor miniature golf course features creative themed holes with surprises like an animatronic shark and interactive mazes. The atmosphere is lively and immersive, evoking a cinematic vibe with a San Jose-centric design. A bar area offers drinks to enjoy while playing, though seating is limited outside the bar.

Bartenders mix yummy cocktails that are not watered down. The pina colada stands out among the cool cocktails and local brews available.

Mini golf offers a fun and interactive activity for couples. The spot works well for date night and social gatherings with friends.

People are saying

"The mini golf here is a fun and unique experience with creative holes."

"This mini golf course is a fun date spot with creative holes."

"I loved their yummy cocktails, and the mocktails were great too."

Good to know

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Expect a wait time of around 45 minutes during peak hours.

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Playing a round of mini golf takes about 60-90 minutes on weekends.

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Parking is plentiful and available close to the venue.

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Outdoor courtyard with live music and multiple bars creates a lively atmosphere especially on weekends. Food court offers diverse cuisines including Asian, Peruvian, and Italian with casual patio seating. Crowd enjoys craft beers and cocktails in a social, energetic setting.

Bartender Greg crafts very strong cocktails and offers great mixed drink options. The cocktail menu is diverse, though some drinks focus on Instagram aesthetics over flavor.

Lots of indoor and outdoor seating create a relaxed vibe for dates. The environment suits sharing drinks or snacks with a partner or friends.

People are saying

"I loved the live music in the outdoor space."

"The live music here is so fun, it had the crowd dancing."

"Greg makes expertly crafted mixed drinks that are delicious."

Good to know

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Parking is free for the first 90 minutes and costs $1 for every 15 minutes afterward.

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Market Bar is open until midnight, making it a late-night option.

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They offer free dance classes every Wednesday, perfect for beginners.

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Tiki bar

Tiki bar with elaborate decor that transports guests to faraway lands, featuring detailed interior and exterior themes including holiday touches. Atmosphere is vibrant and intimate, with outdoor seating and fireplace adding to the experience. Drinks focus on world-class tiki cocktails with a strong emphasis on rum.

Outstanding cocktails focus on rum-based tiki drinks with a balance of sweet, sour, and bitter notes. Bartenders customize drinks well, blending classic and house cocktails with flavorful, balanced sweetness.

Large rum selection stands out, sparking interest in the rum club. The patio offers a cozy spot for a casual date or hanging out with friends.

People are saying

"This tiki bar has a really fun and unique atmosphere."

"The holiday cocktails here have a fun, spooky Nightmare Before Christmas theme."

"This place is an authentic tiki escape, perfect for Date Spots."

Good to know

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Reservations can be made on OpenTable for a guaranteed spot.

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Happy hour runs all day on Tuesday with discounted drinks.

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Expect a crowded atmosphere on weekends; arrive early to secure a seat.

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Cocktail bar

Old saloon style bar offers an intimate dance floor and a hidden speakeasy with a cozy, exclusive vibe. Live music and DJs create a lively atmosphere where conversation requires leaning in. Unique cocktails and rustic decor add to the distinctive experience.

An extensive cocktail selection offers creative cocktails with unique flavors like the Green Ray. Bartenders show vast knowledge and craft drinks to perfection in a cozy social setting.

Old fashioned cocktails have a unique spicy twist but opinions on them vary. The atmosphere becomes enchanting after a couple drinks, though service can feel uncaring during difficult moments.

People are saying

"The Harry Potterโ€“inspired cocktails were all on point."

"The Harry Potter theme and hidden speakeasy make this place really cool."

"The cocktails here are enchanting once you have a couple drinks in you."

Good to know

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Cocktails are 50% off on Wednesdays.

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Jazz night happens every Monday, featuring live performances.

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Expect a lively atmosphere on Friday nights with live music.

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Mexican restaurant with vibrant decor and a covered patio offers a lively atmosphere that peaks during karaoke nights and NFL games. Generous pours of margaritas complement authentic dishes like crispy tacos and veggie quesadillas. Music volume can be high, adding to the energetic vibe.

Mixed drinks here are consistently tasty and well made. The spot serves a variety of cocktails alongside beer in a family-owned Mexican restaurant setting.

Low key vibe suits a quiet date night. Chips and salsa offer a simple, tasty start. Fish and shrimp plate serves as a solid main choice.

People are saying

"I thought the Mexican food here was great and delicious."

"I'd go back for the margaritas; they were very good."

"I found the mixed drinks to be good and tasty."

Good to know

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Taco Tuesdays offer tacos for $1.50 with five meat choices.

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Karaoke night happens on Tuesdays, providing a fun atmosphere.

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Happy hour features a buy-one-get-one combo plate promotion.

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Mexican restaurant

Mexican restaurant with vibrant decor and live DJ music creates a lively atmosphere that opens up for dancing in the evenings. The space features artwork and open windows that evoke a Mexican feel, attracting groups celebrating various occasions.

Suavecito mezcal cocktail stands out as very good and worth ordering again. Servers assist with choosing from well-made cucumber and other delicious cocktails that meet high expectations.

A nearly empty bar creates a quiet, intimate setting for a date night. Cocktails are pretty good, making it a fun spot worth the cost.

People are saying

"The food here is delicious and super tasty."

"The cocktails here are delicious and beautifully presented."

"The food here is bursting with authentic flavor."

Good to know

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After 9pm, the place turns into a dance club.

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Live music happens on Friday nights.

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The kitchen closes after 12 am and the bar at 1:30 am.

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