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Wine bar

Small wine bar offers cozy patio seating and a modern interior with rattan decor and communal tables. Warm, inviting atmosphere features chill vibes and live DJ sets playing Bay Area classics. Limited seating creates an intimate setting popular for casual evenings and dates.

Cozy spot with natural wines and a light food menu featuring creative dishes. Staff stay warm and attentive even on busy nights, making it feel like a home base.

Vibes set a perfect tone for a cute date or to kick off the evening. Goodtime Bar suits both date nights and fun group outings.

People are saying

"The wine selection here is outstanding and thoughtfully curated."

"The food at this Bar is impressive, especially the pastas and tartare."

"The steak frites here are a perfect cook with a delicious sauce."

Good to know

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Seating is limited, so arrive early to secure a spot.

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Prices are around $14 per glass of wine and over $25 for food.

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It can get crowded during peak hours, especially on weekends.

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Speakeasy-style bar splits into a laid-back vinyl lounge and an intimate, reservation-only cocktail club with a 1920s Gatsby vibe. Atmosphere blends throwback decor, vinyl DJ sets, and creative cocktails featuring unique ingredients. Space suits both casual gatherings and exclusive date nights with a chill, exclusive ambiance.

A speakeasy-style back bar offers a hidden, intimate vibe with carefully crafted cocktails and a strong focus on music that shapes the atmosphere.

Elegant, intimate vibes create a great setting for romantic dates and small gatherings. A private lounge spins vinyl records, adding a unique touch to the experience.

People are saying

"The cocktails here are excellent and beautifully presented."

"The bartenders here are true mixologists crafting amazing drinks."

"The cocktails here are beautifully crafted and visually stunning."

Good to know

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Reservations are essential for the intimate space at Alter Ego Cocktail Club.

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Happy hour runs daily from 5pm to 7pm with $5 cocktails and skewers.

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Without a reservation, entry may be denied due to capacity limits.

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Wine bar occupies an old home with cozy, intimate atmosphere and chic, quaint decor. Music playlist adds to the relaxing vibe while guests enjoy quality wines paired with exceptional flatbreads and cheese boards. Seating includes both indoor and outdoor options, fostering a romantic, homey setting.

Quaint wine bar with a laid-back vibe and Instagram-worthy setting. Offers nice food options to enjoy alongside a glass or two.

Great atmosphere suits sharing good times and chatting on dates. Staff remember preferences like favorite wine. The Brie and apples crusties stand out and get reordered.

People are saying

"They have an awesome wine selection with great bites."

"The owners, Ty and Nici, are so friendly and offer great recommendations."

"The owners are so fun to chat with, making it a great spot for dates."

Good to know

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Happy Hour runs daily from 4 to 5:30 pm with discounted drinks.

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Parking can be tricky, especially during events at SAP Center.

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The wine selection is diverse, with options for sampling at a set price.

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Narrow, all-wood bar with Johnny Cash theme and honky tonk vibe creates a relaxed, friendly atmosphere. Music centers on Johnny Cash, with a jukebox dedicated to his songs. Back room offers a pool table, and drinks include freshly pressed juices for cocktails like the Whiskey Apple.

A hip dive bar with no high prices offers a fun atmosphere and friendly, quick bar staff. The bar features well-maintained oak cabinetry and avoids the usual dive bar crowd.

Cocktails here are consistently solid and add to the quaint vibe. The spot feels relaxed and suits a chill date night well.

People are saying

"The bar was cash only, so I had to pay with cash."

"Jay, the bartender, is an amazing mixologist."

"The cocktails here are amazing and never disappoint."

Good to know

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The bar is cash only, so bring cash for your visit.

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Parking is available nearby in a structure or on the street.

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Security should oversee situations involving intoxicated patrons.

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Large space filled with classic arcade games and a dedicated pinball room creates a lively, nostalgic vibe. Neon lights and old-school game sounds blend with a modern industrial design to keep energy high. Crowds are comfortable, and the atmosphere stays fun and relaxed despite noise levels.

A festive bar with holiday-themed decor and innovative cocktails served in festive mugs and glasses. It combines a lively atmosphere with game memorabilia and attentive service.

Offers a casual vibe with arcade games and a selection of brews. Suitable for date nights and relaxed celebrations.

People are saying

"The arcades here have an awesome collection of retro games and pinball."

"This bar has a great selection of retro arcade and pinball machines."

"It's a festive spot with holiday decorations that make you feel the spirit."

Good to know

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Thursdays offer free games at MINIBOSS from open until close.

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Expect a busy crowd on weekends; arrive early for better seating.

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Arcade games cost between 25ยข and 75ยข per play.

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Californian restaurant

Two-story space with lush greenery and a liquor carousel creates a luxurious, dramatic setting. Loud music and lively energy fill the room, especially during busy hours. Outdoor patio welcomes dogs, and unique features like an elevator bar add visual interest.

Creative cocktails come with amazing service from bartenders like Sherry. The second floor bar offers breathtaking views and a lively atmosphere with smooth bottle service and no wait even when busy.

Breathtaking views from the second floor bar create a memorable setting for date nights. Exceptional hospitality and thoughtful accommodations, like swapping appetizers for allergies, enhance the experience.

People are saying

"The food here is creative and unique, with perfectly cooked dishes."

"The service here makes for an amazing date night."

"The food here has bold flavors and gorgeous plating."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended, especially for larger groups.

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A $5 cake fee applies for each person if you bring your own cake.

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Brunch costs around $50 per person, including food and drinks.

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Miniature golf course

Indoor miniature golf course features creative themed holes with surprises like an animatronic shark and interactive mazes. The atmosphere is lively and immersive, evoking a cinematic vibe with a San Jose-centric design. A bar area offers drinks to enjoy while playing, though seating is limited outside the bar.

High ceilings create an open feel in the bar area. A full bar offers fancy smoke bubble drinks and a decent selection of draft beers. The gastro pub food pairs well with the drinks.

Mini golf offers a fun and interactive activity for couples. The spot works well for date night and social gatherings with friends.

People are saying

"The mini golf here is a fun and unique experience with creative holes."

"The bar here is super fun and has creative golf holes."

"This mini golf course is a fun date spot with creative holes."

Good to know

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Expect a wait time of around 45 minutes during peak hours.

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Playing a round of mini golf takes about 60-90 minutes on weekends.

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Parking is plentiful and available close to the venue.

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Restaurant offers spacious layout with separate bar, wine, and outdoor seating areas. Atmosphere feels casual and cozy, suitable for dates and gatherings, with a neighborhood-style vibe. Arcade games add a family-friendly touch to the experience.

A full bar sits at the front with interesting beers and a selection of wines. Bartenders offer wine samples before purchase and provide excellent service at the bar.

Low key atmosphere fits casual dates well. Games like Mortal Kombat add a fun, playful touch to the evening.

People are saying

"The casual Italian food here is authentic and delicious."

"You have to try the Meat and Cheese Platter at this bar; it's incredible."

"The food and wine here are great for Date Spots."

Good to know

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Parking can be challenging during events at the Shark Tank.

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Reservations are recommended for large groups to ensure seating.

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They stop serving sandwiches at 6 pm, so plan accordingly.

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