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Date spots

A night out is a chance to step away from the usual routine. Choosing the right atmosphere makes the time spent together feel intentional.

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Wine bar

Small wine bar shines with cozy patio seating and a warm atmosphere perfect for dates. Live DJ spins Bay Area classics, adding chill vibes. Intimate space with communal tables suits both romantic evenings and casual group fun.

Vibes set a perfect tone for a cute date or to kick off the evening. Goodtime Bar suits both date nights and fun group outings.

People are saying

"The wine selection here is outstanding and thoughtfully curated."

"The food here was top-notch, truly the best I've had in ages."

"The steak frites here are a perfect cook with a delicious sauce."

Good to know

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Seating is limited, so arrive early to secure a spot.

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Prices are around $14 per glass of wine and over $25 for food.

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It can get crowded during peak hours, especially on weekends.

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VIP room and large dance floor make a beautiful date spot with lively vibes. Arcade games and karaoke add fun for groups. Hookah flavors are tasteful and well-selected, matching the chill, friendly atmosphere and clean space.

A VIP room and dance floor create a lively setting for dates. The lounge offers a beautiful atmosphere suited for couples or groups.

People are saying

"The dance floor here is amazing, and it has games."

"The Day Lounge has great service and a beautiful atmosphere."

"The VIP room is a must-request for romantic date spots."

Good to know

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The lounge is open from 5pm to 12am Sunday to Thursday and until 1am Friday and Saturday.

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There is excellent parking available at the lounge.

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The visit costs between $20 and $30 per person.

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Performing arts theater

Small theater offers intimate ambiance with excellent acoustics and close stage views. Warm candlelight creates a cozy atmosphere perfect for date nights. Audience feels engaged, making performances feel personal and lively.

Perfect for a date night with its intimate ambiance and engaging performances. Concerts like Candlelight: The Best of Hans Zimmer add a special touch to the evening.

People are saying

"It's a fun and festive place for entertainment."

"It's a small, intimate venue, perfect for a candlelit show."

"The musicians here are truly marvelous for Date Spots."

Good to know

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Parking can be tough on weekends, so arrive early.

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There is free parking half a block away from the venue.

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The theatre has limited disabled access, so check in advance.

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Pizza restaurant

Outdoor seating creates a cozy atmosphere perfect for dates. Unique Indian-flavored thin crust pizzas offer a playful twist that can surprise and divide opinions. Family-owned vibe adds a welcoming energy making it a lively spot to enjoy.

Multiple visits show this spot offers quality food that can surprise on a date night. Some dishes like the chaat pizza divide opinions, adding a unique twist to the experience.

People are saying

"I found the unique Indian flavors here to be a delicious fusion."

"It's a great late night spot for affordable and tasty pizza."

"You've got to try these Date Spots for their mind-blowing, authentic Indian flavors."

Good to know

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Tuesdays offer 50% off on all orders.

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Mazala Pizza is pick-up only with no seating available.

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The restaurant is open until 3:30 AM for late-night cravings.

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Rustic red-brick walls and banana-leaf wallpaper create a cozy vibe. Warm shokupan bread and simple dishes like avocado toast make it perfect for dates. Visible food prep adds a welcoming touch to the chill atmosphere.

Warm shokupan bread sets a cozy tone. The avocado toast and egg salad sandwich offer simple, tasty options for a casual date.

People are saying

"The Japanese Egg Salad Sandwich here is one of the world's best."

"The Avocado Toast here is beautiful and delicious."

"The sandwiches and drinks here are insanely delicious."

Good to know

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Expect long lines on weekends, often over an hour wait.

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Preordering is recommended to avoid sold-out items.

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Parking can be tricky; metered spots are a block away.

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Cambodian restaurant

Small, modern Cambodian restaurant offers a cozy atmosphere perfect for couples. Unique Cambodian flavors shine in every dish. Stylish decor creates a relaxed vibe ideal for intimate meals and easy conversation.

Couples often choose this spot for its intimate meals and pleasant atmosphere. It suits both lunch and dinner with a vibe that encourages relaxed, shared experiences.

People are saying

"The Cambodian food here is delicious and authentic."

"The vegetarian curry with tofu was excellent."

"The food here is amazing, perfectly put together and so fresh."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended for larger parties, especially on weekends.

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A major public parking garage is right across the street for easy access.

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The metro system runs down First Street, making it convenient to reach.

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Speakeasy-style bar offers a vinyl lounge with throwback decor and a 1920s Gatsby vibe. Creative cocktails use unique ingredients for a special taste. Intimate setting makes it perfect for romantic dates and small gatherings.

Elegant, intimate vibes create a great setting for romantic dates and small gatherings. A private lounge spins vinyl records, adding a unique touch to the experience.

People are saying

"The cocktails here are excellent and beautifully presented."

"The Speakeasy's creative drinks are so tasty and photogenic."

"The cocktails here are beautifully crafted and visually stunning."

Good to know

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Reservations are essential for the intimate space at Alter Ego Cocktail Club.

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Happy hour runs daily from 5pm to 7pm with $5 cocktails and skewers.

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Without a reservation, entry may be denied due to capacity limits.

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French restaurant

Spacious dining room with high ceilings and a modern vibe sets a chic, intimate mood. Blending French and Vietnamese styles, it feels like a casual cafe perfect for relaxed dates. Dishes like lamb complement the elegant yet unassuming atmosphere.

High ceilings and a modern vibe create a clean, chic setting. The food includes dishes like lamb that pair well with the atmosphere for a date night.

People are saying

"The Vietnamese-French fusion here makes for perfect Date Spots."

"The sea bass here is perfectly cooked and delicious."

"The short ribs were super tender and flavorful."

Good to know

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Parking is available across the street for $16 flat.

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The restaurant has rooms for corporate events and weddings.

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Guests can bring their own wine due to a temporary lack of liquor license.

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Salon blends modern decor with heated shoulder wraps for a relaxing vibe. Couples love manicure dates with patient, gentle care. Soft spa music and private massage chairs keep the mood calm and welcoming.

Couples enjoy manicure and pedicure dates with synchronized appointments. Staff show gentle, patient care ensuring comfort throughout sessions.

People are saying

"My nail tech executed my inspo picture exactly how I wanted it."

"I got a wonderful back massage and it felt great."

"They make syncing our appointments for Date Spots so easy."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended due to high customer volume.

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Cash payments may receive a discount, but credit cards are accepted.

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Expect to pay additional fees that may not be disclosed upfront.

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Wine bar in an old home offers a cozy atmosphere with chic decor and relaxing music. Guests enjoy quality wines paired with exceptional flatbreads and cheese boards. Staff remember preferences, making it perfect for romantic dates.

Great atmosphere suits sharing good times and chatting on dates. Staff remember preferences like favorite wine. The Brie and apples crusties stand out and get reordered.

People are saying

"They have an awesome wine selection with great bites."

"The owners, Ty and Nici, are so friendly and offer great recommendations."

"The owners are so fun to chat with, making it a great spot for dates."

Good to know

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Happy Hour runs daily from 4 to 5:30 pm with discounted drinks.

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Parking can be tricky, especially during events at SAP Center.

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The wine selection is diverse, with options for sampling at a set price.

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Narrow, all-wood bar with a Johnny Cash theme sets a relaxed vibe perfect for a chill date night. Cocktails like the Whiskey Apple use freshly pressed juices, adding to the quaint feel. A back room with a pool table offers extra fun.

Cocktails here are consistently solid and add to the quaint vibe. The spot feels relaxed and suits a chill date night well.

People are saying

"The bar was cash only, so I had to pay with cash."

"Jay, the bartender, is an amazing mixologist."

"The cocktails here are amazing and never disappoint."

Good to know

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The bar is cash only, so bring cash for your visit.

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Parking is available nearby in a structure or on the street.

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Security should oversee situations involving intoxicated patrons.

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Caribbean restaurant

Small, intimate space with Caribbean-themed decor and island-inspired music sets a lively mood. Outdoor tables welcome pets, and the open floor plan ensures wheelchair accessibility. Staff are patient, and the vegan jerk tofu is a standout for couples.

Caribbean flavors create a lively setting for couples. Staff show patience with orders and the vegan jerk tofu stands out as a popular choice.

People are saying

"The food here is authentic, packed with flavor, and tastes homemade."

"You have to try the oxtail; it's cooked to perfection."

"These date spots serve authentic Caribbean flavors, like the oxtail tacos."

Good to know

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Ordering is at a counter at the front.

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Expect to pay around $30 for a plate.

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They host a great comedy show every 4th Friday of the month.

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Californian restaurant

Two-story space with lush greenery and a liquor carousel sets a dramatic mood. Breathtaking views from the second floor bar make it perfect for dates. Outdoor patio welcomes dogs, adding to the lively, hospitality-focused vibe.

Breathtaking views from the second floor bar create a memorable setting for date nights. Exceptional hospitality and thoughtful accommodations, like swapping appetizers for allergies, enhance the experience.

People are saying

"The food here is creative and unique, with perfectly cooked dishes."

"The service here makes for an amazing date night."

"The Fine Dining here showcases thoughtful, well-balanced flavors and beautiful presentation."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended, especially for larger groups.

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A $5 cake fee applies for each person if you bring your own cake.

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Brunch costs around $50 per person, including food and drinks.

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Spacious layout with separate bar and outdoor seating creates a cozy, casual vibe. Arcade games like Mortal Kombat add fun for dates and families. Neighborhood feel suits both playful evenings and relaxed gatherings.

Low key atmosphere fits casual dates well. Games like Mortal Kombat add a fun, playful touch to the evening.

People are saying

"The casual Italian food here is authentic and delicious."

"I appreciated the wine tasting and the selection was great."

"The food and wine here are great for Date Spots."

Good to know

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Parking can be challenging during events at the Shark Tank.

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Reservations are recommended for large groups to ensure seating.

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They stop serving sandwiches at 6 pm, so plan accordingly.

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Taco truck offers authentic Mexican flavors with handmade tortillas in a casual, tented outdoor space. Long communal tables under a parking lot mural create a relaxed vibe. Tacos de tripa shine as a phenomenal flavor choice, perfect for a casual date.

Tacos stand out as a go-to choice for a casual date. The tacos de tripa offer a phenomenal flavor that invites a second round.

People are saying

"These tacos are savory, well-seasoned, and full of flavor."

"You have to try the homemade corn tortillas; they're so fresh and soft."

"These Date Spots have the best tacos de lengua."

Good to know

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The taco truck closes today (Wednesday) at 10 pm.

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Each taco costs about $3.5-4.

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Parking validation is available.

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Miniature golf course

Indoor miniature golf features animatronic shark and interactive mazes for a lively, immersive experience. Couples enjoy the fun, social vibe perfect for date nights. A bar offers drinks, adding to the cinematic atmosphere with a San Jose twist.

Mini golf offers a fun and interactive activity for couples. The spot works well for date night and social gatherings with friends.

People are saying

"The mini golf here is a fun and unique experience with creative holes."

"The bar here is super fun and has creative golf holes."

"This mini golf course is a fun date spot with creative holes."

Good to know

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Expect a wait time of around 45 minutes during peak hours.

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Playing a round of mini golf takes about 60-90 minutes on weekends.

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Parking is plentiful and available close to the venue.

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Large space with classic arcade games and a pinball room creates a lively, nostalgic vibe. Neon lights and old-school sounds mix with a modern design for high energy. Casual vibe with selection of brews makes it great for date nights and relaxed celebrations.

Offers a casual vibe with arcade games and a selection of brews. Suitable for date nights and relaxed celebrations.

People are saying

"The arcades here have an awesome collection of retro games and pinball."

"This place has a really cool vibe and atmosphere for hanging out."

"It's a festive spot with holiday decorations that make you feel the spirit."

Good to know

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Thursdays offer free games at MINIBOSS from open until close.

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Expect a busy crowd on weekends; arrive early for better seating.

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Arcade games cost between 25ยข and 75ยข per play.

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