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Performing arts theater

Small performing arts theater offers intimate setting with excellent acoustics and close stage views. Warm lighting from thousands of candles creates a cozy, enchanting atmosphere. Audience engagement feels personal, enhancing the energy during performances.

Events offer hilarious and fun experiences with a professional touch. Shows feel festive and entertaining, making for an easy and chill night out.

Perfect for a date night with its intimate ambiance and engaging performances. Concerts like Candlelight: The Best of Hans Zimmer add a special touch to the evening.

People are saying

"It's a fun and festive place for entertainment."

"It's a small, intimate venue, perfect for a candlelit show."

"The musicians here are truly marvelous for Date Spots."

Good to know

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Parking can be tough on weekends, so arrive early.

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There is free parking half a block away from the venue.

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The theatre has limited disabled access, so check in advance.

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Speakeasy-style bar splits into a laid-back vinyl lounge and an intimate, reservation-only cocktail club with a 1920s Gatsby vibe. Atmosphere blends throwback decor, vinyl DJ sets, and creative cocktails featuring unique ingredients. Space suits both casual gatherings and exclusive date nights with a chill, exclusive ambiance.

High-energy nights feature engaging DJs who bring passion to the music. Loud tunes and fun vibes keep the dance floor lively with neat decor adding to the atmosphere.

Elegant, intimate vibes create a great setting for romantic dates and small gatherings. A private lounge spins vinyl records, adding a unique touch to the experience.

People are saying

"The cocktails here are excellent and beautifully presented."

"The cocktails here are beautifully crafted and visually stunning."

"The cocktails here are creative and balanced."

Good to know

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Reservations are essential for the intimate space at Alter Ego Cocktail Club.

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Happy hour runs daily from 5pm to 7pm with $5 cocktails and skewers.

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Without a reservation, entry may be denied due to capacity limits.

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Narrow, all-wood bar with Johnny Cash theme and honky tonk vibe creates a relaxed, friendly atmosphere. Music centers on Johnny Cash, with a jukebox dedicated to his songs. Back room offers a pool table, and drinks include freshly pressed juices for cocktails like the Whiskey Apple.

The bar offers a really fun atmosphere. The menu keeps things simple and fun.

Cocktails here are consistently solid and add to the quaint vibe. The spot feels relaxed and suits a chill date night well.

People are saying

"The bar was cash only, so I had to pay with cash."

"You've got to try the cocktails; the apple one was a refreshing delight."

"The cocktails here are amazing and never disappoint."

Good to know

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The bar is cash only, so bring cash for your visit.

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Parking is available nearby in a structure or on the street.

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Security should oversee situations involving intoxicated patrons.

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Large space filled with classic arcade games and a dedicated pinball room creates a lively, nostalgic vibe. Neon lights and old-school game sounds blend with a modern industrial design to keep energy high. Crowds are comfortable, and the atmosphere stays fun and relaxed despite noise levels.

Creative drinks and hidden Easter Eggs add a unique twist to the fun atmosphere. Playing a 3v3 driving game with friends keeps the energy lively and engaging.

Offers a casual vibe with arcade games and a selection of brews. Suitable for date nights and relaxed celebrations.

People are saying

"The arcades here have an awesome collection of retro games and pinball."

"The arcade and pinball games here are awesome retro fun activities."

"It's a festive spot with holiday decorations that make you feel the spirit."

Good to know

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Thursdays offer free games at MINIBOSS from open until close.

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Expect a busy crowd on weekends; arrive early for better seating.

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Arcade games cost between 25ยข and 75ยข per play.

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Miniature golf course

Indoor miniature golf course features creative themed holes with surprises like an animatronic shark and interactive mazes. The atmosphere is lively and immersive, evoking a cinematic vibe with a San Jose-centric design. A bar area offers drinks to enjoy while playing, though seating is limited outside the bar.

Indoor golf pathways offer a unique theme in each area, making the golfing experience fun and interactive. The mini golf game is family-friendly and provides a quick, enjoyable activity with friends.

Mini golf offers a fun and interactive activity for couples. The spot works well for date night and social gatherings with friends.

People are saying

"The mini golf here is a fun and unique experience with creative holes."

"The bar here is super fun and has creative golf holes."

"This mini golf course is a fun date spot with creative holes."

Good to know

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Expect a wait time of around 45 minutes during peak hours.

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Playing a round of mini golf takes about 60-90 minutes on weekends.

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Parking is plentiful and available close to the venue.

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Comedy club

Historic theatre space offers a small, intimate setting with comfortable seating and well-balanced sound. Atmosphere feels homey and cozy, attracting an intelligent and engaged crowd. Full bar and table service with QR code ordering add convenience to the experience.

Bingo Loco and improv shows create a super fun atmosphere with great acts. The venue offers a cozy setting for entertainment, food, and drinks, attracting intelligent crowds.

Affordable parking lots sit close to the venue. Seating arrangements consider comfort, like placing guests near bathrooms. Comedy shows create a lively atmosphere for date nights.

People are saying

"The food and drinks here are excellent for nightlife."

"It's a fun venue with great shows and comedians."

"You have to order two items per person for these Date Spots."

Good to know

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There is a two-item minimum purchase per person from the menu.

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Parking is available across the street with a 2-hour meter until 6pm.

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Ordering drinks is done through an app, eliminating wait times for service.

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Coffee shop

Small space with bright Mexican decor and Chicano cultural touches creates a cozy, welcoming atmosphere. Mexican music plays, enhancing the vibe and making it feel like an authentic cafรฉ. Unique feature includes custom photo art on coffee foam, adding a playful and personal touch.

Unique coffee art with pet foam prints adds a playful twist to the usual cafe visit. The spot offers a fun vibe and extra touches that turn a simple coffee run into a small adventure.

Couples can enjoy shaken brown sugar espresso, torta de jamรณn, and conchas together. Some orders, like a chocolate milk in a bag, may not always be fulfilled.

People are saying

"I found the coffee here to be flavorful and delicious."

"You can get your pet's photo printed on your latte for a fun activity."

"The food here is delicious, especially the bread."

Good to know

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Expect a one-hour wait outside the cafe on Saturday mornings.

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There is no parking available at the location.

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The cafe is small, and seating is often unavailable.

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