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Somewhere to grab a drink that feels intimate enough for a real conversation instead of just a loud room full of strangers.

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Event venue

Event venue combines rustic interior with moody lighting and unique decor to create a warm, relaxed vibe. Spaces include indoor and outdoor areas with a full bar and cocktail offerings that receive high praise. Rooms around the main area support mingling and preparation, enhancing the overall experience.

The spot hosts weddings, making it a meaningful choice for couples. It offers a setting that suits special occasions like marriage ceremonies.

People are saying

"The restored movie theater space is stunning and unique."

"The cocktails here are awesome and the venue has a cool, elevated vibe."

"The staff here makes planning your Date Spots feel so calm and understood."

Good to know

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Parking is only available on the narrow streets with no dedicated lot.

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The venue is not suitable for receptions with over 100 guests.

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Food stations are small, leading to long wait times for food.

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Cocktail bar

Cocktail lounge with hunter green and gold decor creates a chic, vibrant vibe that feels both intimate and approachable. Music plays thoughtfully, enhancing the welcoming atmosphere while expertly crafted cocktails and flavorful small plates elevate the experience.

A cocktail lounge with a beautiful vibe offers small bites and drinks without the club feel. The atmosphere stays relaxed and inviting.

Beautiful space with a relaxed vibe suits date night drinks or quiet moments. Works well for couples or solo visits.

People are saying

"The cocktails here are expertly crafted and delicious."

"The cocktails here are creative, balanced, and beautifully presented."

"The drinks here are amazing and beautifully presented."

Good to know

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Happy hour is on Fridays, offering discounted drinks and appetizers.

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Reservations are recommended for large groups, especially during happy hour.

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The kitchen may run out of popular menu items, so check availability first.

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Wine bar combines black and white retro style with dim lighting to create a dark yet welcoming atmosphere. Music stays chill and inviting, supporting a cozy vibe with intimate table settings and a beautiful patio. Guests enjoy a stylish, underground feel paired with friendly, relaxed energy.

Dark, moody, and sophisticated decor creates a chill lounge vibe. Atmosphere stays relaxed unless rented out for an event.

Low lighting and cozy corners create a quiet atmosphere for conversations. Intimate tables and a selection of wines support a romantic date night or small gatherings.

People are saying

"This bar has a chill, sophisticated vibe perfect for date night."

"It's got a charming, intimate vibe perfect for Date Spots."

"It's a grown and sexy vibe, perfect for date night."

Good to know

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Parking is available around the back of the establishment.

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Street parking is also an option nearby.

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They partner with a nearby restaurant for food options.

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Comedy club

Comedy club offers an intimate setting with seats packed close to the stage, creating a cozy and fun atmosphere. The vibe stays laid-back and inviting, suitable for both date nights and group outings. Shows feature local and national acts with consistently great entertainment.

A New York style comedy club offers a steady stream of funny acts in an old school atmosphere. It serves as a solid spot for afterwork laughs and casual nights out.

Laughing hard for under $100 makes it a solid spot for a date night. Open-mic nights add a fun and inexpensive vibe that works well for couples or groups.

People are saying

"I found the experience here to be super fun."

"It's a great place for a date night, you'll laugh so hard."

"I considered the Funny Bone my favorite comedy club for nightlife."

Good to know

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Tickets for the event cost only $5.

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The venue hosts open mic nights where performers are ranked by audience votes.

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Expect a fun atmosphere with no hidden fees on drinks.

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Entrance through an unmarked door leads down an industrial tunnel into a hidden speakeasy with chic, intimate decor and flawless lighting. The atmosphere stays romantic and cozy, perfect for quiet conversations and dates, often enhanced by eclectic 90's R&B music and a fireplace-lit library nook.

Inside, a moody, elegant lounge sets the tone with incredible cocktails and live jazz creating a great vibe.

Creative drinks include a sesame-flavored option and other unique choices. Seating at the bar is easy to get even on a Friday evening. The spot suits intimate conversations and works well for both late night and day dates.

People are saying

"The Speakeasy's cocktails are amazing, with unique flavors and flawless presentation."

"The drinks here are top-tier, with impressive mixology and creative options."

"The cocktails here are innovative, flavorful, and perfectly balanced."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended to secure a spot, especially on busy nights.

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Cocktails are priced between $10 and $45, with most around $14 to $20.

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The establishment does not disclose cocktail ingredients, so be cautious if you have allergies.

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Stylish bar with an open, inviting space and a glamorous red carpet entrance sets a classy, sexy atmosphere. Fire dancers, dual DJs, and hookah create a lively vibe, while a spacious outdoor patio offers a breezy retreat. The energy blends upscale restaurant feels with vibrant nightlife elements.

An upscale lounge look sets the tone with a vibe that stays energetic and enjoyable throughout the night. Soul food tapas complement the club-like atmosphere and lounge concept.

Smooth ambiance sets a relaxed tone for a date night. Menu includes ribs with Mac and cheese and vegetarian options like broccolini, cornbread, and fried okra.

People are saying

"The food here is so tasty and awesome."

"The food here is so good, every plate hits."

"The food and drinks here are amazing."

Good to know

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Afrobeats Fridays start at 9 PM with DJ icyszn on the patio.

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R&B night on Thursdays features 90s to 2000s music from 5:30 to 7 PM.

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Expect a 20% gratuity added to your bill regardless of party size.

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Performing arts theater

Ornate historic theater with jungle-esque interior and luscious pipe organ creates an awe-inspiring atmosphere. Crowded seating contrasts with stellar live performances and a professional, elegant vibe. Unique features like snow effects during shows and secured smartphone pouches enhance focus and experience.

An oasis of calm and class within the theatre, the Fox Club offers table service and a private entrance that feels like a warm, luxury welcome. The bar features creative custom cocktails and a personable staff that makes every visit feel special.

Concerts and comedy shows create a beautiful setting for a date night. Staff provide exceptional accommodation for guests with mobility needs. Prices stay reasonable for an enjoyable evening out.

People are saying

"I found the theater to be gorgeous and the productions wonderful."

"It's a beautiful, fancy, and classy place for Date Spots."

"The architecture here is stunning, full of ornate details and golden charm."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended for dining at the Curtain Call restaurant before shows.

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Parking is available to the north of the theater, but be cautious of street parking.

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The venue has excellent acoustics, enhancing the performance experience.

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Space combines chill and chic interior with a super cute outdoor patio framed by historic buildings. Music plays from an exceptional vinyl collection through an incredible sound system, creating a classy, groovy vibe. Cocktails and creative sandwiches complement the relaxed, upbeat atmosphere.

Upscale but approachable vibe creates a great spot for cocktails and conversation. The back room suits intimate gatherings like rehearsal parties and birthdays with family and friends.

Vinyl records create a unique backdrop for dates. Cocktails like the Bolero and Pompous Moose add to the vibe.

People are saying

"The outdoor seating has a super cute vibe and great ambiance."

"The cocktails here are creative and delicious."

"The drinks here are tasty and well mixed."

Good to know

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Happy hour runs from 3-6 PM, Tuesday to Friday.

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Reservations are recommended for private events like cocktail parties.

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The menu offers gluten-free options for those with dietary restrictions.

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West African restaurant

West African restaurant with authentic Nigerian cuisine and a walkthrough art gallery overlooking the dining area. The atmosphere is vibrant and beautifully designed, featuring local and Nigerian art that adds genuine character. The vibe is lively with a DJ and a high-energy cultural feel.

A vibrant nightclub vibe takes over at night with Afrobeats music and dimmed lights creating an amazing lounge atmosphere. The venue offers great drinks and food alongside the lively scene.

Offers a great setting for date nights with a menu featuring dishes like whole fish with veggies that look and taste very good. Works well for both intimate dinners and group outings.

People are saying

"I found the food here to be amazing and flavorful."

"The food here is so delicious, I wish I lived closer."

"The food and service here make for a phenomenal Nightlife experience."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended for dinner, especially on weekends.

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Happy hour runs from 4-6pm on weekdays with discounted drinks.

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Friday only dishes are available after 7pm, so plan accordingly.

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Downstairs lounge with a secretive back alley entrance offers a historic speakeasy vibe featuring Art Deco and Art Nouveau dรฉcor. The atmosphere stays quiet and intimate with spacious seating and a dance floor under DJ music. Guests enjoy a cozy, stylish environment that transports them to the Roaring Twenties.

Inside features gorgeous lighting and a spacious lounge area with music that sets a club vibe. The entrance down an old staircase adds a secretive feel like a 1930s mobster lounge or a John Wick movie scene.

Offers a private, intimate setting ideal for date nights and special moments like proposals. The atmosphere adds a novelty factor that suits fancy dates and private events.

People are saying

"I found the atmosphere and vibe really cool, like stepping back into the 1920s."

"The nightlife here is a secretive thrill, like finding a password."

"I thought their cocktails were really well made."

Good to know

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A password is required to enter the speakeasy, even with a reservation.

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The venue accommodates around 150 guests for events.

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Thaxton Speakeasy does not serve food, so plan accordingly.

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Small plates restaurant

Small plates restaurant offers cozy, dark atmosphere with lively energy from games like foosball, shuffleboard, and ping pong. Multiple private karaoke rooms and a dance floor add variety to social gatherings. Large TVs and outdoor seating with a fire pit enhance the experience.

The nightlife features a large karaoke lounge with a great song selection that seats 12-18 people comfortably. The vibe is upbeat and energetic, mixing lounge seating, game areas, and live music for a lively atmosphere.

Cocktails and appetizers create a relaxed vibe for dates. Games offer a fun way to break the ice and spark conversation. The spot works well for both casual hangouts and special celebrations.

People are saying

"The food and drinks at Social are really good."

"Carrie, our bartender, was so much fun and very helpful."

"The karaoke lounge was the best part of the nightlife."

Good to know

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Happy hour runs from 4-7pm on weekdays with discounted drinks.

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Karaoke nights are popular on Thursdays starting at 10pm.

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The venue is 21+ after 4pm on Saturdays.

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Intimate jazz club with unobstructed views and fabulous acoustics from every seat. The atmosphere feels clean and brand new, hosting world-recognized musicians who deliver excellent live performances. Seating is close to the stage, creating a direct and engaging experience.

A laid back and comfortable atmosphere defines the jazz club's nightlife. Nancy's lounge feels a bit fake and the heat doesn't work well, making it less cozy.

Live jazz concerts create a memorable atmosphere for dates. Staff provide exceptional service and accommodate guests smoothly, making it suitable for special occasions like anniversaries or birthdays.

People are saying

"I found Jazz St. Louis to be an amazing place to see live jazz."

"The food here is delicious and well-portioned."

"This jazz club is the best nightlife in St. Louis."

Good to know

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The venue gets busy 30 minutes before shows, so arrive early for good seating.

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Seating is first come, first served, so plan to arrive early.

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Expect higher parking fees during events at the venue.

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Cocktail bar

Speakeasy-style cocktail bar with chic decor and a rooftop patio offers an electric atmosphere that is lively and sometimes noisy. Large space includes communal seating and a bar with high-end cocktails featuring unique ingredients. Outdoor areas provide beautiful views and a photogenic, artsy vibe.

Upstairs dining lounge fills up quickly and feels very crowded. Studio lounge and half terrace spaces often stay closed during events, limiting available areas.

Hosts create a lovely atmosphere for special occasions like surprise parties. Prices stay reasonable, making it easy to plan a date night or hang out with friends.

People are saying

"This bar has a gorgeous, electric atmosphere and cool vibe."

"The Date Spots here have amazing vibes and great food."

"The nightlife here has an electric atmosphere and a gorgeous space."

Good to know

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Reservations are required to secure a spot at the Maryland House.

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All transactions are processed on a tablet, showing only the final price.

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The Thursday specialty Chef event features unique menu items.

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Upscale hotel offers spacious, well-appointed rooms with luxurious amenities and a cozy yet classy lobby. Evenings bring loud live music from a downstairs band, creating a lively atmosphere that fills common areas. The venue includes unique touches like a fun cigar bar and a dog-friendly pet menu.

Cozy lounge areas feature plush seating and soft lighting, creating a warm ambiance for drinks and desserts. Staff like Martha and Kelly provide impeccable service with local knowledge and attentive care.

Cozy lounge areas with plush seating and soft lighting create a warm ambiance ideal for intimate dates. Staff at the bar and cigar lounge offer personalized service, remembering guests across visits.

People are saying

"The Day Lounge staff remembered us and provided thoughtful, personalized service."

"The staff's personalized touches make it a great spot for dates."

"The nightlife staff's personalized service was truly exceptional."

Good to know

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Parking costs $30 in the open parking garage.

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Valet and self-parking are available at a reasonable cost.

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The hotel does not offer complimentary coffee after 9am.

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Miniature golf course

Indoor miniature golf course features interactive technology with sensor-equipped golf balls and game-themed holes including trivia and moving parts. Neon lights and futuristic decor create a vibrant atmosphere that energizes the space. Multiple courses and a full-service bar support both casual play and group events.

A modern bar with a club-lite atmosphere offers a lively spot for nighttime fun. Game hosts manage your balls and clubs for interactive play while you enjoy the scene.

Offers a fun activity that works well for couples. Suits both date night and group outings like double dates.

People are saying

"It's a fun and unique experience for date nights or with the kids."

"It's a super fun date night spot."

"The futuristic, neon-lit putt-putt courses are a blast."

Good to know

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The Sunday All You Can Putt deal offers unlimited play for a flat fee.

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Each course costs approximately $7 per person, making it budget-friendly.

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Expect a lively atmosphere, especially during 21+ hours on weekends.

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Live music venue

Cozy live music venue with intimate atmosphere and great sound quality. Small, chic space features effective lighting and hosts local jazz bands. Tables sit close together, creating a personal setting for performances.

An intimate lounge vibe sets the tone with beautiful artistry on stage. The club feels cute and the owner creates a welcoming atmosphere.

Live jazz music creates a romantic atmosphere ideal for couples. The venue offers premium seating options suited for date nights or solo visits.

People are saying

"I loved the world-class jazz performances on Wednesday nights."

"It's a perfect spot for a date or a solo treat."

"The food and cocktails here are delicious."

Good to know

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Street parking is the only option available; arrive early to secure a spot.

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Expect a $20 cover charge for seated performances and $15 for bar seating.

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Food and drink prices are on the higher side, so budget accordingly.

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Large space with a vibrant eclectic atmosphere and loud, bass-heavy music fills the venue. Inclusive LGBTQIA+ friendly vibe attracts a diverse crowd enjoying high-energy drag shows and dancing. Features include a spacious patio, billiards, and dartboards, creating a lively social setting.

A great club spot with a welcoming vibe. The owner personally ensures guest safety by walking people to their cars.

Friday night shows create a lively atmosphere for couples. The staff's attitude varies, with some visits feeling friendly and welcoming and others marked by rudeness toward partners.

People are saying

"I loved this bar; it's my favorite place in St. Louis."

"The nightlife here feels like finding your club home."

"It's a really friendly and welcoming spot for Date Spots."

Good to know

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Drag shows occur every Saturday night, featuring local performers.

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Table reservations are recommended for Saturday night Divas on The Grove.

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Expect a lively dance party atmosphere on weekends.

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Angad Arts Hotel St. Louis, Tapestry Collection by Hilton image 1

Hotel showcases an art gallery and rooftop bar with unique artwork and a stunning downtown view. Atmosphere blends cool, hip vibes with quiet areas, though rooftop music can be loud. Rooftop bar attracts writers, artists, and poets seeking quality entertainment and personable service.

Rooftop lounge offers stunning skyline views and a solid spot for drinks. It adds a big city nightlife vibe with its elevated setting.

Rooms offer a cozy atmosphere ideal for couples. Staff provide thoughtful gestures like delivering cake for special occasions. The setting suits honeymoon stays with attentive service.

People are saying

"The rooftop bar has gorgeous views and great staff."

"It's a unique place with enchanting energy for your date spots."

"The rooftop lounge offers stunning skyline views for drinks."

Good to know

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Parking costs $25 a night, but many cars have been broken into recently.

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Check-in is located on the 12th floor, which is important to remember.

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The rooftop bar is open for events but only after 6 pm.

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Hotel combines contemporary art gallery with stylish accommodations and vintage-inspired design. Atmosphere feels quiet and comfortable, enhanced by unique art pieces and spacious interiors. Amenities include indoor pool, spa, and cocktail bar, creating a relaxed yet engaging environment.

A vibrant mix of bar, lounge, and art gallery creates a lively nightlife scene. Activities like shuffleboard and billiards add fun options beyond just drinks.

Frequent visits highlight this spot as a go-to for anniversary celebrations and special occasions. The efficient, fast barista adds a smooth start to the morning, enhancing the overall experience for couples.

People are saying

"This hotel's art exhibits create such a unique and inspiring setting."

"The art museum here is a gem for date spots."

"The lounge is a terrific space for drinks and games like pool."

Good to know

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Self-parking costs $20 per day, while valet parking is $45.

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The hotel does not have secured parking or sufficient security.

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Expect cleanliness issues in rooms based on guest experiences.

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Arena offers electric atmosphere with fantastic sightlines and perfect acoustics. Crowds bring passionate energy especially during hockey games and wrestling events. Entertainment includes dynamic shows with music, lights, and interactive elements that keep the energy high.

The nightlife centers around the Jameson Club and Rinkside Club, both offering private lounges and bars. Club level seats balance a good view with reasonable prices, and intermissions often lead to visits at Pub 67.

Modern venue offers rinksides seats right on the glass for an immersive experience. Live shows like Alabama and ELO create a lively atmosphere perfect for couples.

People are saying

"I thought it was a great spot for a hockey game."

"The atmosphere at the games is electric and the venue is great."

"The staff here are super kind and helped us find our seats."

Good to know

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Parking near the venue can cost up to $30; arrive at least two hours early.

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Food and drink prices inside the venue are generally high.

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Restrooms are well-maintained, even during large events.

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Golf bays feature high-tech AI cameras and heated seating, creating a modern and fun atmosphere with a variety of games for all skill levels. Views include an unbeatable city skyline and iconic arch, enhancing the experience. Music and lighting contribute to a lively yet comfortable vibe.

Stations provide a variety of clubs, including left handed clubs, so bringing your own gear is not necessary. The 'Sure Thing' golf club supports novice players during nighttime sessions.

Offers a mix of interactive golf games and casual dining for date nights. Staff like Jack provide attentive service, but some encounters with management can feel tense.

People are saying

"The food and drinks at this golf spot were tasty and hot."

"The American Food staff here are the nicest people ever."

"Cayse listened and addressed our concerns, turning our night around."

Good to know

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Half-price golf is available on Tuesdays.

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Reservations are required for corporate events.

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Parking is available on-site, making access easy.

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Restaurant

Multiple huge TVs and private lounge areas with individual controls create a personalized sports viewing experience. The atmosphere shifts from electric on game days to intimate and upscale during off-season, with leather couches and well-dressed bartenders. Seating includes large booths and living room setups, making it comfortable for both sports fans and families.

Warm atmosphere blends with an old-school lounge vibe and sports equipment decor. Each lounge section has its own TV with controllable stations, adding to the comfortable setting.

Soft, crusty jumbo Bavarian pretzels and delicious cheeseburgers make for satisfying bites. The Pitch offers a lively vibe with good food and music, fitting for a date night or catching a big game.

People are saying

"It's a great spot to watch the games on huge TVs."

"The food here is outstanding, especially the sandwiches and salads."

"The ambiance here feels like a blend of modern elegance and historic charm."

Good to know

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Happy hour does not occur on game days; check with the server before ordering.

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Validated parking is available, making it easier to visit.

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Expect large crowds during soccer games; arrive 30-60 minutes early for a table.

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Intimate concert venue with perfect acoustics and close seating offers a laid back atmosphere where live music and food combine uniquely. Space feels cramped and uncomfortable due to tight table arrangements, but sound quality and performances remain strong.

Nightlife includes a nightclub-like atmosphere at the winery venue and intimate comedy shows at a smaller club. The bar sometimes runs low on club soda and tonic during events.

Intimate seating creates a cozy vibe for dates. Live performances add a special touch to the evening. Staff like Jada enhance the experience with attentive service.

People are saying

"The Winery here hosts intimate concerts and amazing live performances."

"It's a nice, intimate space with surprisingly good sound quality."

"The live music and intimate atmosphere make for a great nightlife experience."

Good to know

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Expect a $25 minimum spend on food and drinks per person in addition to ticket prices.

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Bar service ends at 9:30 pm, even if shows run later.

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The venue is not ADA accessible, which may affect some visitors.

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Lounge

Lounge offers an awesome patio with local artist murals and lively dance music by a seamless DJ. Atmosphere is exciting and energetic, especially outdoors, attracting a crowd that enjoys vibrant nights.

Multiple dance clubs and nightclubs create a lively atmosphere. A late-night restaurant operates but the vibe leans more toward clubbing than dining.

Pitchers of margaritas offer a great way to share drinks on date nights. The spot suits couples well and works for late-night visits or casual get-togethers.

People are saying

"The Mexican food here is served by such sweet and attentive people."

"The food here is amazing, especially the juicy, flavorful meat."

"The nightlife here has loud music and low lights, like a club."

Good to know

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La Calle is open until 2 AM, with food service ending around 1-1:30 AM.

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Street parking costs $2 per hour on Saturdays.

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All meals come with complimentary chips and salsa.

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St. Louis Union Station Hotel, Curio Collection by Hilton image 1

Old train station converted into a hotel offers historic architecture and a two-story lobby with hourly light shows. The space feels artistic and immersive, with amenities like an aquarium, carousel, and Ferris wheel under one roof. Atmosphere blends relaxing history with occasional lively events.

Multiple lounges offer a solid nightlife with a diamond lounge serving drinks, breakfast, and evening snacks. Friendly staff and a standout manager create a welcoming atmosphere.

Stunningly beautiful setting creates a perfectly picturesque backdrop for dates. Rooms can be upgraded for a more special stay, and the hotel is within a short walk to concert venues.

People are saying

"The hotel staff's kindness and professionalism really made me feel welcomed."

"It's a beautiful site with stunning interior design, perfect for date spots."

"The light shows in the main hall are a highlight of the nightlife."

Good to know

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Parking costs $40 per day.

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The hotel lacks proper handicap accessibility for guests.

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Every hour on the hour, there is a light show in the grand hall.

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Hotel offers spacious rooms with great city views and a rooftop bar featuring loud music that carries into guest rooms late at night. Atmosphere blends a mature jazz vibe with moments of electronic dance energy from the rooftop nightclub. Decor is quirky and eclectic, creating a visually engaging environment.

Couples choose this spot for weekend getaways and honeymoon stays. It offers a setting that supports memorable and relaxing time together.

People are saying

"The rooftop bar has a wonderful atmosphere and city views."

"The staff went above and beyond for our anniversary date."

"The nightlife here has a unique, stylish vibe."

Good to know

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Parking is unsafe; avoid leaving your vehicle overnight.

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There were multiple incidents of vandalism in the hotel parking lot.

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The Metrolink station is a block and a half away, providing easy access to downtown.

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