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Indoor amusement center offers axe throwing and ninja star games with a fun, upbeat atmosphere. Great for interactive dates with friendly competition and expert guidance. Staff keep energy high and mood light with helpful tips and lively music.

Axe throwing creates a fun and interactive date experience with chances for bullseyes and friendly competition. Staff provide helpful tips to improve throws and keep the mood light and engaging.

People are saying

"Kenny's axe throwing instruction made it safe and lots of fun."

"Kenny was a great host, DJ, and photographer for our Date Spots."

"Our team building experience with Kenny was amazing and super helpful."

Good to know

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Reservations are not required for visits during weekdays.

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Axe throwing sessions are available in 30-minute and 90-minute increments.

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You can bring your own beverages to enjoy while throwing.

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Cocktail bar

Cocktail lounge shines with hunter green and gold decor creating a chic vibe. Perfect for date night drinks or solo visits, it offers expertly crafted cocktails and flavorful small plates in an intimate, welcoming space.

Beautiful space with a relaxed vibe suits date night drinks or quiet moments. Works well for couples or solo visits.

People are saying

"The cocktails here are expertly crafted and delicious."

"The Shrimp And Grits here are rich, velvety, and comforting."

"The cocktails here are creative, balanced, and beautifully presented."

Good to know

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Happy hour is on Fridays, offering discounted drinks and appetizers.

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Reservations are recommended for large groups, especially during happy hour.

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The kitchen may run out of popular menu items, so check availability first.

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Cocktail bar

Cocktail bar shines with stunning ceilings and a modern art gallery feel. Cozy lounge seats create a perfect date spot for a night cap, especially with the espresso martini. Bright, spacious interiors also support relaxed conversation and daytime co-working.

Offers a cozy spot for a night cap with a partner. The espresso martini stands out as a phenomenal choice for a pre-dinner drink.

People are saying

"The cocktails here are amazing and perfectly balanced."

"I'd recommend this spot for drinks and relaxation."

"The craft cocktails here are delicious and masterfully made."

Good to know

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Happy hour runs from 4-7pm on weekdays with half-price appetizers.

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Free street parking is available after 7pm right in front of the bar.

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The establishment does not serve food, only drinks.

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Asian restaurant

Spacious dining with natural light sets a cozy mood for couples. Large portions and delicious sushi satisfy food lovers. Late-night Lo Mein adds convenience for date nights, all in a clean, well-decorated space.

Frequent visits show it works well for couples looking to try new things and support small businesses. Late-night orders, like Lo Mein after 10pm, add convenience for date nights.

People are saying

"I found the food here to be excellent and delicious."

"I loved the Thai iced tea; it was made with legit quality ingredients."

"This is a great spot for a date, the Lo Mein is delicious."

Good to know

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Parking can be challenging due to the restaurant's location on Tucker.

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The restaurant offers a buy one get one free sushi roll promotion on Labor Day.

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Expect large portion sizes, making it a good value for the price.

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Enjoy couples massage and Dead Sea mud wrap in a historic, elegant setting. The spa offers luxurious treatments with a calming vibe and complimentary Champagne. Prices reflect a thoughtful, high-end experience perfect for relaxation and romance.

Couples can enjoy a Dead Sea mud wrap and a couples massage here. These treatments focus on relaxation and shared experience.

People are saying

"My facial left my skin feeling dewy and revitalized."

"I received one of the best massages I've ever had."

"I had the best couples massage for our date spot."

Good to know

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The cheapest massage costs around $120.

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They charge $200 for a massage plus a 20% gratuity.

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Valet parking is free for spa guests.

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Elegant design meets stunning city views and a rooftop pool for a calm yet lively stay. Modern rooms offer comfortable settings perfect for couples celebrating special moments. Spa amenities add a touch of luxury to pamper yourself or your partner.

Rooms feel modern and up to date, creating a comfortable setting for couples. Celebrations like anniversaries and honeymoons happen here, making it a spot to pamper yourself or your partner.

People are saying

"The staff's attention to detail made our breakfast feel special."

"The staff here are so attentive and professional, making you feel welcome."

"The staff here are so professional and kind, making it a great spot."

Good to know

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Parking was free during my stay in mid December.

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The hotel is pet friendly.

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The hotel offers great views of the Mississippi River and Arch.

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Massive 65-foot screen and wall-to-wall TVs create an immersive sports vibe. Impeccable service and plush booths make it a perfect date spot. Live music and DJs add energy, blending fun and intimacy seamlessly.

Impeccable service supports a relaxed atmosphere for couples. Sharing food and drinks creates a great time for partners, with some arriving hours early to enjoy the experience fully.

People are saying

"Our server Damarcus made our food experience truly memorable."

"The staff here really takes care of you during live sports."

"The bartenders here are fun, witty, and helpful for your date."

Good to know

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Reservations are no longer accepted through OpenTable.

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Expect a lively atmosphere during game days with large crowds.

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The venue offers a VIP happy hour; ask a manager for details.

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Upscale restaurant offers stunning arch views and a romantic atmosphere with soft background music. Couples enjoy intimate celebrations here, making it perfect for anniversaries and birthdays. Steaks and cocktails are highly praised, enhancing special dinners.

Couples celebrate anniversaries, birthdays, and special milestones here with memorable dinners. The setting suits intimate celebrations** and meaningful moments.

People are saying

"I found the food and drinks to be amazing."

"The steak here is expertly seasoned and perfectly cooked."

"The steaks here are cooked perfectly and seasoned so well."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended, especially for special events like Mother's Day brunch.

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Expect a 20% automatic gratuity for parties of six or more.

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Valet parking is available, but service can be slow.

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Bar and grill buzzes with live music and an energetic DJ. Couples enjoy bee sting wings in a relaxed spot with friendly staff like Gisela. Games like Skee-Ball and jump shot add fun, while fire-pit patios offer cozy social spaces.

Staff like Gisela add a friendly touch to evenings out. Sharing dishes like bee sting wings fits well with a casual, relaxed vibe for couples.

People are saying

"I thought the food here was amazing."

"The bartenders here are so friendly and make amazing drinks."

"The servers here are so attentive, they'll keep your drinks full."

Good to know

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Karaoke competition takes place on Thursday nights with public entry.

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Bingo nights are hosted on select days; check the schedule for details.

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Food options are limited, with about nine items available on the menu.

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Living-room-meets-library design creates a cozy atmosphere perfect for dates. Live music by Chuck Flowers adds a relaxing vibe. Vegetarian options like mac and cheese make it a warm spot for quiet catch-ups.

Live music by Chuck Flowers and his keyboard partner creates a relaxing vibe. The menu offers vegetarian options like mac and cheese and broccolini, making it a cozy spot for date nights or quiet catch-ups.

People are saying

"The food here is great, especially the mac and cheese."

"The food at these Date Spots, like steak kabobs and mac and cheese, never disappointed."

"Happy Hour feels like a cozy, living-room-meets-library vibe."

Good to know

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Happy Hour offers signature cocktails at $9.99 and bites at $7.99.

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Thursdays feature half-price bottles of wine.

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Fridays include a free glass of wine with an entrรฉe.

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Spacious rooms offer views of the Arch and a historic ambiance. Free breakfast and evening snacks add to the relaxed vibe. Close to the Enterprise Center, it makes a perfect date spot with cozy charm and easy access to events.

Offers a perfect atmosphere for couples with a cozy and relaxed vibe. Close proximity to the Enterprise Center makes it convenient for date activities.

People are saying

"The breakfast spread here is well executed and full of options."

"The rooms felt clean and super comfortable."

"The staff here makes Date Spots feel so welcoming and friendly."

Good to know

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The hotel offers complimentary adult beverages and snacks from 5:30 to 7:00 PM every night.

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Parking at the hotel costs $26 per day.

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Breakfast is included with your stay and features a buffet-style setup.

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Dining room offers an intimate setting with low lighting and fine dining decor. Staff gives special attention, making it a memorable spot for couples. Steaks like filet with lobster tail and complimentary dessert add to the warm, inviting atmosphere.

Special attention from staff creates a memorable atmosphere for couples. Dishes like filet with lobster tail stand out, and thoughtful gestures like a complimentary dessert and a photo add to the experience.

People are saying

"I found the food here to be amazing and delicious."

"The staff here makes your date night feel extra special."

"My steak was cooked to perfection and full of flavor."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended to secure a table, especially on weekends.

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Valet parking is available, but there's also a garage across the street.

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Happy hour features a unique menu with discounted items from 4-6pm.

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Old late 1800s building with wooden beams sets a blues stage vibe. Rich barbecue aroma from smoker fills the air, perfect for date spots with hearty pulled pork and ribs. Covered patio offers riverfront views and a family-friendly atmosphere with tasteful music.

Pulled pork and ribs stand out as hearty meat options for sharing. Mac and cheese adds a creamy, comforting side to the meal.

People are saying

"I had the best BBQ I've ever experienced here."

"This lunch spot's smoked meats, like the ribs and brisket, are tender and flavorful."

"The brisket Philly here is so tender and delicious."

Good to know

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The restaurant is family-run and veteran-owned, providing a personal touch.

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The menu is small but offers a variety of BBQ options.

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The location is easily accessible from the metro station.

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Rooms offer comfortable beds and breathtaking views of a nearby stadium, creating a lively backdrop. Outdoor spaces feature a bar and patio with energetic vibes and music that carries into the evening. Valet parking and gym facilities add convenience and appeal to the overall experience.

People are saying

"The hotel staff were so kind, helpful, and welcoming."

"The beds here are super comfortable."

"The staff here makes it a great spot for dates."

Good to know

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Parking around the stadium is always problematic.

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Pets are allowed at the hotel.

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There is no free parking available at the hotel.

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Community-style seating and a live music stage create a rock 'n' roll vibe with daily live music. Couples enjoy bar seating and salads, though sandwiches may disappoint. Service can be slow when busy, but the lively atmosphere and great cocktails keep energy high.

Couples often sit at the bar to enjoy the hospitality. Food choices include salads and grilled chicken sandwiches, though the sandwiches can be disappointing. Service may feel slow during busy times.

People are saying

"The food here is delicious, fresh, and flavorful."

"The beer selections here are great and the staff is outstanding."

"The bartender Jordan was so personable and made it a great Date Spot."

Good to know

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Reservations are available through Open Table for dinner service.

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Expect a 15-minute wait for tables during busy hours.

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Happy hour offers outstanding prices on drinks and appetizers.

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Small diner with boomerang countertops offers a cozy, retro vibe perfect for dates. Enjoy breakfast sandwiches and French Toast in a lively, nostalgic setting filled with 70's music. Limited space creates an intimate, unpretentious atmosphere ideal for morning outings.

Breakfast sandwiches and French Toast stand out as solid choices for a date. The food presentation and taste create a relaxed, enjoyable morning vibe.

People are saying

"It's a cool old-school diner with a great vibe."

"You won't pay through the nose for this good, cheap food."

"The food here is good and the portions are well-priced."

Good to know

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Chili Macโ€™s Diner is the original home of the Slinger, a locally famous food legend.

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The restaurant only stays open until 1:30 pm.

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Expect quick service and affordable meals.

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American restaurant

Large indoor and outdoor spaces offer breathtaking views of the arch and hotel pool. Cocktails and perfectly cooked filet mignon make it ideal for special occasions. Rooftop patio with a stand-up bar adds lively vibes.

Cocktails start the evening, followed by dinner featuring perfectly cooked filet mignon and steak Wellington. The setting suits celebrating special occasions like anniversaries.

People are saying

"The Beef Wellington was so tender, like butter."

"The crab cakes were rich, flavorful, and generously packed with jumbo lump crab."

"The Beef Wellington here is a must-try for Date Spots."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended at least 24 hours in advance for dinner service.

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The restaurant offers a late-night happy hour menu after 10pm.

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There is free enclosed parking available with security near the hotel.

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Downstairs lounge with a secretive back alley entrance creates a historic speakeasy vibe perfect for intimate date nights. Spacious seating and a dance floor under DJ music offer a cozy, stylish setting for special moments and private events.

Offers a private, intimate setting ideal for date nights and special moments like proposals. The atmosphere adds a novelty factor that suits fancy dates and private events.

People are saying

"I found the atmosphere and vibe really cool, like stepping back into the 1920s."

"Their cocktails are really well made and above average."

"I thought their cocktails were really well made."

Good to know

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A password is required to enter the speakeasy, even with a reservation.

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The venue accommodates around 150 guests for events.

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Thaxton Speakeasy does not serve food, so plan accordingly.

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Restaurant

Rooftop space boasts amazing city views and a fire pit that create a lively vibe. Curated cocktails and a crisp breeze set a relaxed date night mood. DJ spins excellent music while crowds enjoy sunsets and games.

Rooftop offers a crisp breeze and well crafted cocktails that set a great mood. Music, scenery, and atmosphere combine for a relaxed date night vibe.

People are saying

"The views here are absolutely gorgeous and breathtaking."

"The food here looked and smelled great."

"It's the perfect date spot with a fabulous view and electric atmosphere."

Good to know

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The rooftop is open from 4 PM to 1 AM Monday-Thursday, 4 PM to 2 AM Friday-Saturday, and 4 PM to 12 AM Sunday.

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A DJ plays every Friday and Saturday from 9 PM until close.

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Arriving before 10 PM helps avoid crowds and cover fees.

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Small space with self-ordering kiosks keeps things easy. Korean dishes like fried chicken tacos and bulgogi bibimbap offer bold flavors. Shared plates such as wings and loaded fries make it a great date spot with consistent quality.

Shared plates like wings and loaded fries work well for couples. The menu offers combos such as the Spicy Fried Chicken Taco, providing variety. Food quality feels consistent across dishes, making it easy to enjoy together.

People are saying

"The American Food, especially the wings and fries, is amazing."

"The fried chicken tenders were large, juicy, and extra crispy."

"You have to try the kimchi nachos for your next Date Spot."

Good to know

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Parking is standard on the Landing and may be difficult to find.

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The restaurant does not accept cash; only card payments are allowed.

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Restrooms are available and kept clean for customers.

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Historic charm meets vintage luxury with spacious rooms and a rooftop bar. Couples enjoy relaxing massages and cozy vibes perfect for birthdays. Views of old buildings add a unique, lively contrast to the intimate setting.

Couple massages offer a relaxing experience that stands out. The setting supports special occasions like birthdays with a cozy, intimate vibe.

People are saying

"The hotel staff made me feel seen, welcomed, and cared for."

"The rooftop pool has great views and a relaxing atmosphere."

"The staff here makes you feel seen and cared for."

Good to know

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Wine Wednesday features discounted drinks and appetizers at the restaurant.

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Rooftop parties are popular and often require advance reservations.

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The hotel is dog-friendly, making it a good option for pet owners.

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Restaurant

Old building charm and stained glass windows create a classy, quaint vibe. Cozy, squishy booths add nostalgia, perfect for romantic dates. The standout burger makes sharing special, fitting for occasions like New Year's Eve.

A romantic vibe makes it a nice spot for drinks on a date. The burger stands out as a memorable dish to share. Special occasions like New Year's Eve fit well here.

People are saying

"The dinner spots here have flavorful food and good portions."

"The bartender was super friendly and knowledgeable."

"The food and drinks here are great for date spots."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended, especially for larger groups.

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Expect a 15-minute wait for seating even on quiet nights.

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The dinner menu is limited with few options available.

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Spacious rooms offer unobstructed views of the Arch and river, creating a gorgeous setting perfect for weddings. Warm, elegant decor with vibrant red highlights sets an intimate, inviting mood. Excellent acoustics support live entertainment, enhancing celebrations.

Weddings happen here with a gorgeous setting that suits couples well. The space feels intimate and special for a memorable day.

People are saying

"The food here was amazing and had guests raving for weeks."

"The scenic views of the Arch, river, and city are spectacular."

"The space is stunning, you'll need very little decor."

Good to know

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The venue offers catering options from local restaurants, including Drunken Fish and Kimchi Guys.

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Parking can be problematic due to City Park's communication issues; guests need original tickets.

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The venue provides stunning views of the Arch and the Mississippi River.

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Live music bar

Live music energizes a spacious venue with an outdoor patio perfect for casual dates. Burgers like the jalapeno popper shine, though food can arrive cold. The vibe shifts from lively bands to a darker dance floor when the DJ plays.

Burgers stand out with options like the jalapeno popper and poppertopper burger. Food arrives quickly but can be a bit cold sometimes. The spot works well for casual pre-concert or Sunday night dates.

People are saying

"The food here was really good and served hot."

"The bar staff here is super friendly and attentive."

"The live music here makes for a great date spot."

Good to know

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Parking can be challenging, especially during events like baseball games.

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The kitchen closes earlier than many other places in the city.

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A service charge is added after a certain time.

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