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Cocktail bar

Cocktail bar occupies a historic bank building with stunning ceilings and spacious, bright interiors. Atmosphere blends unique vibes with a modern art gallery feel, attracting those who enjoy craft cocktails and relaxed conversation. Lounge seats support both socializing and daytime co-working, creating a versatile environment.

Quiet and casual atmosphere creates a relaxing environment. Great spot to grab a drink and unwind before events or just to chill.

Offers a cozy spot for a night cap with a partner. The espresso martini stands out as a phenomenal choice for a pre-dinner drink.

People are saying

"The cocktails here are amazing and perfectly balanced."

"I'd recommend this spot for drinks and relaxation."

"The craft cocktails here are delicious and masterfully made."

Good to know

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Happy hour runs from 4-7pm on weekdays with half-price appetizers.

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Free street parking is available after 7pm right in front of the bar.

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The establishment does not serve food, only drinks.

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Spa offers a calming, serene atmosphere within a historic, elegant setting. Services include luxurious treatments like firm yet gentle massages and mud wraps, often accompanied by complimentary Champagne. Prices tend to be on the higher side, reflecting an intentional and thoughtful experience.

Massages and facials here deliver deep relaxation and leave skin feeling rejuvenated. Skilled therapists provide flawless treatments that help you unwind completely.

Couples can enjoy a Dead Sea mud wrap and a couples massage here. These treatments focus on relaxation and shared experience.

People are saying

"My facial left my skin feeling dewy and revitalized."

"Crystal's massage left me feeling deeply relaxed and my skin baby-soft."

"I had the best couples massage for our date spot."

Good to know

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The cheapest massage costs around $120.

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They charge $200 for a massage plus a 20% gratuity.

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Valet parking is free for spa guests.

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Living-room-meets-library design creates a warm, cozy atmosphere with a laid-back neighborhood vibe. Live music adds a relaxing energy while the big dog portrait serves as a guardian of good vibes. Private lounge offers an elegant, top-shelf feel distinct from typical grills and bars.

Live music by Chuck Flowers and his keyboard partner sets a relaxing atmosphere. The spot offers a laid-back city vibe with welcoming staff and great food, making it easy to unwind after work.

Live music by Chuck Flowers and his keyboard partner creates a relaxing vibe. The menu offers vegetarian options like mac and cheese and broccolini, making it a cozy spot for date nights or quiet catch-ups.

People are saying

"The food here is great, especially the mac and cheese."

"The food at these Date Spots, like steak kabobs and mac and cheese, never disappointed."

"The bread pudding with cinnamon ice cream is delicious."

Good to know

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Happy Hour offers signature cocktails at $9.99 and bites at $7.99.

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Thursdays feature half-price bottles of wine.

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Fridays include a free glass of wine with an entrรฉe.

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Hotel combines elegant design with stunning city and river views, especially from the rooftop. Atmosphere balances calm luxury with occasional urban noise and nearby casino presence. Amenities include a rooftop pool, spa, and well-appointed rooms offering comfort and thoughtful details.

Massages and a quiet reflection room create a laid-back vibe. Amenities like the sauna and steam room add to the calm atmosphere, while staff ensure everyone feels comfortable and cared for.

Rooms feel modern and up to date, creating a comfortable setting for couples. Celebrations like anniversaries and honeymoons happen here, making it a spot to pamper yourself or your partner.

People are saying

"The staff's attention to detail made our breakfast feel special."

"The staff here are so welcoming and attentive, it's a truly relaxing spot."

"The staff here are so professional and kind, making it a great spot."

Good to know

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Parking was free during my stay in mid December.

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The hotel is pet friendly.

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The hotel offers great views of the Mississippi River and Arch.

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Upscale restaurant offers stunning arch views from elegant booths and a romantic atmosphere with background music enhancing the experience. Steaks and cocktails receive high praise, creating a setting suited for special dinners and celebrations.

Exceptional service lets the evening flow at a relaxed pace without feeling rushed. Dining without reservations is possible, adding to the easygoing atmosphere.

Couples celebrate anniversaries, birthdays, and special milestones here with memorable dinners. The setting suits intimate celebrations** and meaningful moments.

People are saying

"I found the food and drinks to be amazing."

"The steaks here are cooked perfectly and seasoned so well."

"The service here is so attentive, it makes for a truly relaxing spot."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended, especially for special events like Mother's Day brunch.

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Expect a 20% automatic gratuity for parties of six or more.

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Valet parking is available, but service can be slow.

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Hotel offers spacious rooms with views of the Arch and Mississippi River and a historic, elegant ambiance. Amenities include free breakfast and evening snacks, a pool, and hot tubs, creating a relaxed atmosphere. The rooftop balcony and lobby add distinctive charm, while noise levels vary by floor.

Indoor pool, hot tubs, and rooftop deck offer quiet spots to unwind with views. Evening kickback serves hot food like nachos and tacos, adding a convenient way to relax without leaving. Jacuzzis provide a deeply soothing experience.

Offers a perfect atmosphere for couples with a cozy and relaxed vibe. Close proximity to the Enterprise Center makes it convenient for date activities.

People are saying

"The breakfast spread here is well executed and full of options."

"The staff here makes Date Spots feel so welcoming and friendly."

"The staff here are so friendly and helpful, making it a truly relaxing spot."

Good to know

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The hotel offers complimentary adult beverages and snacks from 5:30 to 7:00 PM every night.

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Parking at the hotel costs $26 per day.

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Breakfast is included with your stay and features a buffet-style setup.

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Restaurant

Old building charm combines with stained glass windows and chandeliers to create a classy, quaint atmosphere. Lounge offers a relaxing vibe ideal for quiet drinks or romantic dates, though noise rises with larger groups. Seating includes squishy booth-like spots that add a cozy, nostalgic feel.

Quiet atmosphere creates a relaxing vibe for drinks and snacks. Seating suits small groups like friends or coworkers looking to unwind.

A romantic vibe makes it a nice spot for drinks on a date. The burger stands out as a memorable dish to share. Special occasions like New Year's Eve fit well here.

People are saying

"The dinner spots here have flavorful food and good portions."

"It's a nice, quiet place to relax with drinks."

"The food and drinks here are great for date spots."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended, especially for larger groups.

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Expect a 15-minute wait for seating even on quiet nights.

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The dinner menu is limited with few options available.

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Historic building offers vintage luxury with spacious rooms and a rooftop bar and pool featuring great views. Atmosphere blends old-time charm with lively urban sounds outside. The setting includes views of surrounding dilapidated buildings, adding a unique contrast.

CBD massage spa treatments provide mental and physical relaxation lasting two days. Rooms feature phonograph players with classic records, creating a nostalgic vibe. The rooftop pool offers stunning skyline views and a sunny spot to unwind.

Couple massages offer a relaxing experience that stands out. The setting supports special occasions like birthdays with a cozy, intimate vibe.

People are saying

"The hotel staff made me feel seen, welcomed, and cared for."

"The staff here makes you feel seen and cared for."

"The staff here makes you feel like family."

Good to know

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Wine Wednesday features discounted drinks and appetizers at the restaurant.

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Rooftop parties are popular and often require advance reservations.

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The hotel is dog-friendly, making it a good option for pet owners.

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Restaurant

Rooftop space offers amazing city views with both outdoor seating and a fire pit. Atmosphere feels lively and crowded with a DJ playing excellent music. Crowd enjoys watching games and sunsets while sipping on curated cocktails.

Breathtaking views create a relaxing vibe that feels grown and mature. The spot suits sunsets, games, or enjoying a gourmet meal and drink in a chill, sexy atmosphere.

Rooftop offers a crisp breeze and well crafted cocktails that set a great mood. Music, scenery, and atmosphere combine for a relaxed date night vibe.

People are saying

"The views here are absolutely gorgeous and breathtaking."

"The views from this relaxing spot are breathtaking."

"It's the perfect date spot with a fabulous view and electric atmosphere."

Good to know

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The rooftop is open from 4 PM to 1 AM Monday-Thursday, 4 PM to 2 AM Friday-Saturday, and 4 PM to 12 AM Sunday.

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A DJ plays every Friday and Saturday from 9 PM until close.

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Arriving before 10 PM helps avoid crowds and cover fees.

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