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A cocktail bar where the drinks are crafted with intention and the mood is set for a conversation, not a party.

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Cocktail bar

Cocktail bar occupies a historic bank building with stunning ceilings and spacious, bright interiors. Atmosphere blends unique vibes with a modern art gallery feel, attracting those who enjoy craft cocktails and relaxed conversation. Lounge seats support both socializing and daytime co-working, creating a versatile environment.

Cocktails here are insanely good and well-balanced, with creative specialty drinks like the espresso martini and Gin's My Uncle. Friendly bartenders share cocktail-making secrets, making the experience stand out.

Offers a cozy spot for a night cap with a partner. The espresso martini stands out as a phenomenal choice for a pre-dinner drink.

People are saying

"The cocktails here are amazing and perfectly balanced."

"I'd recommend this spot for drinks and relaxation."

"The craft cocktails here are delicious and masterfully made."

Good to know

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Happy hour runs from 4-7pm on weekdays with half-price appetizers.

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Free street parking is available after 7pm right in front of the bar.

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The establishment does not serve food, only drinks.

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Cocktail bar

Cocktail lounge with hunter green and gold decor creates a chic, vibrant vibe that feels both intimate and approachable. Music plays thoughtfully, enhancing the welcoming atmosphere while expertly crafted cocktails and flavorful small plates elevate the experience.

Handcrafted cocktails showcase creative flavors and unique styles. The drinks balance accessibility for newcomers with beautiful presentation.

Beautiful space with a relaxed vibe suits date night drinks or quiet moments. Works well for couples or solo visits.

People are saying

"The cocktails here are expertly crafted and delicious."

"The Shrimp And Grits here are rich, velvety, and comforting."

"The cocktails here are creative, balanced, and beautifully presented."

Good to know

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Happy hour is on Fridays, offering discounted drinks and appetizers.

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Reservations are recommended for large groups, especially during happy hour.

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The kitchen may run out of popular menu items, so check availability first.

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Thaxton Speakeasy image 1

Downstairs lounge with a secretive back alley entrance offers a historic speakeasy vibe featuring Art Deco and Art Nouveau dรฉcor. The atmosphere stays quiet and intimate with spacious seating and a dance floor under DJ music. Guests enjoy a cozy, stylish environment that transports them to the Roaring Twenties.

Cocktails feature a vast selection of unique and well made drinks. The menu changes seasonally and offers affordable options with above average quality.

Offers a private, intimate setting ideal for date nights and special moments like proposals. The atmosphere adds a novelty factor that suits fancy dates and private events.

People are saying

"I found the atmosphere and vibe really cool, like stepping back into the 1920s."

"Their cocktails are really well made and above average."

"I thought their cocktails were really well made."

Good to know

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A password is required to enter the speakeasy, even with a reservation.

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The venue accommodates around 150 guests for events.

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Thaxton Speakeasy does not serve food, so plan accordingly.

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Ruth's Chris Steak House image 1

Upscale restaurant offers stunning arch views from elegant booths and a romantic atmosphere with background music enhancing the experience. Steaks and cocktails receive high praise, creating a setting suited for special dinners and celebrations.

Bartenders craft great cocktails with a complex bourbon mixer and a smooth moscato option.

Couples celebrate anniversaries, birthdays, and special milestones here with memorable dinners. The setting suits intimate celebrations** and meaningful moments.

People are saying

"I found the food and drinks to be amazing."

"The steaks here are cooked perfectly and seasoned so well."

"The cocktails here are wonderful and looked like a picture."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended, especially for special events like Mother's Day brunch.

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Expect a 20% automatic gratuity for parties of six or more.

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Valet parking is available, but service can be slow.

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Sports & Social St. Louis image 1

Bar and grill with numerous TVs and interactive games like Skee-Ball and jump shot create an engaging environment. Energetic DJ and live music enhance the lively atmosphere, especially on game days. Comfortable high table seating and a patio with fire-pits offer relaxed social spaces.

Every cocktail comes out perfect and with a smile. The cucumber mint cocktail stands out as very refreshing. Cocktails here are consistently spectacular.

Staff like Gisela add a friendly touch to evenings out. Sharing dishes like bee sting wings fits well with a casual, relaxed vibe for couples.

People are saying

"I thought the food here was amazing."

"The cocktails were spectacular, mixed with skill and flair."

"The servers here are so attentive, they'll keep your drinks full."

Good to know

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Karaoke competition takes place on Thursday nights with public entry.

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Bingo nights are hosted on select days; check the schedule for details.

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Food options are limited, with about nine items available on the menu.

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Living-room-meets-library design creates a warm, cozy atmosphere with a laid-back neighborhood vibe. Live music adds a relaxing energy while the big dog portrait serves as a guardian of good vibes. Private lounge offers an elegant, top-shelf feel distinct from typical grills and bars.

Signature cocktails stay on point with a nice variety of options. Happy Hour features $9.99 cocktails alongside affordable bites.

Live music by Chuck Flowers and his keyboard partner creates a relaxing vibe. The menu offers vegetarian options like mac and cheese and broccolini, making it a cozy spot for date nights or quiet catch-ups.

People are saying

"The food here is great, especially the mac and cheese."

"The food at these Date Spots, like steak kabobs and mac and cheese, never disappointed."

"The live music here makes for such relaxing cocktails."

Good to know

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Happy Hour offers signature cocktails at $9.99 and bites at $7.99.

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Thursdays feature half-price bottles of wine.

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Fridays include a free glass of wine with an entrรฉe.

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Restaurant

Old building charm combines with stained glass windows and chandeliers to create a classy, quaint atmosphere. Lounge offers a relaxing vibe ideal for quiet drinks or romantic dates, though noise rises with larger groups. Seating includes squishy booth-like spots that add a cozy, nostalgic feel.

Innovative cocktails stand out here. Janice crafts amazing drinks with skill and creativity.

A romantic vibe makes it a nice spot for drinks on a date. The burger stands out as a memorable dish to share. Special occasions like New Year's Eve fit well here.

People are saying

"The dinner spots here have flavorful food and good portions."

"The food and drinks here are great for date spots."

"Janice makes such great cocktails."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended, especially for larger groups.

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Expect a 15-minute wait for seating even on quiet nights.

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The dinner menu is limited with few options available.

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Restaurant

Rooftop space offers amazing city views with both outdoor seating and a fire pit. Atmosphere feels lively and crowded with a DJ playing excellent music. Crowd enjoys watching games and sunsets while sipping on curated cocktails.

Bartenders show encyclopedic knowledge and offer spot-on recommendations. Cocktails come out perfectly crafted and pair well with the crisp outdoor breeze.

Rooftop offers a crisp breeze and well crafted cocktails that set a great mood. Music, scenery, and atmosphere combine for a relaxed date night vibe.

People are saying

"The views here are absolutely gorgeous and breathtaking."

"The food here looked and smelled great."

"It's the perfect date spot with a fabulous view and electric atmosphere."

Good to know

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The rooftop is open from 4 PM to 1 AM Monday-Thursday, 4 PM to 2 AM Friday-Saturday, and 4 PM to 12 AM Sunday.

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A DJ plays every Friday and Saturday from 9 PM until close.

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Arriving before 10 PM helps avoid crowds and cover fees.

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Drury Plaza Hotel St. Louis At The Arch image 1

Hotel offers spacious rooms with views of the Arch and Mississippi River and a historic, elegant ambiance. Amenities include free breakfast and evening snacks, a pool, and hot tubs, creating a relaxed atmosphere. The rooftop balcony and lobby add distinctive charm, while noise levels vary by floor.

Evening happy hours feature three free cocktails per adult and a variety of great cocktail options. Dinner includes three free mixed drinks alongside snacks.

Offers a perfect atmosphere for couples with a cozy and relaxed vibe. Close proximity to the Enterprise Center makes it convenient for date activities.

People are saying

"The breakfast spread here is well executed and full of options."

"The staff here makes Date Spots feel so welcoming and friendly."

"You get three free cocktails each night with dinner snacks."

Good to know

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The hotel offers complimentary adult beverages and snacks from 5:30 to 7:00 PM every night.

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Parking at the hotel costs $26 per day.

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Breakfast is included with your stay and features a buffet-style setup.

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Dining room offers an intimate setting with low lighting and fine dining decor. Atmosphere feels warm and inviting despite proximity to a smoking casino. Steaks and cocktails receive consistent praise for quality and flavor.

Cocktails feature excellent quality and include a champagne cocktail that sneaks up on you. The Mother's Day cocktail stands out as impressive.

Special attention from staff creates a memorable atmosphere for couples. Dishes like filet with lobster tail stand out, and thoughtful gestures like a complimentary dessert and a photo add to the experience.

People are saying

"I found the food here to be amazing and delicious."

"The staff here makes your date night feel extra special."

"The service here is amazing; our server was so attentive and knowledgeable."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended to secure a table, especially on weekends.

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Valet parking is available, but there's also a garage across the street.

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Happy hour features a unique menu with discounted items from 4-6pm.

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Bar and grill combines live music with an adult arcade and multiple TVs for sports viewing. Atmosphere is loud and chilly, with patrons often bundled up indoors. Seating includes a patio and private lounge areas, though some spots have obstructed views due to pillars.

Cocktails here come with reasonable prices and solid quality. The Long Day cocktail stands out as a delicious option.

Outdoor seating offers a nice spot for lunch dates on sunny days. The bar features a friendly bartender and caramel apple martinis that stand out. It suits casual dates with sports viewing and sandwiches.

People are saying

"I thought the food here was great."

"The food here is pretty good for Date Spots."

"I enjoyed the cocktails; they were delicious."

Good to know

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Happy hour runs from 4-7pm on weekdays with discounted drinks.

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Brunch on weekends features buy one get one free mimosas.

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The kitchen stays open until 1am on Friday nights.

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American restaurant

Large indoor and outdoor spaces offer breathtaking views of the arch and hotel pool, with a rooftop patio featuring a pool and stand-up bar. Atmosphere combines beautiful ambience with a great vibe, attracting those who appreciate scenic dining and lively settings.

Ember and Core cocktails stand out for their flavor. Staff quickly replace drinks when needed, ensuring better options.

Cocktails start the evening, followed by dinner featuring perfectly cooked filet mignon and steak Wellington. The setting suits celebrating special occasions like anniversaries.

People are saying

"The Beef Wellington was so tender, like butter."

"The Beef Wellington here is a must-try for Date Spots."

"The cocktails here were excellent and elevated my evening."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended at least 24 hours in advance for dinner service.

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The restaurant offers a late-night happy hour menu after 10pm.

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There is free enclosed parking available with security near the hotel.

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Restaurant

Whiskey room with moody lighting and shelves lined with whiskeys and bourbons creates an intimate, cozy atmosphere. Glass walls offer views of Ball Park Village, blending indoor and outdoor seating with fireplaces and sitting nooks. Upscale vibe suits pre-game gatherings and private tastings.

Craft cocktails come beautifully made and taste great. Drinks stay consistently on point with a variety that pairs well with appetizers and entrรฉes.

Upscale vibes and seasoned steak create a solid dinner date setting. Drinks and breakfast options add variety for couples.

People are saying

"The food here just melts in your mouth."

"The food at these Date Spots is excellent, especially the shrimp and steak."

"The cocktails here are beautifully crafted and taste great."

Good to know

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Reservations are required for the Whiskey Room with a $1,200 minimum spend.

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Parking is easy on non-baseball game days, making visits more enjoyable.

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Expect high prices that may not match the quality of food and service.

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