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A place for a drink that feels intimate enough for a conversation, not just a loud backdrop for a first date.

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Thai restaurant

Modern space blends elegant decor with intimate mood lighting and backlit signs evoking Bangkok neighborhoods. Atmosphere balances warmth and vibrancy, with friendly energy and lively music. Cocktails feature Thai-inspired twists, complementing authentic dishes with customizable spice levels.

Signature cocktails stand out with delicious flavors and the bar offers solid service throughout. The atmosphere supports a focused cocktail experience.

Juicy chicken breast in the Pad See Ew stands out alongside creative, strong cocktails that come beautifully presented. The spot suits date nights with fun drinks and a lively vibe for groups too.

People are saying

"The Thai Food here is fantastic, attentive, and always on top of the table."

"The Thai food here is thoughtful, delicious, and the best in the city."

"The cocktails at the bar are incredible and delicious."

Good to know

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All dishes containing nuts are clearly labeled for allergy accommodations.

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Reservations are not required, making it easy for walk-ins.

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The restaurant serves a mix of Bangkok street food and NYC fusion dishes.

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Restaurant

Piano bar with live music creates an intimate, upscale atmosphere. Interior design blends sophistication and coziness, attracting a mature crowd. Energy stays relaxed, perfect for romantic nights or classy drinks.

Cozy and elegant with an old-world charm, the bar offers unique drinks and an intimate atmosphere. Live piano music adds to the warm and inviting vibe.

Beautiful setting with great live music creates a special atmosphere for date nights. It suits a classy evening out or after work drinks.

People are saying

"The live music here is fantastic and really enhances the ambiance."

"The drinks here are delicious, creative, and perfectly balanced."

"The bar's ambiance is intimate, cozy, and full of good energy."

Good to know

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Happy hour specials are available daily from 4pm to 7pm.

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Reservations are recommended for weekend dining to avoid long waits.

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The venue hosts live music every Friday and Saturday night.

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Rooftop bar lounge offers city views and a romantic, secluded atmosphere with elegant decor and charming outdoor patio. Lighting and music create a relaxing vibe early on, shifting to a lively spirit reflecting midtown energy. Cocktails feature creative, varied mixes, complemented by upscale small bites like caviar and sliders.

Rooftop bar lounge offers an amazing atmosphere with expert cocktail service from Ben, who keeps things easygoing.

Ideal for a cool date or to mingle, the setting suits date nights and special occasions well.

People are saying

"I found the cocktails here to be spectacular and unreal."

"The cocktails here are expertly crafted and full of flavor."

"This place is gorgeous and perfect for date nights."

Good to know

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The cocktail lounge is conveniently located close to Columbus Circle and is easy to get to.

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Cocktail prices at Dear Irving on Broadway are accessible.

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Going early to Dear Irving makes the experience relaxing and not bustling.

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French restaurant

Belle Époque building houses a Parisian bistro style restaurant with a beautiful bar and huge outdoor seating area sheltered from rain. The atmosphere feels classy and cozy, enhanced by jazz music and elegant decor. The pub room offers a comfortable, fun space for casual meals without reservations.

Sean behind the bar creates a standout experience. Sitting at the bar works well even without a reservation, making it a flexible spot for celebrations like birthdays.

The gallery with the arched skylight and heated floor sets a cozy, elegant mood for a date night. Menu options like escargot, salmon, and steak frites suit a fancy dinner or anniversary celebration.

People are saying

"The French food here is served in a gorgeous, grand interior."

"You have to see Sean at the bar; his absinthe presentation is amazing."

"The cocktails here are inventive, balanced, and perfectly crafted."

Good to know

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Happy hour is available at this bar, which is hard to find in NYC these days.

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The happy hour at Bench offers great prices.

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You should make reservations at La Grande Boucherie because they are super packed.

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Steak house offers understated sophistication with handcrafted chandeliers and polished mahogany tables creating a timeless charm. Atmosphere stays calm and hospitable with live music and occasional fire performances adding energy. Staff often celebrate special occasions with singing and desserts, enhancing a welcoming vibe.

Exemplary service stands out with helpful bartenders like Bojana and Boydilla who engage well with guests. The bar offers excellent drinks and a welcoming vibe right from the door.

Perfect for a city date night with a great location and attentive service from Angel and Albert. The atmosphere supports memorable moments and encourages repeat visits.

People are saying

"I thought the steaks here were the best I've ever had."

"The steaks here are the best I've ever had for a date spot."

"The bar staff here are fantastic and make great drinks."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended due to high demand.

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The pre-theater menu offers 3 courses for an unbeatable price of 50 dollars.

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The happy hour lasts until 7 PM with discounted drinks.

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Cocktail bar

Irish pub blends cozy atmosphere with a classy cocktail bar vibe and lively sports entertainment. Intimate design suits cute date nights and group gatherings. Upstairs speakeasy adds a unique twist to the experience.

Offers a unique mix of sports entertainment and a classy cocktail bar vibe. Space can be reserved for groups, making it suitable for gatherings.

Offers a cozy atmosphere ideal for a cute date night. Pairs well with nearby cultural visits like the MoMa for a full evening out.

People are saying

"The bar staff here are so friendly and attentive."

"The cocktails here are amazing and unique."

"The cocktails here are perfectly crafted and balanced."

Good to know

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Martini Mondays offer $10 martinis all night long.

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The girl dinner special includes bottomless drinks for 90 minutes with a main dish or two appetizers.

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Reservations for Galentine's dinner cost $30 per person for 90 minutes of drinks with food purchase.

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French restaurant

Upscale French decor and live jazz music create a lively, classy vibe. The bar's raw bar with Little Neck Clams offers a laid-back spot for drinks or watching the game. Intimate dates shine with exquisite food and private second-floor seating.

Bar offers a laid-back and welcoming atmosphere with a beautiful bar area and a gorgeous staircase leading to second-floor seating. It suits intimate dates or watching the game, featuring a raw bar with delicious Little Neck Clams.

Exquisite food and a romantic atmosphere create a perfect setting for an intimate date. The bar offers a cozy spot to hang out or watch the game, making it versatile for different date vibes.

People are saying

"The food here is incredible, juicy, and tasty."

"The food here is spectacular, truly top-notch."

"Kevin at the bar was the perfect host."

Good to know

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Happy hour starts at 3:30 PM with great drink specials.

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Live music occurs every Thursday and Saturday night.

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The kitchen closes ten minutes after a 9:30 PM reservation.

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Live jazz music fills a spacious bar with dim lighting and festive decor featuring cute mirrors and a European underground vibe in the basement. The atmosphere stays lively yet comfortable, attracting groups who enjoy classic cocktails served in unique teapots. Seating accommodates both small and large parties, creating a cozy but energetic setting.

Friendly staff offer good drink recommendations and share the bar's history clearly. The bar features a comfy interior with plenty of seating and amazing barkeepers.

Romantic ambiance sets a perfect tone for a date. The decor gives off first date vibes and suits both intimate and casual meetings.

People are saying

"The cocktails here are really good and tasty."

"The bartender Josiah gave me excellent hospitality at the bar."

"The drinks here are delicious and creatively made."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended for busy weekend brunches.

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Tipsy Tea is available daily from 3 to 6 PM for $35.

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Expect a $35 charge for bottomless brunch cocktails, in addition to food.

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Basement lounge channels speakeasy vibe with vintage decor and intimate niches for quiet conversation. Atmosphere shifts from peaceful and cozy to lively with live jazz and rock music. Patrons enjoy champagne-based cocktails and comfortable seating in a historic, retro setting.

An intimate, romantic subterranean speakeasy with a strong focus on Champagne and sparkling wine. The bar features live jazz music, dim lighting, velvet banquettes, and offers champagne flights alongside creative cocktails.

Dark, cozy, and intimate vibes create a romantic atmosphere ideal for date nights. Private niches offer quiet spots to relax and connect during special occasions or casual evenings.

People are saying

"The Champagne bar's intimate, dark vibe is perfect for date night."

"The bar's dark, cozy vibe makes it perfect for a date night."

"It's so dark and intimate, perfect for date night."

Good to know

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Happy hour is on Tuesdays from 4 PM to 8 PM.

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Wednesday is Jazz Night from 7:00-10:00.

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Flûte offers half off buy one get one free on Tuesdays.

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Cocktail bar

Speakeasy-style bar with detailed decor and a secret entrance creates a 1920s New York vibe. Loud music fills the space, making conversation difficult, especially at large tables suited for groups. Multiple bars and screens support a lively atmosphere with creative cocktails and a strong food menu.

An underground bar with a prohibition vibe offers a gorgeous ambiance that feels a step above typical Midtown spots. The bar itself is lovely and well-crafted.

Super cute atmosphere with live jazz sets a cozy mood for dates. Noise levels can get high, sometimes making it hard to hear across the table.

People are saying

"This speakeasy has an amazing vibe with cool, detailed decor."

"The drinks here are really good and creative."

"The drinks here are amazing, making it a great spot for Date Spots."

Good to know

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Guests can enter the venue an hour before the event to set up decorations.

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The restaurant allows sharing of teapot cocktails among three people.

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Expect limited seating for large groups during dinner.

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Mediterranean restaurant

Mediterranean spot shines with vibrant art and a zen vibe perfect for dates and drinks. Bartenders like Eukarys craft excellent cocktails including a unique fruit and date vodka. Try the Crispy Roasted Lamb Neck with freekeh and dates for a memorable meal.

Excellent cocktails and attentive bartenders like Eukarys and Olex create a solid bar experience. Seating at the bar is accessible through Open Table, with quick accommodation to more comfortable spots nearby.

Specialty drinks include a fruit, date, and orange vodka liquor. The Crispy Roasted Lamb Neck entree comes with freekeh, dates, and walnuts. Silan dessert features date syrup without preservatives.

People are saying

"The Mediterranean platter was well-prepared and interesting."

"The food here is amazing, especially the desserts."

"The bartender Olex was so attentive and helpful."

Good to know

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The private rooms upstairs are available for birthdays or events.

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Happy hour runs from 4-7pm on weekdays with half-price appetizers.

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The kitchen closes at 3:35 PM and reopens at 5 PM.

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Bar and grill offers live comedy and a chill vibe perfect for dates. Intimate lounge with friendly staff serves great drinks at good prices. Nostalgic decor adds character while major sports play for fun meetups.

An intimate lounge area hosts shows with great service and a friendly staff. The bar offers good prices and shows all major sports, creating a welcoming spot for meetups before events.

A chill spot for dates with a fun vibe and a bartender who shares local insights to keep the night interesting.

People are saying

"The food here is great and reasonably priced."

"The bar staff here is so friendly and welcoming."

"I loved the amazing donuts and creative cocktails here."

Good to know

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Happy hour runs from 4-7pm on weekdays with great drink specials.

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Open-Mic night occurs every Saturday at 7 PM and 9 PM.

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Tickets for comedy shows cost $10, with a two-drink minimum per person.

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Bar and lounge combine bustling front bar with a wood-paneled back lounge featuring a cozy fireplace and unique artwork. Loud, energetic music fills the space, creating a lively atmosphere that stays packed. Outdoor seating offers a spot for cigar smoking and groups gather in the cool backroom.

Great music and a chill staff create a relaxed vibe. The bar offers late-night kitchen service with good burgers, tacos, and cake, plus friendly, outstanding service.

Comfortable service sets a relaxed tone, making it easy to connect. The spot suits both dates and casual after-work hangs.

People are saying

"The bartenders here, Maritza and Angel, made me feel so welcome."

"It's a great late night spot for delicious food and good drinks."

"Justin's service made our Date Spots visit phenomenal and fun."

Good to know

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Happy hour is from 3-7pm, so arrive early to get a seat.

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Late night food options are available until 2am.

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Trivia night happens every Wednesday at 8pm.

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Mediterranean restaurant

Mediterranean restaurant with a blend of ancient Greek and modern design creates a warm, authentic atmosphere enhanced by live violin music and a cozy private room. The space feels chic and classy, inviting relaxed, intimate dining experiences. Strong cocktails and sophisticated wine selections complement the setting.

Bartenders show professionalism and offer warm hospitality. Alejandro crafts great cocktails with skill and care.

Perfect for a date night, this spot offers a great ambiance that suits special occasions and casual meals alike. It works well for both romantic evenings and group outings.

People are saying

"I had an awesome dinner; the space is beautiful and the food is amazing."

"The food and drinks here are amazing for date spots."

"Alejandro at the bar made great cocktails and provided excellent service."

Good to know

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White Olive has a performance every night.

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Guests may be seated in a makeshift area during events.

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The restaurant does not have a liquor license yet.

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Italian restaurant

Rooftop Italian restaurant offers stunning city views including St. Patrick’s Cathedral and Radio City Music Hall. Ambiance stays quiet and elegant, suitable for special occasions with both indoor and outdoor seating. Cocktails and food receive high praise, featuring standout dishes like truffle ravioli and branzino.

Setting on the 7th floor offers indoor and outdoor areas with an option to open up when warm. An outdoor bar complements the space, creating a great spot for dinner, reunions, or cocktails.

Great view and romantic atmosphere make it ideal for date nights. Attention to detail and presentation add to the special experience for any type of date or celebration.

People are saying

"The food here is delicious and flavorful."

"The martinis here are perfect and almost go down too easily."

"The bar service here is excellent, especially from Enri."

Good to know

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Reservations are not accepted until 9:30 PM.

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Lunch specials are available on weekdays until 2 PM for $40.

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Expect a $80 dinner cost per person for a five-star experience.

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Dark, intimate cigar lounge with excellent ventilation allows smoking without heavy smoke buildup. Live jazz music with a smooth, mellow singer creates a relaxed, sophisticated vibe reminiscent of a 1920s speakeasy. Spacious, elegant decor with comfortable seating supports socializing and unwinding.

A huge bar selection and live music create a lively atmosphere. The cigar lounge offers luxurious seating and a refined setting for enjoying cigars and cocktails.

Offers a secluded hideaway with an old New York vibe featuring a brass band and occasional birthday shout-outs during shows. The atmosphere includes some smoke but remains comfortable for both cigar and cigarette smokers.

People are saying

"It's a great place to smoke a cigar with a lovely atmosphere."

"The cigar lounge has a classic, dark ambiance with plush leather seating."

"The live music here is outstanding for Date Spots."

Good to know

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Sinatra night on Saturdays starts at 8:00pm and requires reservations.

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A cover charge of $40 per person applies for the Sinatra show.

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Expect a two-drink minimum for entry to the show.

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American restaurant

Semi-private rooms with high ceilings and gorgeous bar create a warm, buzzing atmosphere. Live piano music covers a wide range of genres, adding to the sophisticated vibe. Walls feature unique NYC-inspired murals that enhance the energetic setting.

Live entertainment at the piano bar adds a unique touch. Drinks are spectacular, complementing the lovely ambiance with high ceilings and a gorgeous bar.

Very vibey with a setting suited for date nights and special occasions like anniversaries. Offers a relaxed atmosphere for late dinners and intimate conversations.

People are saying

"The food here is amazing, full of flavor."

"The food here is terrific, especially the fresh guacamole."

"The bartender was pulled in many directions."

Good to know

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Happy Hour is from 3 PM to 6 PM on weekdays.

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The restaurant offers bottomless brunch on Sundays.

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Live music is featured on weekend evenings, typically jazz.

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Three floors plus a rooftop deck create a vibrant, festive atmosphere filled with loud music and a young, lively crowd. A DJ and bar dancer add to the energetic vibe, while colorful, edgy decor enhances the space. The setting encourages socializing despite the high noise level.

Attentive bartenders like Nina, Joey, and Jose keep the bar lively and responsive. Margaritas stand out as a highlight, and a dancer on the bar adds a unique touch with free shots.

Offers a relaxed spot for cocktails and dining, fitting for date nights or special occasions. Suitable for both intimate evenings and small group celebrations.

People are saying

"The cocktails were creative, balanced, and made with care."

"This bar has an amazing vibe and unforgettable drinks."

"The cocktails here are creative, balanced, and made with care."

Good to know

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Reservations are required to be seated at a table.

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The bottomless brunch is offered until 5PM on Saturdays and until 8PM on Sundays.

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Customers only have 1 hour to eat during busy times.

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Restaurant

Art deco style with tall ceilings and dim, romantic lighting creates a chic, stylish setting. The space feels lively and fashionable, often busy with a brasserie vibe and ambient chill music. Tables sit close together, contributing to a noisy atmosphere that can feel crowded.

Knowledgeable and friendly bar team delivers top notch service. Several items come highly recommended by Luciano at the bar, making it easy to stay for dinner after drinks.

Upscale vibe suits impressing a date or client. Pricey but not Michelin-starred expensive, fitting for a perfect date night.

People are saying

"The French onion soup and steak frites were delicious."

"The French fare here is rich in flavor and not overly expensive for Date Spots."

"The bar is beautiful and spectacular."

Good to know

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The lunch prix fixe is only $39, which is a great value.

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Winter Restaurant Week 2025 offers special pricing.

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The New Year’s party provided a great experience.

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Glimmering crystal chandeliers and opulent furnishings create a classy, intimate atmosphere with a sophisticated vibe. The lounge hosts a lively crowd in a setting that feels both peacefully sumptuous and buzzing. Elegant decor and a well-studied color scheme define the space's upscale character.

The bar features a gorgeous, swanky design on the 2nd floor with a luxurious lounge vibe. The Grand Salon offers an intimate and buzzing atmosphere filled with impressive art and sophisticated style.

Offers a girly fun vibe for hanging out with friends. The Grand Salon provides a setting suited for date nights.

People are saying

"The tea here feels so opulent in the stunning, elegant bar."

"The bar here is stunning and gorgeous."

"It's a beautiful place for date spots with gorgeous decor."

Good to know

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Afternoon tea is priced at $140 per person.

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Reservations are required for afternoon tea at least a day in advance.

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The bar opens at 4 PM.

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Black Iron Burger Theater District | Hamburger restaurant Bar image 1

Spacious sports bar with plentiful screens showing live games and a lively atmosphere fueled by harmonious music and enthusiastic fans. The bar area offers a social spot for drinks, featuring a top-tier playlist blending 80s rock and pop. The vibe balances energetic and chill, making it a popular hangout for sports enthusiasts.

Space works well for waiting in line with a sports bar vibe. The atmosphere and decoration feel cool and casual. Elias at the bar provides friendly, welcoming service.

Burgers stand out as a shared experience with staff splitting meals without asking. The setting offers an unparalleled vibe for fans, making it a unique spot for couples to enjoy together.

People are saying

"I thought the burgers looked fantastic and were very, very good."

"The bar staff here are fantastic and welcoming."

"You'll love the burgers and fries at these Date Spots."

Good to know

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Happy hour beers are available until 7 PM for 6 euros.

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The restaurant has a happy hour every day with great specials.

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The restaurant can get very crowded after shows, so arrive early.

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Cozy bar with velvet chairs and gold tables creates a classic, intimate vibe. Lighting from elegant lamps sets a warm, inviting atmosphere despite occasional loud music. Crowds gather for spectacular cocktails and comfortable seating, making it a lively yet personal spot.

A quiet, dark lounge atmosphere sets the mood with excellent cocktails crafted by true masters. The bar offers a well stocked selection and free appetizers, making it a cozy spot to sit and chat.

Comfortable couches and intimate seating sections create a cozy setting. The space suits a quiet, relaxed date night vibe.

People are saying

"I loved the variety of great cocktails here."

"I enjoyed the variety of cool and great cocktails."

"The cocktails here are amazing, truly masters at work."

Good to know

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Happy hour offers $1 grilled cheese and better cocktail prices.

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Reservations are recommended to avoid long wait times.

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The bar has only one restroom, which may lead to wait times.

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Ramen restaurant

Small space offers authentic Japanese bar culture with gorgeous decor and a unique anime-style cocktail menu. Upstairs bar feels cozy and lively, with bartender TK creating a creative experience. High-energy servers add a fun vibe perfect for lunch or dinner dates.

Upstairs bar seats quickly and offers a cozy atmosphere with gorgeous decor inspired by Japanese bar culture. Bartender TK handles a busy crowd with ease, creating a creative bar experience.

Lively, cozy atmosphere with high-energy servers creates a fun vibe for lunch or dinner dates. The setting is cute and attentive, making it easy to impress someone on a date night.

People are saying

"I considered this the best ramen I've had in New York."

"The ramen here is genuinely some of the better ramen I’ve tasted."

"The food here is amazing and delicious."

Good to know

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Expect a wait of 10-15 minutes for 2 people around dinner time.

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For 3-4 people, the wait can be closer to 15-25 minutes on weekends.

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You should get there early if it’s a busy time.

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Italian restaurant

Dining area sits underground with two-story high ceilings and a striking watercolor tapestry as a backdrop, creating an intimate and elegant atmosphere. Space separates dining and bar across two floors, fitting for dates, events, and casual hangouts. Lighting stays low and sound balances well, supporting a quiet, pleasant vibe.

Manolo at the bar serves great drinks and creates a positive vibe that welcomes everyone. The lounge area offers coffee and espresso, making it easy to relax with friends.

Dimly lit dining room creates a romantic atmosphere ideal for conversation. The setting suits a cozy date night or relaxed time with friends.

People are saying

"The pasta dishes here are consistently excellent and delicious."

"It's a perfect, cozy spot for a romantic date night."

"Manolo at the bar makes you feel welcome and offers great drink suggestions."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended for prime time on Saturday night as the dining room gets busy.

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You can secure a table without a reservation on a Thursday evening.

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If you have trouble with stairs, you may wish to inquire about elevator access.

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Pub offers a traditional Irish vibe with classic décor and plenty of TVs for sports fans. Atmosphere is loud and crowded, especially during lunch and events, creating a lively and energetic setting. Features include a pool table and outdoor seating, adding to the social environment.

A traditional Irish pub vibe fills the space with classic décor and a great selection of draft beers including Guinness and local brews. Friendly, attentive staff and bartenders named Sinead create a welcoming atmosphere alongside a menu featuring good Irish grills and pub food.

Friendly staff accommodate requests like showing sports games. Sharing buffalo wings, French onion soup, and a pint creates a casual, relaxed vibe for couples.

People are saying

"The bar staff here are super friendly and welcoming."

"They have a great selection of draft beers."

"The staff here are so welcoming and helpful for Date Spots."

Good to know

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Happy hour is available every day from 5 PM to 8 PM.

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The pub fills up to maximum capacity during happy hours.

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Karaoke nights are hosted regularly.

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Modern dining space offers an elegant and civilized atmosphere with beautiful lighting and decor overlooking a green courtyard oasis. The vibe ranges from chill and inviting to lively and chaotic on busy nights, with excellent cocktails and a casual yet sophisticated bar area.

The bar offers an excellent Manhattan cocktail and a lovely ambience. Service is consistently excellent, with a comfortable and well-situated seating area.

Drinks stand out with careful crafting and the fries get a lot of love. The spot suits special occasions like birthdays or dates with a partner.

People are saying

"The desserts here are thoughtful and effortlessly professional."

"The food at the Bar was unforgettable and excellent."

"The food here is delicious, especially the focaccia."

Good to know

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During Restaurant Week, the restaurant offers 2 courses for $45 or 3 courses for $60.

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Reservations should be made at least 2 weeks in advance, especially during restaurant week.

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The restaurant week menu is for lunch only, costing $45 for two courses and extra for dessert.

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