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Restaurant offers beachy vibes with live music at a volume that allows conversation. Decor includes surfboards and bicycles hanging from the ceiling, creating a chill atmosphere reminiscent of California. Tacos and margaritas stand out as popular choices among diners.

People are saying

"The food here is delicious and fantastic."

"The tacos and drinks here are outstanding for Date Spots."

"The seafood here is amazing, and the staff is so accommodating."

Good to know

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Happy hour runs from 4-7pm with great drink specials.

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Tacos are reasonably priced at around $5 each.

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Reservations are not required but recommended during peak hours.

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Painting studio blends step-by-step instructions with a bar serving food and drinks for a relaxed vibe. Couples love the creative date nights like "Starry Night." Walls show staff creations that inspire all guests.

Couples enjoy paint nights like "Starry Night" for a creative and engaging date. The setting works well for both small groups and pairs looking for a unique night out.

People are saying

"The instructors here make the fun activities so easy and engaging."

"The art instructors here are so fun and full of energy."

"The instructors here are so helpful and knowledgeable for Date Spots."

Good to know

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Reservations are required for special events like paint your pet night.

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The venue has a no cancel policy for classes with fewer than four sign-ups.

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All painting supplies are included in the session price.

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Big, clean boat offers a comfortable fishing experience with a friendly atmosphere and lively reggae music. Couples enjoy catching more fish than usual together. Crew support and ample space make it great for all ages.

Fishing here offers a chance to catch more fish than usual, making it a solid choice for couples. The trip welcomes adults, children, and couples who enjoy fishing together.

People are saying

"The crew's outstanding, always helping you find fish."

"It's so Kid Friendly; my son caught his first fish here!"

"The captain was outstanding and attentive to all our needs."

Good to know

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Parking is paid through the town, even for local residents.

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The trip includes bait, rigs, and sinkers at no extra cost.

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Expect to catch a variety of fish, including porgies and seabass.

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Performing arts theater

Small, historic theater creates an intimate vibe with beautiful acoustics and period-style costumes. Live pianist and small orchestra add warmth, perfect for cozy date nights. Upstairs and downstairs bars offer comfy seating, boosting the social atmosphere.

Theatre offers a cozy setting for couples with shows like Pride and Prejudice and Brighton Beach Memoirs. It suits both date nights and family outings.

People are saying

"The acting in these performing arts shows is always impressive."

"I loved taking my children to the enjoyable kid-friendly shows here."

"The shows here are great, making it a top-notch date spot."

Good to know

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Tickets are priced affordably, typically around $45 for most shows.

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Parking is conveniently located just one block away from the theater.

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Bring cash for snacks and drinks, as cards may not be accepted.

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Outdoor dining on a waterside deck offers stunning marina views and a breezy vibe. Steaks like the Porterhouse shine for a memorable date night. Live music and DJ sets add lively energy, perfect for drinks and dancing.

Steaks like the Porterhouse cooked to perfection create a memorable meal. Sharing dishes like a feta salad adds a fresh touch to the night.

People are saying

"The food here is great, and the service is attentive."

"The staff here is so attentive and makes you feel welcomed."

"The service here makes it a great spot for a date."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended for special events like New Year's Eve.

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Parking is easy and available near the restaurant.

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Expect limited dessert options; only three crรจme brรปlรฉes were available on a Monday night.

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American restaurant

Small space with nostalgic ambiance and excellent sound system creates a lively mood. Standout chicken sandwich and best pretzel make food memorable. Cozy booths and attentive staff ensure a great date spot experience.

Incredible food sets the tone with a standout chicken sandwich and the best pretzel around. Cocktails and brunch options like a Belgian waffle add variety, while the staff offers attentive service even on busy nights.

People are saying

"I thought the cocktails were really tasty and balanced."

"The burgers here are perfectly cooked, juicy, and delicious."

"The Mediterranean platter at these Date Spots is a nice, shareable assortment."

Good to know

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Expect a 40-minute wait during busy dinner hours.

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Gift cards are not accepted due to new ownership.

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The menu features a variety of locally sourced food options.

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Bar & grill

Loud, lively sports bar with multiple TVs and a friendly crowd near the bar. Cozy interior serves a buttery wing sauce that stands out. Later dinners offer a burger with Swiss cheese and pastrami, perfect for a relaxed birthday vibe.

Later dinners feature a burger with Swiss cheese and pastrami that looks and tastes great. Drinks accompany the meal well for a relaxed birthday dinner vibe.

People are saying

"The food here is always great and delicious."

"The bar food here is unpretentious and amazing."

"The food here is amazing, especially the perfectly cooked burger."

Good to know

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Happy hour drinks are half price, making it a popular time to visit.

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Reservations are recommended as the place gets busy, especially on weekends.

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Parking can be difficult to find on busy nights, so plan ahead.

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Mexican restaurant

Open space with harbor views and a loft ceiling creates a lively vibe. Affordable plates like tacos and tostones make sharing easy for dates. Vibrant energy and young crowd suit parties and gatherings perfectly.

Affordable plates like a burrito, tostones, and tacos make sharing easy. Drinks include martinis and Jarritos, fitting for a casual afternoon date.

People are saying

"I loved the tacos and margaritas here."

"They handled our party with attentive ease."

"The food here is so tasty, it's perfect for Date Spots."

Good to know

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Taco Tuesday offers half-off tacos and $5 margaritas.

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Happy hour features $5 margaritas and runs from 4-7pm on weekdays.

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The restaurant offers the full menu during brunch, which is uncommon in the area.

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Seafood restaurant

Upscale nautical decor and fresh fish market set a lively, casual scene with two bars. Friendly bartenders make it a great date spot with sweet treats like creme brulee for special moments. Seating varies from booths to elevated spots offering varied views.

Friendly, attentive bartenders create a welcoming atmosphere for couples dining at the bar. Desserts like creme brulee add a sweet touch to special occasions such as anniversaries and birthdays.

People are saying

"I thought the sushi here was the best in the area."

"I found the lobster here to be spectacular and perfectly done."

"The seafood here is amazing, especially the shrimp scampi."

Good to know

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Parking can be tricky, especially during busy times.

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There is a paid parking lot available nearby.

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Happy Hour offers discounts on drinks and appetizers.

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Small pub with old school tavern appeal offers a chill vibe and friendly crowd. Great lobsters make it a cool date spot. Pool table and jukebox add fun, while affordable food and drinks keep locals coming back.

A cool spot for dates with great lobsters that stand out. Couples find it worth trying after casual visits.

People are saying

"The food here is pretty good and great for the price."

"I thought the lobster was great and the prices were reasonable."

"The food here is great, especially the lobster."

Good to know

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Happy hour runs from 4-7pm with great drink deals and appetizers.

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Tara Inn is cash only; an ATM on-site charges $3 per transaction.

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Food is available until 3am, perfect for late-night cravings.

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