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Japanese food date spots

A meal of Japanese food sets a thoughtful tone for an evening spent with someone else.

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Japanese restaurant

Small, intimate Japanese restaurant with upscale sushi and weekly changing menu based on fresh, seasonal ingredients. Atmosphere is lively yet cozy, suited for romantic evenings or special occasions. Bar seating offers a chef's show and sake pairings enhance the dining experience.

Sushi here stands out for its freshness and unique selection not commonly found elsewhere. The Nigiri sampler and A5 beef nigiri offer distinct flavors, with options for those avoiding raw fish.

Romantic ambience sets the tone for a date night or special outing. Complimentary sake shots add a thoughtful touch to celebrations.

People are saying

"The Japanese food here is outstanding, especially the fresh sushi and creative rolls."

"The seafood here is so fresh, it just melts in your mouth."

"This is one of the best Japanese Date Spots for authentic, fresh sushi."

Good to know

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Reservations for the omakase should be made two weeks in advance.

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The tasting menu is available on Sundays with only 11 seats per session.

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Sessions for the tasting menu start at 5 pm and 7:30 pm.

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Sushi restaurant

Small, intimate omakase bar blends traditional edomae style with 90's rap music for a unique dining vibe. Atmosphere stays laid-back and welcoming, balancing quiet moments with casual energy. Fish flown from Japan ensures exceptionally fresh sushi paired with thoughtful sake and beer selections.

Sushi here features wildly fresh, high-quality cuts that let the fish speak for itself. The omakase offers a curated, thoughtful experience with seasonal sashimi like scallops, bigeye tuna, and Spanish toro, all served in a relaxed yet refined ambiance.

Couples enjoy a Quick Omakase Experience with easy reservations. The setting suits special occasions like birthdays, offering a memorable dining atmosphere.

People are saying

"The fish here is so fresh, it's unlike anything I've had."

"The Japanese Food omakase experience here is amazing and fun."

"The omakase experience here is truly special."

Good to know

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They have only 2 seatings per night at 5:30 PM and 7:30 PM.

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Reservations are necessary due to limited seating availability.

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The omakase experience lasts about three hours.

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Sushi restaurant

Small sushi restaurant with an intimate, elevated casual atmosphere and dark, cozy lighting. Central sushi bar surrounded by limited table seating creates a warm, inviting vibe where chefs prepare fresh, high-quality fish. Offers a notable sake selection enhancing the dining experience.

Sushi here features fresh, high-quality fish that melts in your mouth. The omakase dinner offers a variety of delicious nigiri, including specialties like orange toro and truffle hamachi.

Omakase dinners offer a variety of delicious dishes that make for a special meal. Highlights include kama toro and truffle hamachi, with options like chowder and miso soup adding to the experience.

People are saying

"The fish here is so fresh and melts in your mouth."

"The Japanese food here has incredibly fresh, melt-in-your-mouth fish."

"The sushi and nigiri here are amazing, especially the truffle hamachi."

Good to know

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Reservations are highly recommended due to the busy location with a parking lot that fills up quickly.

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The restaurant has limited table seating but plenty of counter seating available.

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Parking can be challenging due to multiple restaurants in the plaza.

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Comedy club

Small venue with an Alice in Wonderland theme creates an intimate atmosphere where every seat feels close to the action. Professional improv keeps the crowd engaged and the energy fun without crossing lines. Full bar and kitchen offer creative cocktails and distinctive food alongside strong comedy acts.

Chicken katsu stands out with crispy tenders served hot and fresh. The menu pairs these with fries and offers a boozeless nitro espresso martini as a drink option.

Big laughs fill a cozy, memorable environment perfect for a date night. Shows feature local comics and touring comedians with affordable tickets that keep the mood light and fun.

People are saying

"The food here is amazing and the staff is friendly."

"The staff here is so friendly and welcoming for Date Spots."

"The chicken katsu tenders here are surprisingly delicious."

Good to know

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There is free parking available on site.

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Mic Drop Comedy does not require a food or drink minimum.

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Doors open at 9 PM, but seating may be delayed.

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Authentic Japanese restaurant

Small, intimate space with traditional Japanese decor and private horigotatsu rooms creates a cozy, authentic izakaya atmosphere. Lighting is soft and soothing, enhancing a relaxing vibe that transports diners to Japan. Reservation is common to secure private seating, distinguishing it from typical sushi spots.

Sushi features subtle finishes like light charring and simple marinades that highlight nuanced flavors. Hot dishes such as tempura shrimp, sukiyaki, and shabu shabu offer authentic, fresh tastes in a cozy izakaya setting.

Celebrations like anniversaries and birthdays happen here with small groups. Arriving at opening means seating without a reservation and prompt service.

People are saying

"The nabiyaki udon was amazing."

"The Japanese food here, especially the sushi, is outstanding with unbelievably fresh fish."

"The food here is amazing, truly high quality."

Good to know

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Reservations are almost a must due to the restaurant's small size.

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Expect a 90-minute dining limit, which may feel rushed.

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Parking can be challenging; arrive early to secure a spot.

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Cafe blends Japanese and Taiwanese culture with a modern, clean design and plenty of sunlight. Atmosphere feels relaxed and family-friendly, welcoming for chill hangouts. Popular spot offers creative drink flavors and snacks with a focus on quality and detail.

Nori fish dishes stand out with crispy fried fish and a strong nori flavor. The nori fish sandwich pairs well with a bit of acidity to balance the fat and sauce. Bento options include dark meat popcorn chicken.

Seating fills up quickly, making it tough to find a spot during busy times. The place has a cozy vibe that draws couples in for intimate conversations.

People are saying

"The blueberry matcha here is incredible and balanced."

"I loved the food and boba drinks here; it's a great spot for dates."

"The nori fish sandwich is a must-try Japanese Food."

Good to know

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The food is available only during limited hours at the moment.

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Weekends in the evening can get crowded, so arrive early to avoid the crowd.

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There are few tables outside, and limited seating inside.

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Ramen restaurant offers traditional sushi bar seating and a clean, peaceful atmosphere with authentic Japanese vibes. The place draws a steady crowd with no wait times and ample parking. It stands out for highly customizable ramen options and a quiet, welcoming environment.

Ramen here stands out for its super flavorful broth that stays light, with highlights like the spicy Tan Tan Ramen and shoyu ramen. Tonkatsu with chashu pork and pan-fried gyoza match authentic Japanese quality.

Ramen options include a Tan Tan ramen that can be adjusted for saltiness and a miso ramen liked by many. The Tan Tan ramen stands out as a favorite choice for couples.

People are saying

"The ramen broth here is so rich and flavorful."

"The ramen here has such flavorful broth and perfectly chewy noodles."

"The ramen here is so rich and delicious, perfect for Date Spots."

Good to know

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The restaurant offers a summer special for cold ramen, ending on 08/31.

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Toppings are extra, costing at least $2 each.

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Parking is easy and plentiful.

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Japanese restaurant

Japandi design and Japanese paintings create a home-style atmosphere with quiet traditional music enhancing calmness. Seating is indoors only, and the vibe is casual yet suitable for a special date. A serve-your-own spice station allows customization, adding a unique touch to the dining experience.

Authentic Japanese curry stands out with crispy katsu that is neither dry nor oily. The ajitama egg adds a rich touch, and the tonkatsu curry ranks as a top example of the style.

Casual but nice ambiance fits a special date. Mixed vegetables like carrots, potatoes, and broccoli add a simple touch to meals.

People are saying

"This Japanese food is the best I've had, so delicious and savory."

"The curry here is fruity and delicious."

"The curry here is amazing, with good flavor and savory depth."

Good to know

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The restaurant can get crowded, so consider a to-go order during peak hours.

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The Curry Club offers a $14 deal on curry rice topped with different meats on weekdays.

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Expect wait times of 40 to 60 minutes for sit-down meals during busy hours.

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Spacious sushi restaurant with well spaced tables and large TV screens showing cultural and sports content. Atmosphere stays pleasant and chill with moderate music volume, supporting easy conversation. The vibe blends a modern, clean style with a fun anime theme, welcoming groups of all sizes.

Unlimited sashimi and a solid nigiri selection stand out here. The sushi is fresh with plenty of variety and good quality throughout.

Couples enjoy a welcoming atmosphere with attentive and inclusive service. The setting suits special occasions like birthdays and anniversaries.

People are saying

"The bottomless sushi here is delicious and satisfying."

"I found the all-you-can-eat sushi here to be worth it."

"The Date Spots here have delicious food, especially the fresh fish."

Good to know

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The all-you-can-eat option costs $30, offering a wide variety of sushi.

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Lunch service does not include a menu on weekends or holidays.

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Sushi orders come in full rolls of 8 pieces, providing good value.

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Asian restaurant

Small space with bright, clean interior and relaxing music creates a warm, casual atmosphere. The vibe is quiet and pleasant, making it feel cozy and inviting. The setting stands out for its Studio Ghibli-like ambiance and neat decor.

Ramen here features tonkotsu broth with well-prepared pork and a spicy miso option. Japanese curry dishes like chicken katsu curry and pork katsu curry offer rich, balanced flavors that stand out.

Offers a $10 black garlic ramen special that draws couples in. Regulars enjoy sharing dishes like kimchi fried rice in a cozy setting.

People are saying

"The Japanese food, especially the ramen, is delicious and affordable."

"The pork cutlet curry rice was delicious, with a savory and sweet gravy."

"You'll find yummy ramen and curry for your next Date Spot."

Good to know

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They had specials for the opening, including $10 tonkotsu ramen.

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During happy hour, Monsta Ramen Curry offered $3 beers.

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The restaurant offers the option to order with the server or scan a QR code to order online for a discounted price on certain items.

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Japanese restaurant

Small dining area combines group tables and bars with a casual, intimate vibe. Loud hip-hop music contrasts with Japanese greetings and authentic food presentation. Electronic tablet ordering and live sports broadcasts add a modern, lively touch.

Ramen stands out with its spicy garlic pork bone broth and authentic noodles. Yakitori cooks over Binchotan charcoal deliver a genuine izakaya feel with solid service and no fusion twists.

Casual dinners offer a relaxed vibe with dishes that appeal to couples. The atmosphere feels authentic, matching overseas experiences, and ramen stands out as a favorite choice.

People are saying

"The food here is great and reminds me of Japan."

"The ramen here is flavorful and made just right."

"It's the perfect spot for date nights, with intimate vibes matching Japan."

Good to know

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Yakyudori has a ramen eating challenge; finish in 2 minutes to get it for free.

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If the Padres win, enjoy a shot for just $0.01.

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Happy hour specials are available, offering discounts on drinks and appetizers.

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Asian restaurant

Asian restaurant offers a cozy atmosphere with a retro-inspired decor and great music. The space feels clean and inviting, attracting a busy crowd. Ordering and payment happen upfront, creating a straightforward dining flow.

Ramen here stands out with its rich and savory broth and perfectly cooked noodles. The Spicy Deluxe Paiko Ramen offers a crispy breaded chicken paired with a thick, flavorful broth that balances heat and savoriness well.

Small skewers and hearty ramen dishes like the spicy deluxe paiko create a casual, quick dining vibe. Some dishes like curry udon may not suit every taste, so choices vary.

People are saying

"The ramen broth here is rich, savory, and truly the soul of the dish."

"The ramen broth here is so rich and savory, it feels like a hug."

"The ramen here is the best I ever had."

Good to know

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Customers order themselves through their phones using a QR code on each table.

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Prepaying for food is common here, which is unusual for sit-down restaurants.

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Parking is challenging around the area, so plan accordingly.

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Sushi restaurant

Lively sushi house with casual local vibe and loud indoor seating that challenges conversation. Multiple seating areas include a shaded outdoor space with casual Japanese decor and a bar area popular for watching sports. Offers affordable sushi with fresh options and generous portions.

Sushi here is fresh and offers unique rolls with Mexican flavors like lemon, cilantro, mango, and tajin. Prices stay affordable while delivering consistently good taste.

An inviting interior with a bar sets a relaxed mood for dates. The menu features Baja California rolls and spicy tuna poppers that add a flavorful touch.

People are saying

"I thought the Japanese food here was delicious and inexpensive."

"I found this to be an awesome spot for sushi dates."

"The service here is so friendly and swift."

Good to know

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Sushi Deli 3 has a 90-minute seating limit.

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Expect a 30-minute wait during peak dinner hours.

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Parking is limited and may require a short walk.

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Japanese curry restaurant offers cozy, inviting atmosphere that closely resembles locations in Japan, with franchise-style seating including a bar for single diners. The space feels cramped during busy times but maintains a clean, well-maintained interior that helps guests forget the outside surroundings.

Japanese curry stands out with juicy pork cutlet and a rich egg omelette topping. Chicken cutlet curry, udon, and naan bread pair well to soak up the flavorful sauce.

A great spot for a day date with a cozy vibe. The menu features Japanese curry with options like chicken cutlet with cheese that appeal to couples trying something new.

People are saying

"This Japanese-style curry is the most authentic I've had."

"This Japanese food is so delicious and flavorful."

"I loved the chicken cutlet curry here; it's a great date spot."

Good to know

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Expect a 45-minute wait time during peak lunch hours.

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Parking can be a challenge due to limited space in the shopping complex.

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Reservations are not accepted, so arrive early to avoid long lines.

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Dessert shop

Small cafe offers matcha-focused menu with self-order kiosks and outdoor seating. Atmosphere feels cozy and welcoming, attracting young people and families who enjoy relaxing over soft serve and drinks. Space fills up during busy times but maintains a calm vibe suitable for casual breaks.

Tempura comes out golden and crisp, with shrimp that melts in your mouth. The ramen selection is broad, including a vegetarian option clearly labeled. Mochi tends to be hard rather than soft.

Sharing an iced matcha latte with cheese foam and soft serve ice cream like matcha and ube works well for couples. Ordering both a cup and a cone lets partners enjoy different textures together.

People are saying

"I thought the matcha ice cream had good flavor."

"The matcha soft serve is exquisitely smooth and rich."

"I found the matcha latte here to be rich, smooth, and perfectly balanced."

Good to know

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Ordering is done at a tablet kiosk, and you wait for your number to be called.

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The cafe does not accept cash; only card payments are allowed.

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Expect long wait times, especially on weekends when the cafe gets very busy.

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Ramen restaurant

Small, cramped space with authentic Japanese style and checklist order forms on tables. Atmosphere includes loud ambient music and noticeable cigar smoke odor from nearby businesses. Busy environment that fills quickly, requiring early arrival or reservation.

Tonkotsu ramen stands out with rich, flavorful broth and tender noodles. The menu also includes gyoza and fried chicken, paired well with ramunรฉ soda for a classic Japanese meal.

Tender, moist, and crispy karage stands out as a flavorful dish. Rich, well-balanced broth complements ramen options like Ajitama Tonkotsu and Chashu To jitsu, creating a memorable dining experience.

People are saying

"The ramen broth here is so rich and savory."

"I thought the Japanese food, especially the ramen, was the best I've ever had."

"The ramen here has a rich, flavorful broth and perfect noodles."

Good to know

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Reservations are highly recommended to avoid long wait times.

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The restaurant closes from 2 to 5 PM, so plan accordingly.

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Expect a long wait, especially if you arrive after 2 PM.

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Japanese restaurant

Indoor and outdoor seating includes a dog-friendly patio and an open kitchen where food preparation is visible. Atmosphere feels cozy and traditional with quiet energy and friendly, quick service. Menu offers inexpensive, filling Japanese meals with a variety of bentos, sushi, and rolls.

Menu includes a wide range of items from bentos to sushi to rolls. Fried gyozas and freshly grilled teriyaki chicken stand out, with the chicken having a perfect char and balanced sauce. Chicken Katsu and curry also feature as notable dishes.

Sushi and bento options suit couples with different tastes. Seating accommodates varying heights, making it comfortable for dates with noticeable height differences.

People are saying

"The Japanese Food here is great, and the staff is super friendly."

"I found the lunch and dinner specials to be excellent deals."

"The sushi rolls here are big and a great value."

Good to know

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The lunch and dinner specials offer excellent deals for budget-conscious diners.

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You must order and pay at the counter before receiving your food.

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Parking is ample, but allow extra time to find a spot during busy hours.

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Izakaya restaurant

Cozy Japanese restaurant with wood and traditional decorations creates a warm, inviting atmosphere that feels like a family-run spot in Japan. Comfortable seating and a popular sushi bar encourage casual interaction. Known for authentic Japanese comfort food and fresh, high-quality sushi.

Fresh sashimi like salmon, yellowtail, and clam stands out with quality cuts not common elsewhere. Hot plates such as Okonomiyaki, Katsu Curry, and sukiyaki udon offer rich, authentic flavors with tender meats and well-balanced broths.

Not a spot for dates due to the staff's lack of friendliness toward non-Asian guests. Food brings nostalgic Okinawa flavors, but the atmosphere does not cater to couples.

People are saying

"The Japanese food here, especially the sushi and curry, is really good."

"I found the Japanese food here to be delicious and authentic."

"This is not a place to take a date."

Good to know

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Parking is available but can be challenging to find during busy times.

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Reservations are not accepted, so expect to wait during peak hours.

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The restaurant only accepts up to two cards for splitting the bill.

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Sushi restaurant

Modern Korean-style sushi restaurant pulses with K-pop music and videos, creating an energetic, lively atmosphere. Bright, loud space combines karaoke rooms and a bar, attracting groups looking for fun nights out. Tables feature call buttons for quick service, enhancing convenience amid vibrant energy.

Fresh sushi and Korean dishes combine with crispy fried rice and delicious miso soup. The Pink Panda roll features perfectly fried shrimp tempura and fresh fish, offering flavorful, well-presented plates.

Energy feels nice but service runs slow even with empty tables. Food tastes pretty good but some guests experienced sickness after dining.

People are saying

"The food here is amazing and super fresh."

"The Japanese food here is delicious and super fresh."

"The food here is pretty good for Date Spots."

Good to know

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The karaoke room costs $40 with a minimum of one hour, and charges start after every 10 minutes.

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Parking is challenging, but there is a dedicated parking lot right out front.

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Happy hour runs from 5pm to 8pm Sunday through Thursday.

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