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Relaxing date spots

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Hookah bar

The lounge offers a cozy atmosphere with ambient lighting perfect for relaxing or working quietly. Its intimate vibe makes it ideal for dates or casual hangouts. Guests enjoy customizable music and some of the best hookah flavors in the city.

A charming and relaxing atmosphere sets the tone for chilling, working on a laptop, or enjoying hookah. A good soundtrack adds to the calm vibe, making it easy to clear your mind and feel at ease.

Cozy atmosphere creates a quiet lounge ideal for one-on-one or first dates. The setting suits calm, intimate evenings and casual hangouts with friends.

People are saying

"The Cozy hookah here is smooth and well-prepared."

"It's a really chill, cozy spot with a warm vibe."

"The service here makes you feel like an old friend."

Good to know

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Happy hour offers affordable drinks from 4-6pm on weekdays.

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Karaoke starts at 10pm on Thursdays with a two-drink minimum.

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An automatic 18% gratuity is added to all bills.

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Coffee shop

Coffee shop with Art Deco stylings and a 1920s speakeasy vibe offers a quiet, sophisticated atmosphere with soft jazz music playing in the background. Seating is comfortable and thoughtfully curated for relaxing or unhurried conversation. Occasional lively moments occur when families visit, but overall the space feels calm and classy.

A relaxed, intimate atmosphere sets the tone with a friendly staff and an environment designed for unwinding. The interior invites unhurried conversations and quiet moments to relax or work.

Coffee here hits the spot with iced lattes that balance sweetness and strength well. The owner remembers couples from past visits, adding a personal touch to the cozy atmosphere.

People are saying

"I found the coffee here to be absolutely beautiful and tasted that good."

"This Relaxing Spot has the best lattes and coffee I've ever had."

"The coffee here is smooth, creamy, and perfectly balanced."

Good to know

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Embriago Coffee offers a spacious seating area for customers.

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Credit cards and mobile payments are accepted at Embriago Coffee.

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The coffee shop has a top-tier menu for coffee connoisseurs.

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Georgian restaurant with stylish interior and separate seating areas creates a warm, inviting atmosphere enhanced by live jazz music. The space balances cozy and elegant vibes, suitable for both conversation and dancing. Guests enjoy authentic cuisine paired with exceptional Georgian wines.

Atmosphere feels elegant yet cozy, fitting for a relaxed evening or a romantic dinner. Large groups find it very relaxed to gather here.

Offers a perfect date night setting with a relaxed vibe. Great spot to stop by for a drink and enjoy the moment.

People are saying

"The food here is amazing, fresh, and perfectly balanced."

"The food here is so fresh, flavorful, and homemade โ€“ perfect for Date Spots."

"It's a truly relaxing spot, with perfectly curated music and lighting."

Good to know

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Happy hour wine is available for $7.

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Live music occurs from 6 to 11 PM.

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Events are held in the back of the restaurant.

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Sushi restaurant

Intimate setting below street level features black stone countertops and a brightly lit white brick wall behind the sushi station. Atmosphere stays cozy and calm, balancing refinement and approachability with a friendly vibe. Diners start simultaneously, allowing the chef to serve courses in unison, enhancing the shared experience.

The spot offers a very relaxed ambiance with a consistently calm atmosphere that makes it easy to unwind.

Special occasions get extra attention with custom sushi cakes and thoughtful celebrations. Reservations often mark birthdays and holidays with a personal touch.

People are saying

"The omakase here is fresh, delicious, and crafted with precision."

"It's the perfect, calm, and peaceful spot to unwind."

"The sushi here is excellent and the fish is so fresh."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended, especially for weekend dining.

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Expect a higher price point due to the omakase style.

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The dining experience is typically around two hours long.

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Painting studio

Bright, lively decor and open windows create a fun, energetic vibe. The open bar and DJ add to the social scene, making it great for a relaxed night out. Perfect for couples or groups seeking a creative date spot with easygoing painting classes.

A relaxed atmosphere sets the tone with drinks and painting creating an enjoyable vibe. The class stays fun and easygoing, making it a solid choice for a chill night out.

Paint 'N Pour offers a perfect date night setting with a relaxed, creative vibe. It suits couples, solo visitors, and groups looking for a fun, interactive experience.

People are saying

"The staff made the experience so fun and memorable."

"This is the most fun date spot with an electric party atmosphere."

"This paint and pour experience was so fun and relaxing."

Good to know

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The session lasts for 2 hours with an open bar.

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No painting experience is needed to attend the event.

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The experience included an unlimited open bar and great food.

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Ramen restaurant

Tiny ramen spot with five seats and dark, moody decor creates an intimate, homey atmosphere. Soft jazz music plays in the background, inviting quiet conversation. Kitchen setup supports efficient, solo cooking, enhancing the unique, personal dining experience.

Cozy seating for just four people creates an intimate atmosphere. Service stays impeccable while the vibe remains relaxed and fun.

Great for an intimate date night or a celebratory lunch date. Works well for both a quick meal and a romantic or special occasion.

People are saying

"The ramen broth here is rich, flavorful, and deeply comforting."

"The ramen broth here is so rich and flavorful."

"The steak ramen here is something I will dream about for weeks."

Good to know

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Reservations are required to dine at this restaurant.

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You must order your entire meal and drinks and pay ahead of time when you reserve.

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Reservations open on the 1st of every month for the following month.

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Wine bar

Small, intimate space with rustic brick walls and low lighting creates a cozy, relaxed atmosphere. Background music plays at a comfortable level, supporting quiet conversation. Frequented for wine selections including eastern European and organic options, it suits dates and casual gatherings.

Chill and not crowded, the spot offers an intimate and stylish vibe with relaxing music. The atmosphere stays cozy and laid-back every time.

Cozy atmosphere suits first dates and quiet nights with a glass of wine. The spot works well for intimate conversations and casual outings with friends or parents.

People are saying

"It's a really cool and relaxed wine bar."

"The food here is tasty, perfect for Date Spots."

"It's such a chill and intimate spot with relaxing music."

Good to know

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Happy hour runs daily from 4-7pm with great deals.

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Booking for large parties is highly recommended.

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Pricing is around $50 per person for a couple of glasses of quality wine.

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Tiny coffee shop blends craft coffee and bubble tea with a cozy, homely interior and street seating for people watching. Atmosphere stays peaceful and community-oriented with soothing music and uplifting wall messages. Empanadas stand out as a distinctive food offering enjoyed by many.

Cozy seating and a calm atmosphere create a relaxing spot to unwind. The space feels intimate and quiet, ideal for taking a break with a bite or coffee.

Empanadas stand out as a favorite, praised for their flavor. The spot offers both coffee and chai, catering to different tastes, making it a cozy choice for couples.

People are saying

"I loved the empanadas; they were the best I've ever had."

"It's a cozy, relaxing spot perfect for taking a break."

"You have to try the empanada; it's the best I've ever had."

Good to know

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The cafe serves breakfast and a variety of coffee options.

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The cost for two coffees after tax and tip is $19.

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The location is easy to miss; look for the 'empanada' banner.

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Hidden behind a hair salon, this intimate speakeasy seats about a dozen guests in a vintage, tastefully decorated space. Dim lighting and vinyl jazz music create a relaxing, classic vibe reminiscent of Tokyo bars. The atmosphere suits quiet conversation and enjoying unique sake-based cocktails.

Dimly lit space with light jazz music creates a calm atmosphere. Quality drinks make it ideal for a relaxed night out or unwinding after dinner.

Super intimate atmosphere suits first dates or quiet nights out. Works well for small groups or impressing someone special.

People are saying

"The bartenders here are so knowledgeable about sake."

"It's a cozy, intimate speakeasy perfect for a low-key date night."

"It's a cozy, intimate spot with dim lights and great music."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended due to limited seating.

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The bar is hidden behind a hair salon; look for the secret door.

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The speakeasy takes reservations via DM on Instagram.

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Tattoo studio offers a cozy, zen space tucked behind a hotel bar in an artsy alley filled with street art culture. The atmosphere stays welcoming and chill, with a clean, wood-interior aesthetic that feels like a spa. Music choice is flexible, and a rooftop terrace provides magnificent city views.

Welcoming atmosphere and relaxed vibes make the experience comfortable. Staff maintain a professional approach that helps ease tension, even for those with low pain tolerance.

People are saying

"They made me feel so comfortable and at home."

"Liv's skillful hand made the tattooing process fast and virtually painless."

"The artists here are so attentive to detail and bring your ideas to life."

Good to know

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Booking an appointment at Unscripted Ink Tattoo Shop is recommended for best availability.

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The tattoo shop is located inside a hotel, making it a unique experience.

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Prices for tattoos are reasonable considering the quality of work provided.

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Wine bar

Small wine bar with a sleek, Izakaya-inspired design offers an intimate and sophisticated atmosphere. Exceptional hospitality and an extensive selection of classic and unique wines create a welcoming vibe for dates or quiet drinks. Limited seating and a hidden entrance add to the exclusive, cozy feel.

Low lighting creates an intimate setting that feels calm. Friendly staff and great drinks add to the relaxing atmosphere for a chill evening.

Intimate and raffinate setting suits date nights and small groups. The space works well for a quiet drink or impressing someone on a date.

People are saying

"I found the wine selection here to be great and flavor-filled."

"The wine selection here is extensive and expertly curated."

"This wine bar is a fantastic relaxing spot with a top-notch selection."

Good to know

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Make a reservation or be prepared to wait on weekends.

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There are monthly wine tastings and chef collaborations.

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The happy hour is generous, offering good value before 8pm.

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Chinese restaurant

The place blends cozy decor with creative Chinese touches and subtle jazz for a relaxing spot. It serves childhood favorites like Peking duck, perfect for date spots. The classy vibe and iPad ordering add ease and elegance.

Stylish ambiance and subtle jazz music create a relaxed and pleasant atmosphere. The space feels both elegant and comfortable, making it ideal for a relaxed yet refined experience.

Offers many childhood favorites like Peking duck and a dessert with dates and peach gum. Suitable for both intimate dates and large groups, fitting classy date nights or celebrations.

People are saying

"The food here is wonderfully prepared and flavorful."

"The soup dumplings at these Date Spots are juicy and delicate."

"The Peking Duck here has perfectly crisp skin and is bursting with flavor."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended for weekend dining to avoid long waits.

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Dining time is limited to one hour during peak hours.

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A promotion offers free steamed pork soup dumplings with orders over $30 from noon to 3 pm, Monday to Friday.

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Cocktail bar

Speakeasy-style cocktail bar with a vintage Asian pharmacy exterior offers a stylish and intimate atmosphere with dim lighting and warm decor. Asian and Irish fusion cocktails feature unique ingredients like toasted rice and mango sticky rice flavors. Group seating and cucumber water at the bar add to the inviting and distinctive experience.

Stylish and inviting ambiance with dim lighting creates a relaxed and intimate atmosphere. The vibe stays chilled and classy, making it easy to unwind anytime.

Cozy and intimate space creates a perfect setting for a first date or a quiet evening. The vibe suits both couple drinks and small gatherings, making it ideal for date nights or celebrations.

People are saying

"The cocktails here are creative and balanced, using interesting Asian ingredients."

"The creative Asian-inspired cocktails here are amazing and fun."

"The cocktails here are uniquely crafted with surprising, balanced flavors."

Good to know

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Reservations are needed on Fridays and Saturdays as the venue gets packed.

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Cocktail prices range from $19 to $21, while small bites are $14 to $16.

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Happy Hour is from 6-8 P.M. with special pricing.

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Cocktail bar

Chic cocktail bar with moody lighting and intimate, trendy design creates a balanced atmosphere that suits both date nights and casual outings. Music stays upbeat yet conversational, enhancing the vibe without overwhelming. Space feels dark and stylish, offering a cool, well-thought-out setting.

Quiet interior creates a calm atmosphere to unwind or catch up with friends. It works well for a relaxed date setting.

Moody lighting and well-presented cocktails create a relaxed vibe for date nights. The spot suits small groups and offers a place to unwind or impress a date with a bite and drinks.

People are saying

"The cocktails were amazing and made to perfection."

"The lighting and vibe make it a perfect spot for date night."

"I found this place to be a hidden gem with great drinks and awesome music."

Good to know

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Mocktails are available upon request, even if not listed on the menu.

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The bar has a cozy atmosphere, ideal for conversations.

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The menu offers a good variety despite being short.

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American restaurant

Interactive art installations with token-activated payphones and whispering marble busts create a playful, sophisticated atmosphere. The space blends new and old school vibes with an outdoor patio featuring a fire pit. Energetic music from DJs and live performances keep the mood lively and engaging.

Stylish yet relaxed atmosphere invites you to stay all night. The vibe balances lively energy with calm, making it easy to unwind.

Offers a mix of upscale dinner and casual spots to watch an NBA Finals game. Works well for first dates and group outings.

People are saying

"The food here is exceptional, especially the short rib."

"It's a stylish, relaxed, and cool spot with a great vibe."

"It's a super fun space with an immersive art experience."

Good to know

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Pinky Swear is a multi-use venue that blends an art gallery, restaurant, and club.

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The bar offers cocktails, mocktails, mojitos, and soda.

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Expect a vibrant atmosphere with art and entertainment.

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Rooftop bar offers stunning city views with floor-to-ceiling windows and a large outdoor seating area. Atmosphere stays relaxed and friendly, perfect for quiet conversations and unwinding. Crowd tends to be calm, making it a great spot for a quiet date or drinks with a view.

Chic and vibrant ambiance combines with a relaxed atmosphere to help unwind. The rooftop bar offers a gorgeous view and attracts only relaxed guests.

Quiet atmosphere suits happy hour and date nights well. It creates a setting that enhances special moments and celebrations.

People are saying

"The view from the rooftop bar is amazing, especially the skyline."

"The rooftop views here are breathtaking and gorgeous."

"The views from this date spot are amazing and impressive."

Good to know

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Expect a lively atmosphere, especially during weekends.

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Reservations may be recommended during peak hours.

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Parking options nearby can be limited; consider public transport.

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Cocktail bar

Small, intimate cocktail bar with Japanese-inspired design and meticulous attention to detail in glassware and ice preparation. Atmosphere feels cozy and elevated, with rockabilly and classic rock music setting a chill vibe. Space often gets cramped and operates on a first come, first serve basis without reservations.

A relaxed but trendy vibe creates a refined retreat to unwind. Thoughtfully crafted drinks add to the calm atmosphere that feels like an oasis for busy professionals.

Adorable and really cute space sets a cozy mood for a date night. It works well as a cocktail spot for a date or late-night meet up.

People are saying

"The cocktails are elegant, balanced, and expertly crafted."

"The cocktails here are delicious and beautifully made."

"It's a cozy, beautifully designed spot to unwind."

Good to know

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You must have your full party present to join the waitlist.

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The bar does not accept reservations.

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The bar gets busy quickly, so it is advisable to arrive early.

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Thai restaurant

Cozy yet elegant space blends Thai-inspired decor with warm lighting and lush plants. Cocktails use Thai herbs and spices, matching authentic dishes. Intimate setting offers a relaxed vibe perfect for unwinding or a stylish date night.

A relaxed and cozy vibe fills the space, making it easy to unwind. The atmosphere carries a good energy that complements enjoying a meal or just chilling on a hot day.

Cozy yet elegant atmosphere suits a date night or catching up with friends. Offers a relaxed setting that feels both intimate and stylish.

People are saying

"The flavors here are bold, authentic, and pretty spicy."

"The food here is flavorful and perfectly balanced."

"The presentation of the food here is beautiful, like a magazine."

Good to know

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There is a food safety issue here; proceed with caution.

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Customers should stay away from the seat next to the wall to avoid being scratched.

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Customers are advised to explore Southern Thai cuisine instead of typical pad thai.

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Cocktail bar

Bar hides behind an art gallery with a cool entrance and intimate speakeasy vibe. Loud music and a live DJ create a club atmosphere where people dance and socialize. Cocktails feature unique, well-balanced flavors enjoyed in a busy, trendy setting.

A trendy and relaxed vibe sets the tone, making it easy to linger. The chill music adds to the relaxing atmosphere.

A chill bar with a nice vibe makes it a solid choice for a date. It works well for catching up over drinks in a relaxed setting.

People are saying

"It's a cool speakeasy with a unique, intimate vibe."

"It's a hidden speakeasy with a chill vibe and low lighting."

"It's a hidden gem with a speakeasy vibe, perfect for date spots."

Good to know

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It is recommended to make reservations for the speakeasy.

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Arriving early at Fig 19 is recommended if you want to snag a good spot.

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The entrance to the place is from the back of the art gallery.

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Large Irish bar with spacious layout and multiple rooms including outdoor seating along the bar. Atmosphere stays chill with loud music that grows louder as the night progresses. Crowd enjoys a real dance floor and lively energy, especially during busy times.

Helpful staff create a welcoming vibe that encourages guests to relax. The spot draws people looking to unwind and socialize in a calm setting.

Offers a casual dinner setting that suits couples well. The vibe can feel like stepping into a classic movie scene, adding a unique touch to dates.

People are saying

"The bar food, especially the burgers and quesadillas, is really good."

"This place is a great spot for a casual date with a lively vibe."

"The burgers here are so good, a truly relaxing spot for lunch."

Good to know

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Brunch is served until 4 PM on weekends, with a popular menu.

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Happy hour runs until 7 PM with discounted drinks and appetizers.

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No tap water is provided; bottled water is available for purchase.

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Graffiti-covered alley leads to a hotel with a grungy 80s vibe and arts-filled interior. Rooms offer quiet comfort with floor-to-ceiling windows and skyline views. Complimentary morning coffee and pastries add a cozy, modern touch.

Cozy and lively lobby offers a great spot for working or relaxing. The interior courtyard and downstairs outdoor areas provide pleasant, quiet spaces to unwind away from the city's hustle.

People are saying

"The beds were comfortable and the rooms were clean and quiet."

"The vibe here is amazing, making it a great spot for dates."

"The view from the balcony is a breathtaking, relaxing spot."

Good to know

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The rooftop bar is closed on Fridays for private events.

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A $25 cover charge applies on days with special parties at the rooftop.

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Breakfast includes 2 pastries per person, served until 11am.

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Filipino restaurant

Narra wood tables and Filipino decor create an intimate, narrow space with a cozy, warm atmosphere. Tagalog songs play softly, enhancing the cultural ambiance and reflecting Filipino hospitality. The setting feels informal yet full of soul and character, offering a unique dining experience.

Cozy and welcoming ambiance creates a relaxed evening vibe. Dining here offers a calm atmosphere ideal for catching up and unwinding.

Ambiance suits intimate dates with a calm, inviting vibe. It works well for special meals and quiet conversations.

People are saying

"The Filipino Tasting Menu here is delicious and unique."

"The Filipino food here is an elevated, unique culinary experience."

"The food here is outstanding, with every dish a burst of flavor."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended because seats fill up quickly and are limited.

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The price of the tasting menu is $185 per person with a fixed gratuity of 22%.

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Parking is free if you book an 8pm slot.

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Italian restaurant

Italian restaurant offers intimate and cozy ambiance with luxurious outdoor space featuring marble tables and sliding glass doors. The setting suits romantic dinners, with exceptional pasta dishes and an outstanding collection of Amari enhancing the experience.

Soft lighting and a carefully curated ambiance create a comfy and relaxing atmosphere. Polished yet relaxed service adds to the feeling of being well taken care of while at ease.

Cozy atmosphere creates an intimate setting for a romantic date night. Seating in the bar area or main dining room enhances the warm ambiance perfect for special occasions or catching up.

People are saying

"The homemade Italian food pastas were perfectly made."

"It's a cozy and intimate spot, perfect for date nights."

"The food here is expertly crafted and beyond delicious."

Good to know

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Reservations are recommended for the pasta making class due to limited spots.

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The pasta making class includes making different pasta shapes and sauces.

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Participants enjoy a tasting menu at the end of the pasta making class.

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Minimal design and clean environment create a peaceful, calming atmosphere. Skilled therapists use multiple massage techniques including deep tissue and hot rocks, offering excellent value. Thin walls allow some noise from neighboring rooms, but overall the space feels refreshing and restful.

Massages use deeply therapeutic and hot stone techniques that promote strong relaxation and energy. Staff create a calm atmosphere that helps people feel relaxed enough to fall asleep.

Offers couples massages like Swedish hot stone and aromatherapy. Booking through Groupon is straightforward and includes tax. Suitable for spontaneous plans with a partner.

People are saying

"Coco and Lee's spa massages are like targeted muscle rehab."

"Coco's massage feels like a full reset for your muscles."

"The massages here are blissful, with the perfect amount of roughness."

Good to know

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Expect a 30% cash tax charge on services, not disclosed upfront.

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The appointment lasts a full 60 minutes without feeling rushed.

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Walk-in prices are great and avoid complaints about tax charges.

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Hotel combines loud rooftop nightclub and vibrant bar scene with comfortable, stylish rooms offering stunning city views. Energy stays high late into the night, making it lively but not quiet. Design feels modern and unique, with amenities that support an active social atmosphere.

A cozy corner offers a quiet place to unwind. Staff store bags and provide a friendly send-off that feels genuine.

Offers accessible accommodations with support for guests needing mobility aids. Staff arrange local wheelchair delivery to the hotel for convenience.

People are saying

"The hotel staff were so lovely and helpful."

"The staff here makes it a great spot for a date."

"The staff's genuine care makes it a truly relaxing spot."

Good to know

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The rooftop party runs from 9 PM to 4 AM, five days a week.

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Expect loud music from the rooftop until 4 AM.

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The hotel charges a mandatory destination fee of $30 per day.

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Vegan restaurant

Enormous space with two levels and bright pink decor creates a trendy, energetic vibe. Music plays at near club volume, making conversation difficult but adding to a lively atmosphere. Features include two bars and seating for large groups, attracting friends and birthday gatherings.

Relaxed atmosphere and attentive service create a pleasant vibe with kind faces. Some areas feel less suitable for a relaxing experience.

A cute spot for an intimate date or meeting friends, offering a relaxed vibe. The spring roll stands out as a memorable dish to share.

People are saying

"We waited about 20 minutes in line for food, learning others had reservations too."

"The food here is amazing, perfect for a date spot."

"The food here is so flavorful and tasty."

Good to know

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You only have one hour to eat.

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The drag brunch supports KoreanKnine Rescue.

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The pours during happy hour are ample and set a decadent mood.

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